Girls; do you suddenly lose respect for the guy whom you’re talking to when he asks you for nudes?

I personally think it’s so disrespectful. I feel happy that a guy could be talking to me then suddenly he asks me for nudes and little piece of me dies inside... I’m actually so used to it at this point not to get my hopes that actually any guy wants to get to know me for me and not my body.
Girls; do you suddenly lose respect for the guy whom you’re talking to when he asks you for nudes?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • That's assuming that you had any respect for the guy in the first place. Which in most cases, you won't have an iota of- he doesn't deserve any respect at all just for being male, right? In fact, he deserves to be disrespected, to be "shit-tested" and insulted just to make sure that he's "man enough" to take it, right? So why should he care- what respect of yours does any guy have to lose? And of course, he wouldn't give a fuck about losing your respect unless he respected you. And since the guys who ask for nudes clearly never had any, why would they give a fuck about losing your respect? It's just sand off a dung beetle's back.

  • Should I lose respect when i am asked for nudes? hmmmmm

Most Helpful Girls

  • Depending on how well I know him and if we are together for a while. I had this happen to me by a boy who asked for nudes the day after I met him and I found it extremely disrespectful. Now if my boyfriend of close to a year had asked I would have been more chill

  • I don't lose respect for guys like that because losing would imply that I had respect for them in the first place. But.. yeah, I definitely don't think highly of such people.

  • Yes it's horrible. I'm not property and sure as hell ain't at no beckon call for you

    Girls; do you suddenly lose respect for the guy whom you’re talking to when he asks you for nudes?

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  • @hkglcy621 cause you can't add pictures to a normal reply for whatever reasons
    :')

    Girls; do you suddenly lose respect for the guy whom you’re talking to when he asks you for nudes?
  • Yes, if it's a guy I'm not in a relationship with.

  • Yes - it means they view me as an animal and not as a human being

  • yes, it's disgusting if that's his only intention... troll him by sending noodles or something haaha

    • A fat man with boobs.

    • I love noodles.

  • Yes, it’s unacceptable

  • Yesss it’s such a turn off. I mean if I was talking to a guy and interested in him that way - I would stop talking to him. But if he’s just a hookup then I wouldn’t really care much but still is unattractive.

    • Lol coming from someone with the screen name butthole. Lmao

    • Oopsies

    • It’s ok. I don’t mind

  • duh... lol It's also disappointing cause you think something is really going somewhere with that person and then he just proves he's only been talking to you just to get some ass or porn material.

  • Yeah... kinda, it's just really annoying and disgusting if you don't know each other well enough

  • That's sad, I have never and will never ask a girl for nudes

  • I agree 100%.

  • I ghost them or block them.

  • Not only that but when I was dating... they wanted to send a dick pic. I don’t get it.

  • If I were to be a girl, I'd say definitely yes.

  • Obviously

  • You mean here on gag or instagram or do they ask you in general? Because on GAG it even wouldn't surprise me if I was asked for nudes. But in general it is not normal and I would never ask someone for them. I dont even have nudes from my gfs

  • They should.

  • You should lose respect

  • Yes as a guy i find it disrespectful for a guy to ask a girl for nudes.

  • I'd lose respect even if he was my boyfriend, let alone some random guy.

  • I’m with you.

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