What does sex really mean to men?
Its a bit mysterious this strong correlation between men and sex. I started wondering about it after listening to some decent karaoke last night, in which lyrics to a song mentioned how the husband felt distant from his wife after she ceased to let him make love to her. It was like an intimacy break, which seemed to deeply disturb him.
I think stopping sex in a relationship in general isn't great for both men and women - but this idea would seem to bother men a lot more, as sex is pinned to men as a 'need' as opposed to a woman's 'want.'
In the game Silent Hill, the main foes are mannequins made up of only a woman's legs and pelvis area - reflecting the male protagonists' difficulty not being able to have sex with his sick / dying wife, and feeling guilty to think of it in her condition.
Sometimes I wonder if society kinda downplays the deep rooted connection men feel through sex, whether casual or loving, for the sake if coveting that strong, stoic, male image? Or maybe how we tend to imagine being cuddled in his arms, is akin to the closeness men feel in sex? Not emotionally, but the contact.
I can def tell when my boyfriend is making love to me, or just wanting my legs open - what doesn't change is the sense that "something" is so fulfilling to him about it beyond instinct... not sure how to explain, but I feel a natural obligation to give him sex as he "needs" it rather than us casually deciding to do it. He isn't sex crazy, we do it maybe 2-3 times a week.
What is sex really like to men? Why are men associated so much with sex, even being said to think of sex most the day? Why isn't this associated with women, thoug women can be sexually driven too?
What is the force behind this gender dimorphic aspect?
Not a negative / insult to women to not be the more sexually inclined gender. Not everything in nature is based off our idea of "equality." If it was, I say its pretty unfair birds can fly lol
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