Do you watch porn if you're in a relationship/married?

If you're in a happy relationship and have sex often, do you think it's right to watch porn/masturbate to it?
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  • Yeah, if I or he wants to have sexual pleasure and is the only one who’s in the mood then porn is a great way to prevent it from turning into a chore. If he can just go off and watch something or I can then we’re not making each other do something when we don’t want to.

  • If we are in a happy relationship and have sex OFTEN, as you stated ^, why watch porn? thats confusing... so NOPE I think its very wrong to lust over other women and men, the porn industry itself is full of cruel stories, so big fat NO

    • I kind of agree with you, in my last relationship, we had a healthy sex life, I didn't see the need for porn, but he still did? I'm just trying to get more opinions

    • I think porn can quickly become an addiction, which desensitises people to actual sex. So, the more porn you watch the less satisfied you'll be when having sex with a real person; porn is fake, fake environment, fake orgasms, fake boobs, forced hard-ons. Also a lot of people become deluded with their fantasies to a point of hurting their partners, in my opinion its totally not healthy for a 'healthy' relationship. But, in saying that if both partners are cool with it, thats fine too.

  • I guess you usually don't need it, but it probably can be fun to watch porn together time to time lol.
    But if the person needs some private time, even if they love the other one, I guess it's ok if it's not a secret? 🤔

  • Sure. I'm in a happy relationship and while I don't watch porn, I do masturbate a couple times a week.

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  • Yup, still watch. Sometimes I just want to get off by myself or he's not around to have sex with.

  • Yep, we both do on our own but not really together. It’s just masturbation material, when we’re together each other is the better sensory inhancer

  • Ha we both do

  • More than ever! Lol

  • Sure, why not? Although my taste in porn has changed now that I am finally in a happy long term relationship. Sometimes we even watch it together.

  • No, of course not.

  • Depends how often. If it is constant watching like an addiction, help him stop watching porn. NoFap has good recourses to help. He may appreciate you more if successful.

  • Ofc. Its something private.
    A lot of reasons to masturbate..
    I personally cannot fall asleep without it, and every ex knew it.
    Its my way, or the high way..
    And no one had any problem with it.
    They can do it as well.

    • What if she had sex with you each time you wanted it

    • @Ninene Wanted what? To masturbate?

  • What kind of loser watches porn when they're in a relationship?

    I guess some guys suffer from porn addiction and so they trick girls into watching it with them.
    But only a sick minded person would gain sexual pleasure from watching that filth.

  • Eh, people work differently. It's not a problem for everyone to do both.

    But I do think everyone who has porn habits they bring with them into relationships should as an experiment stop for a while (with both porn and masturbation)

    Some experience that sex life with SO gets a lot more intense and awesome as a result. It's a shame to miss out on that!

  • I don't personally. But if both agree it's okay then go ahead. I just wouldn't be comfortable doing it.

  • I'm assuming that your bf/husband watches porn, and you're uncomfortable with it. Am I right?

  • Porn is bad for health, so I don't anyways.
    And before anyone tries to bash me, I never said masturbation is unhealthy, it is totally healthy, but porn isn't. It's digital and fake and messes up our brain with excess release of neurotransmitters.

  • I mean it depends on your partner I guess. But I think it's okay

  • I wouldn't know iv never been in a relationship

  • Honestly I watch it cause I find it fascinating

  • I think it's OK, but when I watch it it's always with my girlfriend and leads to having sex rather than masturbation.

  • Personally, no. But that belief is rather counter-cultural nowadays, isn’t it?

  • Porn is involved when both parties are not sexually attracted enough to satisfy themselves

  • Yes.

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