Guys, would you prefer a girl with saggy boobs to wear a shirt during sex?

If I have sex one day, I will wear a shirt and always will. My boobs are on the bigger side, sag, have strawberry skin, stretch marks, my nipples are very low and a few scars. My stomach has many stretch marks as well. I’m 21 and there’s no excuse for my boobs to look this way and not look like most girls my age. I personally don’t need the “Guys don’t care” line because I KNOW my breasts are a turn off for any man, which is why I will always wear a shirt. Would you prefer a woman with saggy boobs to wear a shirt during sex?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Large breasts are simply heavier. They aren't ugly or "saggy" or any of that noise. That's how normal, large breasts look.

    Your self-consciousness and self-loathing are not needed.

    Be your best self. Scars and all. No woman, not even the women you think look perfect, likes all of what they see in the mirror. It's not about physical perfection, it's about having a million messages in life telling you that you're not good enough.

    You get enough from the outside. You don't need to keep them going by telling yourself hurtful things.

    Many men loooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove big breasts and know full well that there is no metal bolt in your chest to hold them in permanent "perky" status. Stretch marks - I used to fret about mine like they were evidence of a personal failure. They aren't, and men know that too.

    Relax a little and learn to see what is beautiful about you.

  • I wouldn’t recommend it but If you’ve already decided to always wear a shirt, why ask the question?

Most Helpful Guys

  • My choice of "perfect" breasts are smaller ones. But I have always appreciated pretty much all sizes. I don't know if there could be a "deal breaker". But what you described is not a deal breaker. Your description of your boobs sounds normal for many with large boobs.

    So they are not a deal breaker, they are not a turn off, and since they are a woman's boobs, they are sexy to me. If I am going to have sex with a woman, then I want to see her - all of her! No shirt. Seeing your breasts would be a trun on and not seeing them would be a disappointment that I would not want with someone I am having sex with.

    And I think that is true of most men, so I recommend you forget wearing a shirt during sexual activity!

  • For any man that likes you and your body, he knows exactly what he's getting when you both start undressing. Believe it or not, there are men who find saggy breasts to be a turn ON, not a turn OFF. It isn't me, but I've had this debate with enough men to know that you should stop assuming things. Whether or not you believe it, there are literally millions of men who like larger, heavier, saggier, more misshapen, scarred, inverted or high/low set nipples, and every variation of boob you can possibly imagine, and then some. If you don't think I'm right, look at the internet sometime.

    • I know a man can’t tell what imperfections a woman has until the clothes come off. They can tell the shape, but not imperfections that are simply a turn off to most men. It’s hard for me to believe that saggy boobs are a turn on for guys. I’d rather have smaller and perkier breasts that pretty much all men consider a turn on, than gross saggy breasts that I have to hope a man will like, when I know all of them don’t. I know most men don’t like flaws and imperfections, so why would that be a turn on when it’s visually unappealing? I’d rather keep my shirt on than disappoint someone.

    • I can tell you right now that I wouldn't like them. But every man is not the same, and once again whether or not you choose to believe that there are men who like imperfections, and that there are men who don't even view these things as imperfections to begin with, that doesn't make it less true. If you don't want to risk disappointing someone, leave your shirt on. That's your prerogative. But that has no bearing on the fact that your body isn't disappointing to everyone.

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  • Wearing a shirt is a dealbreaker for me. I want my girl naked for sex.

    • Even if she has saggy boobs?

    • What you think of mine

    • Yes, even if she has saggy boobs. I've been with a couple of girls with big, saggy boobs before. Still wanted them naked, and still enjoyed playing with their boobs.

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  • That's not a turnoff for me at all. Sometimes I like a shirt on for both of us because its just a naughty idea as in removing only what is needed to get it inside. More of a novelty because we feel like we are being naughty students or something lol. As far as breasts go during sex, I love a woman looking more natural because its real. Breasts are beautiful when they are real. I would be very turned on to see breasts while having intercourse no matter firm or saggy. The truth is that most natural breasts are more saggy anyway. Fashion has made it out to be that firm is more of a rule verses an exception where as reality is that its the other way around.

  • Hell no, as you already know im going to tell you all guys love boobs, its just some guys love different kinds. Find yourself a guy who likes your boobies

  • well first i would like a girl not to have saggy boobs. sorry. however don't wear a shirt boobs are boobs and guys love them it's a primal instinct from birth we are basically trained to love boobs

    • Don’t apologize! You’re simply stating something that most men are afraid to admit. Thank you for your honesty.

    • no problem but still dont feel bad about yourself there are 7 billion people on this planet. there is somebody for you

  • No shirts.

  • If a guy has sex with you he obviously likes what he sees. so don't hide it.

    • Words of wisdom!

  • No. If I care about someone enough to be intimate with them, I would not let something so trivial be used to shame her into covering herself in front of me.

  • Absolutely not. But it’d be fun if she tried

  • I would prefer to do it in the dark rather than touch a t-shirt

  • Nahh, saggy boobs still look good

  • No take it off I want to see everything you got

  • Shirts are evil. Saggy boobs are fine, at least I know they're real rather than those rock hard implant boobs.

  • No, I would not prefer it.

  • Usually you end up with breasts like that if you have been overweight.

  • I like saggy boobs as well, so I would prefer her to be naked. Although if she wants to stay clothed, satin nighties and camisoles are always very sexy.

  • Hell, no! Boobs are one of the most important part of the woman's body that keeps my erection!

    • You should be completely naked.

  • I can see why big boobs can be seen as unattractive. They drop down like sacks. Know you don't want to hear it but some guys don't care. Do this wear a shirt and wait for them to take it off. Or keep your bra on. Thanks my two cents hope it helps.

  • If you are not fat, I wouldn't care about these things.

    If you are, I wouldn't have sex with you.

    I prefer smaller boobs but they are a secondary thing. Don't contribute too much to the turnon for me.

  • Stretch marks are fine my girlfriend now has a noticeable c section scar even that doesn't bother me either way I'd like to see my girls but nekid if you feel like your boobs are a turn off then do you that's all I have to say

  • Not at all.. I would not want any clothes on..

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