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Have you ever initiated sex on a first date?

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Have you ever initiated sex on a first date?

Yes, almost always
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About half the time I go on dates
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Only once or twice
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Never
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Other
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Never been on a date
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  • Yes and had it initiated, haha one particularly "forward" friend I knew for a few days from a site like this that was popular with the emo kids happened to walk past me as we both cut across the "oval" (football field?) Of my childhood school, I checked her out ignorantly, she recognised me and stopped me, withing 2-3 hours we had gone back to her apartment and she savaged me, was only the 3-4 girl I had been with and was menatlly screaming how awesome that was, met up a few more times and the Same happend, yet another girl around the same time I swapped pictures and stuff with for months and wanted to, we let up for that and it wasn't till weeks later I decided to make the first move and it was casually like that for years as she was shy when it came that stuff, except twice when we had gotten rather plastered, complete flip haha, currently and for the last year or so just the lady I love and we kinda enjoy trying to casually make the other one make the first moves out of trying to see who is the biggest tease ha, sex is natural people, if you feel its going there or she is giving the signs its ok then make a move, if you are wrong lol, say sorry and make a joke about being socially retarded or awkward ability to act without thinking, if she makes move on you enjoy that somehow your shit jokes and words chosen has blessed you with what would be a female committing rape if you wernt to distracted telling that ego in you head that you ignore that its confirmed by obvious dude logic that you are irrasiatable like it always wanted, haha shit I think the girl I wanted the most of all in my teen years never made a moove and I kept it to hands only as she was a virgin and a good friend, she got bored, agreed to hang with a guy we know who fed her a bunch of booze and didn't so much "take advantage" as convince her it was a good, plan, she doesn't regret it years later so much as wish it happended, she has asked me originally weeks before, I didn't go for, perhaps if I had she has would be chill with it and id be here saying it's proof of my theory that anyone can an should make moves, sex is good and being knocked back is a chance to accept ita going to happen and if you have a 2nd or 3rd date or fool around the tension will likely make you both animals, and may be surprised at it being a mutal want more than you expect

    • I will add I may just be a man slag, I did once make a move on a straight Male friend as people who weren't blind could see he was in the closet, when I was 17 and he was 16 and crazy shy, didn't want to when I said just do something with a guy and then say, was kinda yolo about it while also pretending to be mildly grossed out, so I grabbed him and kissed him rather passionately was his first kiss haha, within a few weeks he was "bi" and shortly after he's a confidant gay man and laughs at how badly he hid it, I hope that the fact I did it not fuss and none of our friends or the public cared (year was 2006 and in the center of a city) helped him feel comfortable to just be himself, ha and have at the same time made move on a lesbian friend as she did on me since a few people had agreed we were both good at such things, haha we both agreed it was to bad it was just to see as it was perfect yet as sterile as a hospital, make moves people, or be a skank, all is good

  • yup, and was married for nearly 21 years.

    I must have been an awesome lay :p

    • Yes it was ok

    • Wow!

Most Helpful Girls

  • Never. Only wanted once, felt strong attraction to someone who became my boyfriend for next 8 months. It was partly due to societal pressures and what the guy would think of me, if i'd give it up the day we meet in person.

    Thou I did it on second date with the same guy because he was very shy.

  • There was a point in my life that I saw sex as the primary reason to go on dates. I have initiated on the first date and in situations where a date had not even happened yet. The last time I did that it ended in marriage. I can't say I am proud of that activity though and would not do it again.

  • Not really, also because I have my boyfriend and the first date with him was more than a date ❤

    Whoops maybe this question is for the people who like to "have fun" 🙊

  • Nah, not my thing.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Not quite sure if this counts. I asked a gal who lived in my apartment building to come to a party I was attending. She and I had talked in the apartment hallway from time to time, but it had never amounted to anything. I was asking her less as a date and more as a friend.

    Long story short, went to the party, had a little much to drink. Took her back to my apartment for a "nightcap" and one thing led to another. It was more a one night stand than a date. It was a little awkward the next morning when we woke up naked together. (Though on the positive side, she only had to go down two floors to her apartment.)

    Weirdly - we stayed friends but never dated.

  • Honestly, I have never had a relationship have problems because there was sex on the first date, but every relationships gone horribly wrong I've been in were relationships that should have just been left as one night stands.

  • No, I personally did not initiate it.

    • Then how it goes on

  • Personal preference, but I have no problem with sex on the first date if the connection in all other respects is there.
    I totally understand why many girls don't.

  • I've been on one sort-of date (I think?), but besides that, I've never dated.

  • First-Date Sex May Harm Couples. Having sex on the first date may harm relationships over the long-term, a new study suggests. The findings agree with earlier work in married couples that found that the longer couples waited to have sex before marriage, the higher their martial satisfaction, the researchers said.

    Refer this research papers.

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/23121225/

    Fortunately no girlfriend. No question arise about sex on first Date. Not my cup of tea.

  • Sometimes it has to be done hahaha

    • Fuck yea 😏

  • The idea of that is crazy to me. Like, no judgment to anyone who does, but I think I would have a panic attack.

  • I never went in for traditional dating, but I always suggest bed right away, mainly to test how they say no...

  • Nope i have never or even had sex on a first date. The funniest thing I had a panic attack on a first date because she was pushing to have sex and I was just not ready for it.

    We had both been drinking quite a bit and she ended up coming back to mine, in my head were were going to play some horror games and head to sleep after that. But she ended up jumping into bed with me and was trying it on, i began shaking and I couldn't control my breathing. All she kept saying was its no big deal just relax not considering if I wanted to have sex or not, cause all guys want to have sex all the time.

    • sounds like nearly rape

  • ummm... i have initiated early in a less formal format... on most occasions the woman has been the first to initiate sex...

  • Never

  • Sometimes the girl has to take charge if she wants to get fucked on that first date. Only happened a couple of times, but it did happen.

  • Haven't been on enough dates tbh 😂 not saying that I would if I had...

  • I insist on having a significant relationship before I will have sex with a guy. For me, it's usually a couple of months of dating.

  • After having talked to them for a long while before actually meeting in person for a first date, yes.

  • No. Too shy to do that on a first date.

  • Several times when I was young but only once in the past 10 years (and actually she initiated it.) The other times were 35+ years ago.

  • Nope I would never have sex on the first date.

  • No, I never have.

    • How to get girl ready for sex

    • @thakur_akki If she is ready and her partner is ready, then it'll happen.

    • She isn't gonna be ready till marriage over here..

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