friends with benefits gave me Surprise Anal?

[bella621]

Ok so me and my friends with benefits were having sex last night doggy style and then all of a sudden he thrust really hard into my bum and went all the way in.

It hurt like hell as there was no lube or anything and after one thrust he stopped and started shagging me again. Later he told me that it was not a mistake and he meant to thrust up my bum as he really enjoys anal.

The thing is he knows I have never done anal before and he knows I don't like the idea of doing anal so am I right in thinking that what he did was wrong

[Justforfun411]

He's not your friend! He's a selfish asshole and he violated you and your trust. That is wrong on so many different levels I don't even know where to begin. Actually i do know where to begin. Kick that *#!$ing piece of shit in the balls as hard as you can the next time you see him ask him if he liked that and then tell him well I like to do it. Just like he told you he likes anal sex. Then tell him to go f$#k himself in the ass. He is not your friend!!! Friends don't treat each other with disrespect. They honor each other's feelings. He did the exact opposite, You don't need friends like that!

[Intraluminal]

You are correct, and he is a stupid asshole. Plus, you can get an infection by doing anal and then entering the vagina without washing between which proves that he doesn't know anything about anal.

[justmeme]

I'd personally start looking for a new friends with benefits as he didn't respect a boundary which you have set! He was completely in the wrong. Anal is not something you do on a whim you need to prep for it not just using lube, it needs working up to with fingers and it also helps if you are relaxed. So him going in bare as anything I feel for you my ass clenched at the thought of the pain!

[bella621]

It was horrible I'm still in pain today

[JulieXO]

Damn I feel for you, surprise is anal is horrible. Also, it’s really unhygienic to just continue having sex after that. I’d tell him that he should never do that without your consent again. If you want to try it again go ahead, but make sure you’re expecting it.

[Andrea89]

It was wrong, but if it happened to me I'd be turned on by him forcing me like that. But I might be fucked up. It depends on how you feel about it and if he hurt your asshole

[DJay_AUS]

Wrong, absolutely! I have only had one girlfriend who liked anal, but we discussed this and I made sure not just to ram it home, that is rude at best.

[MrMysteryMan]

Yep, he was in the wrong there, and sounds like in more ways than one. ;)

[whoop12345]

Anal surprise is kinda expected in a friends with benefits sistuation. If you were in a relationship then you should exspect a conversation first.

[FunGuy1970]

What he did is called rape, just because you gave consent to sex, doesn't mean that he can just do what he wants.

[Ericthebarberic]

He should have at least lube d you up first.. anal takes time if it's not pleasurable for the women she's nor gonna want to do it

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Yes, he shouldn't have done it that way

[dragon9669]

Yeah. He's an ass

[v_4_victory]

He’s selfish and doesn’t respect you..
You’re just his piece of ass to fuck

[Elliot0_07]

No, he wasn't wrong!

You were doggy style, and he couldn't control himself and did it, it's totally reasonable. If you cound't take it properly that's your own problem girl! Next time be prepare to satisfy him properly.

[marko566]

Yes he should have put it in more

[Krony]

Sex is about trust, so if he did something you don't want, you should say it to him and if he still does that you should make him "normal" friend.

[Anonymous]

No, you're wrong. Let the guy nail some anal.

[Opinion Owner]

Shit..