Why does he spank my pussy?

when me and my boyfriend have sex (lately) he's been spanking my pussy when im reverse cowgirl. it doesn’t necessarily feel good
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  • Sounds like he is young dumb and full of well u know the saying. I would guess he saw it somewhere, porn most likely, or someone told him it was something cool to do. To each their own, some might like it but if you don't like it or it does not feel good to you then you NEED to say something and not just let him keep doing it. Open communication is important, I just suggest considering how you tell him. Don't wait until you guys are in the middle of doing it and try telling him, instead while u guys are just hanging out bring it up and even possibly offer an alternative action. Example: " hey you know when we are having sex and I'm reverse cowgirl and your are slapping my pussy well honestly it is not comfortable is sorta hurts. But instead if you want to try something instead of slapping my pussy try playing with my clit like this (u might have to show him what you like what feels good to you) remember us men might have 2 heads but we still can't read minds if you communicate and even show us or tell us what you like many of us will go out of our way to please SO.

    • its not that it hurts its just pointless and kind of makes that tingle feeling go away lol. he's not super awesome at fingering or eating out but he's going at banging and I don't know how to tell him he's not good at the othet stuff i normally squeeze my legs and make him stop and go onto doing it but i want him to be good at the other stuff I don't know what to do to without being a bitch we been together 1 and a half years :((

    • You take his hand in your hand guide it right to you pussy and using his fingers / hand you touch yourself exactly how you enjoy it only instead of using your hand you are controlling his and his fingers are doing the touching. Teach by example and communicate openly in a non threatening manner. He might just be willing to learn how to please his woman better.

  • Maybe you need to tell him it does not feel that good. He might think it does. Some girls do like to have their pussy spanked. Communication in the bedroom is very important.

    • i didn’t want to hurt his feelings or ruin the mood by saying it feels weird

    • The talk to him outside the bedroom. Just be nice about it, and if he gets his feelings hurt because you are not too comfortable with something that is happening... uuh he needs to man up and deal with it.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Watching porn. He decided to try what he saw that he thought was hot and that you'd like since the porn star was writhing in pleasure, so he thinks you would to. lol
    Just tell him you're not into it or grab his hand and show him how you want it.

  • Tell him to stop and next time he wants to engage in painful play, it will be discussed and negotiated.

  • 😂 legit made me laugh. Just say “vagina spanking is not something I enjoy, please refrain, thank you”

  • Because he hates animals?

    Lol he's probably been watching too much porn.

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  • Porn gives shit ideas to inexperienced guys.

    • ^^^ This ^^^

  • Probably has seen it in porn. Communicate that you're not into it.

  • Could be a turn on for him. If you not into it, tell him.

  • Ya it's like he is punishing you. Inspite of spank your pussy if i would be in his place I will smooch deep your pussy in my mouth and swallow your sperm. I just love it 😘😘

  • Guide him, tell him, show him what you want. Guys are not mind-readers. Most of them are quite frankly, clueless.

  • It's probably something he saw in porn. If it doesn't feel good, then let him know that.

  • This is probably something you should ask him lmao

  • How does he do that in reverse cowgirl? Seems difficult if all that body is moving lol.

  • I've never heard of such a thing. Spank booty, sure, but spank a vagina?

  • Maybe he seen it in a porno

  • Ask him duh

  • He's been watching too much porn!

  • Ouch! That's mean! If anything, he should focus on your butt, It's padded down there, and wouldn't hurt too badly.

  • First tell him. If you say nothing he’ll thing he’s fabulous. Some girls like it. Some don’t. Tell him it doesn’t help you get off. Because that is what he’s trying to do, to get you off

  • The way you word the question made me laugh so hard 😂😂

    You should tell him it doesn't feels good and to refrain for doing it. lol

    • dont be a jerk

    • @Car_lover18 who are you?

    • a person

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  • Tell him it hurts you

  • He saw it in a porn and wanted to try it

  • Lol.

  • Tell him that ask him to rub it instead

  • I bet she's been naughty then

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