How to reply when he says “I’m horny”?

I have this guy friend that I have been friends with for about a year and we have always been kinda flirty but that’s just our personalities, we aren’t dating and have never sexted or anything like that but he just randomly told me he’s horny. I am not sure how to respond because I don’t know if I see him as someone I want to have sexual interest with. I left him on read cause I don't know how to respond 😭😂
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you want to quash any possible sexual interest, you could say something like: Sorry you're horny, but don't look here for anything like that." Or you could just ignore it. He may have made the comment to see if you were interested. He also may have made the comment more matter of factly, thinking you are a good friend, and it's okay to say he's horny.

  • Come out and be blunt:

    "What's the point in telling me that? What do you want me to do about it?"

    Take it from there... but don't fuck him.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Until you are absolutely certain he is someone you would want to be intimate with don't do anything, you'll just end up feeling used. Just tell him, to give himself a hand!!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I usually just say, "Masturbate then :P "

  • "im horny too" works...

  • "have you tried masturbation? I've heard that helps."

  • You’re doing the right thing. Just don’t respond

  • Just say “I know. My dick is so hart too right now” it will confuse him.

  • Say good for you lol

  • Tell him to beat his meet, depending on what he says after that should give you an obvious response to say back

  • Just say, "Well get a girlfriend." That makes it clear that you're not interested.

  • 'I'm not.'

  • Inform him of the magical "Fleshlight" when he tells you he's horny.

  • Dont. He's obviously gonna use you as a guy he just messages when he's horny never to guve u any attention later.

  • tell him to have fun jerking off

  • well there's no point in thinking about how you should respond before you know what you want from him...

  • Let him know that it will not happen. He is basically putting his hormones above your friendship. Of he continues you need to drop him.

  • Send him a link to pornhub

  • If you're into him flirt back, if not... leave on read.

  • “You should go see a doctor if you’re turning into a goat”

  • Left on read? You mean friendzoned

  • Sexit back

  • You should initiate to sext?
    Like by sending him some pics

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