Girls; do you suddenly lose respect for the guy whom you’re talking to when he asks you for nudes?

[Anonymous]

That's assuming that you had any respect for the guy in the first place. Which in most cases, you won't have an iota of- he doesn't deserve any respect at all just for being male, right? In fact, he deserves to be disrespected, to be "shit-tested" and insulted just to make sure that he's "man enough" to take it, right? So why should he care- what respect of yours does any guy have to lose? And of course, he wouldn't give a fuck about losing your respect unless he respected you. And since the guys who ask for nudes clearly never had any, why would they give a fuck about losing your respect? It's just sand off a dung beetle's back.

[coachTanthony]

Should I lose respect when i am asked for nudes? hmmmmm

[Via6903]

Depending on how well I know him and if we are together for a while. I had this happen to me by a boy who asked for nudes the day after I met him and I found it extremely disrespectful. Now if my boyfriend of close to a year had asked I would have been more chill

[kaylaS91]

I don't lose respect for guys like that because losing would imply that I had respect for them in the first place. But.. yeah, I definitely don't think highly of such people.

[ch1pmunk143]

Yes it's horrible. I'm not property and sure as hell ain't at no beckon call for you

[michael041987]

You mean here on gag or instagram or do they ask you in general? Because on GAG it even wouldn't surprise me if I was asked for nudes. But in general it is not normal and I would never ask someone for them. I dont even have nudes from my gfs

[BrittBratt2416]

duh... lol It's also disappointing cause you think something is really going somewhere with that person and then he just proves he's only been talking to you just to get some ass or porn material.

[CheekyPaws]

You should, he's only after 1 thing and who knows what he'll do with them... Post them online?
I guess it depends what you're looking for, just sex or a relationship.

[Guanfei]

He could want to know both. And if he wants your body, asking "suddenly" is stupid. That must be done at least when the girl wants it too, not suddenly. You don't go from talking about applie pie to asking boobs.

[Rissyanne]

Not only that but when I was dating... they wanted to send a dick pic. I don’t get it.

[Butthole1234]

Yesss it’s such a turn off. I mean if I was talking to a guy and interested in him that way - I would stop talking to him. But if he’s just a hookup then I wouldn’t really care much but still is unattractive.

[vjedi]

This is why I don't ask for nudes even if the flirting and conversation has turned sexual.
I'd rather a woman send them at a time of her choosing if she so wants. Besides it's more exciting to be surprised than to beg like a child.

[JesseTheMan]

Lol I don't even care that much about nudes. I won't ask for them so the girl sends them only if she really wants to. And besides, sexting is much more fun with only words :P

[jennifer_bloom]

Yes - it means they view me as an animal and not as a human being

[Sivart90]

That's sad, I have never and will never ask a girl for nudes

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes as a guy i find it disrespectful for a guy to ask a girl for nudes.

[hasrett]

I'd lose respect even if he was my boyfriend, let alone some random guy.

[Justalittlebitbored]

@hkglcy621 cause you can't add pictures to a normal reply for whatever reasons
:')

[addictedgoldfish]

Yeah... kinda, it's just really annoying and disgusting if you don't know each other well enough

[hkglcy621]

yes, it's disgusting if that's his only intention... troll him by sending noodles or something haaha

[julian76]

What if you're intimate and he's out of town. Would you send him sexy pictures?

[Anonymous]

I don't think it makes sense to send anyone nudes. Once you send out a photo, you can never take it back..

[kareemsaid]

Asking that should be after a decent period of time when you both feel comfortable to say that

[iSnortPepper]

Why? It's a sign that he finds you attractive and basically a compliment if you feel uncomfortable just tell him kindly he'll understand or you might do him a favour and actually send him one or two

[bente2]

I ghost them or block them.