I personally think it’s so disrespectful. I feel happy that a guy could be talking to me then suddenly he asks me for nudes and little piece of me dies inside... I’m actually so used to it at this point not to get my hopes that actually any guy wants to get to know me for me and not my body.
Girls; do you suddenly lose respect for the guy whom you’re talking to when he asks you for nudes?
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That's assuming that you had any respect for the guy in the first place. Which in most cases, you won't have an iota of- he doesn't deserve any respect at all just for being male, right? In fact, he deserves to be disrespected, to be "shit-tested" and insulted just to make sure that he's "man enough" to take it, right? So why should he care- what respect of yours does any guy have to lose? And of course, he wouldn't give a fuck about losing your respect unless he respected you. And since the guys who ask for nudes clearly never had any, why would they give a fuck about losing your respect? It's just sand off a dung beetle's back.
Depending on how well I know him and if we are together for a while. I had this happen to me by a boy who asked for nudes the day after I met him and I found it extremely disrespectful. Now if my boyfriend of close to a year had asked I would have been more chill
kaylaS91 | 9.9K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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I don't lose respect for guys like that because losing would imply that I had respect for them in the first place. But.. yeah, I definitely don't think highly of such people.
You mean here on gag or instagram or do they ask you in general? Because on GAG it even wouldn't surprise me if I was asked for nudes. But in general it is not normal and I would never ask someone for them. I dont even have nudes from my gfs
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BrittBratt2416 | 1.2K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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duh... lol It's also disappointing cause you think something is really going somewhere with that person and then he just proves he's only been talking to you just to get some ass or porn material.
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CheekyPaws | 75 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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You should, he's only after 1 thing and who knows what he'll do with them... Post them online? I guess it depends what you're looking for, just sex or a relationship.
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Guanfei | 2.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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He could want to know both. And if he wants your body, asking "suddenly" is stupid. That must be done at least when the girl wants it too, not suddenly. You don't go from talking about applie pie to asking boobs.
Yesss it’s such a turn off. I mean if I was talking to a guy and interested in him that way - I would stop talking to him. But if he’s just a hookup then I wouldn’t really care much but still is unattractive.
This is why I don't ask for nudes even if the flirting and conversation has turned sexual. I'd rather a woman send them at a time of her choosing if she so wants. Besides it's more exciting to be surprised than to beg like a child.
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JesseTheMan | 537 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Lol I don't even care that much about nudes. I won't ask for them so the girl sends them only if she really wants to. And besides, sexting is much more fun with only words :P
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jennifer_bloom | 1.5K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.
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Yes - it means they view me as an animal and not as a human being
Why? It's a sign that he finds you attractive and basically a compliment if you feel uncomfortable just tell him kindly he'll understand or you might do him a favour and actually send him one or two
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