Wild sex or romantic sex?

Guys, gals - Variety is the spice of life and we all tend to like different things depending on the mood, and while the lines can get blurry in practice, IN GENERAL, do you prefer sex that is romantic and loving - tender, gentle - or more animalistic - wild, maybe one partner is dominant the other submissive, etc?

Prefer sex to be wild and animalistic.
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Prefer sex to be romantic.
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  • Yea the mix is very important, but in the end I asked myself this question; If I had to chose only one for the rest of my life, which would it be?

    And the answer is definitely romantic.

    Sometimes sex is just sex. Sometimes its like taking your first breath after spending your whole life with your head underwater.

    Sometimes sex is a fire inside of you, wild and untamed. But sometimes its like the burning embers of a forge: red hot, steady, and far hotter than any fire, with the power to forge steel bonds and reshape a relationship.

    It's rare, but those moments are worth more than the rest of the sex combined.

    • Absolutely magnificent reply. Poetically expressed. Thanks for your response - and you are right on the money.

  • Shit more guys then girls want it's to be romantic...

    • Surprised me too. Although, if you give it some thought, it makes sense scientifically. Evolutionary psychology says that women won't have sex until they feel that there is love, whereas man don't believe that it is love until there is sex. (Further, men actually need sex. Men who don't get it somewhat regularly tend to be more easily depressed, have more health issues, tend to be more aggressive, and die earlier.) So, in that sense, add it all up and romantic sex is more important to a man.

    • Yeah I guess maybe at first but after you're in a relationship for a while more wild sex

    • You should go into the social sciences. Oddly enough, that is kind of how it worked with my girlfriend and I.

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  • Both but romantic sex if good for the heart. Although wild and animalistic can be just as romantic. I still consider it making love. Just because of the things my husband says and the way he touches me during.

    • Thanks for responding. My girlfriend is like that, too. She finds even animalistic sex to have a romantic side. She said it makes her feel submissive but owned and protected. I get it, I guess - but I honestly didn't think so many other women held such a similar view. I have to say, it works for me, too, at a couple of different levels. It plays to my instinct to be dominant and the protector. Looking at the numbers, I guess that is more a factor than I thought. Thanks again.

  • Rough sex is so much better. It is nice to have romantic sex every once in a while to change things up a bit.

    • Here again, this surprises me. This is going way different than I expected. Guys were much more romantic than I expected, gals a lot less. If you don't mind, and I know this would be kind of hard to explain in intellectual terms, why you prefer the one to the other? Thanks so much for replying to the survey.

    • I can’t give you a logical answer, it’s just more fun. Also you can get all the romance you need with cuddling afterwards or showering together or stuff like that.

    • Okay. Yeah, I know, I'm asking to you to explain something intellectually that is in your heart ---and well, other parts of the anatomy. That is asking a lot, actually. Thanks and appreciate your reply.

  • I prefer sex to be romantic but it's always nice to unleash the beast every now and then

    • Thanks for replying. I have to say - and I hope this does not sound old fashioned or something - but your response was more what I expected. My girlfriend loves wild sex from time to time for reasons I mentioned elsewhere, but in general, she tends to want to be more romantic. Appreciate your reply. Thanks so much.

  • If I care about him, romantic. If it’s just a hot guy. Rough wild sex will do 😍

    • Thanks for your reply. The funny part of your answer is that it probably plays into every guy's fears. Data shows that men tend to see sex as proof of love - these are tendencies. I say this is good hearted jest - I bet you have broken a few hearts!! (On a more serious note - the poll, which grant is not scientific - is now tipping overwhelmingly toward romance. Who knew? - and they say romance is dead. By the way, given your answer - how did you answer the poll itself? Thanks again for responding.

    • So never date you ever. Only hook ups. Got it.

    • @Kiran04 Relax. I was kidding. For what it is worth, I have been with the same gal for over ten years.

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  • Wild, hot and passionate I guess 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • Both, but if I had to choose between the two, like if I could only have one for the rest of my life I'd pick romantic. A relationship with no romance at all is no good for me.

  • Wild is best, but it's good to have a healthy combination.

    • Agreed, but if you don't mind my asking - and of course I just posted the poll - I expected guys to tend to animalistic and women to be romantic. The guys have split and - grant you are the only woman to reply so far - women have been for animalistic. I realize that this may be hard to know intellectually, but if you could explain why you prefer the one to the other. I am curious. (My girlfriend has said animalistic sex makes her feel submissive and protected? Is that it?) Thanks for responding.

    • Definitely would depend on the female. I prefer rough sex because I'm submissive to the core. I like being pulled around, bossed around, and dominated. It's very hard to explain that in an intellectual way, you're right on that one. My boyfriend is extremely caring/kind/loving when we aren't being intimate, so it's a turn-on to see the other side of him when he gets into it. If it's rough enough, you can sometimes get a chance to forget about whatever problems have been on your mind because it's a lot more intense and demanding of your attention than slow, romantic sex is. I think it's also just my taste in sex.

    • Thanks for replying. From the guy's perspective I totally agree. When I am at my most animalistic it is like there is nothing else. It is totally about the f***ing and she is all mine. You DO forget everything else - and it does satisfy my need to be the dominant male. Anyhow. thanks again for replying. Really appreciate it.

  • I’d want it wild because oddly enough romantic sex would turn me off and make me feel weird. Wild and crazy is for me lol 😝

  • Romantic and slow sex is the best.

  • Both. But what may begin as romantic usually turns wild and passionate.

  • Primal and animalistic!

    • Rawr

  • There's a time for all of it :) but I'd prefer passionate romantic sex on a regular basis.

  • Gotta have a good mix 👍🏻

  • Mixture of the two is a much better idea.

  • I like both. I tend to have to be rough to get off though, especially with condoms. That said, you can be hard without going fast and that actually increase the pleasure when you start out slow and then gradually pick up tempo.

    Romantic is good because there is so much foreplay involved. Really passionate kissing is a huge turn on. However, I like the dirty talk and the kind of orgasms I give my woman when we get rough.

  • I suppose it depends on my mood, but more often than not, wild and rough :)

  • Depends on the mood but i definitely like romantic love making.

  • animalistic but romantic would be nice now and then

  • Both have their time and place, but doing it with someone you love is far better than humping in a portapotty with some chick you just met who's probably been running a train all over town.

  • It just depends on the mood and the circumstances. Both can be great. Sometimes she wants gentleness and loving, sometimes she wants to be fucked like a bunny.

  • Prefer wild and animalistic.

    • Can’t that still be romantic though?

    • Well, how would it be? Now, in truth, I wrote below: My girlfriend is like that, too. She finds even animalistic sex to have a romantic side. She said it makes her feel submissive but owned and protected. I get it, I guess - but I honestly didn't think so many other women held such a similar view. I have to say, it works for me, too, at a couple of different levels. It plays to my instinct to be dominant and the protector." So yes, I guess it can, but the question is, How do YOU view it and why? Thanks again.

    • Just like Rough and passionate I guess lol, I guess romantic is more soft and sensual?

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  • a mix.

  • Wild, hard, and rough.

  • Passionately Playful Romantic Bondage

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