Can a girl be sexy without having big boobs?

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Is it sexy to have smaller boobs or at least ok. I find that most guys just go for girls with a large chest but what if you don’t?

NPeacy · Accepted Answer

Large boobs are fun to play with and tend to give more "voluptuous" or "plush" looks. Smaller chests tend to play on the more "cute" and "demure" or "lean" and "athletic" aspects of female attractiveness.

Assuming you're small chested, i would say the route to "cute" would be to focus on your complexion and cleanliness while the "fit" look would understandably require regular exercise. If you happen to be a bit round, a little diet and exercise is a good idea but it's not a deal breaker and you shouldn't sacrifice your health with eating disorders and disregarding saftey during fitness. Just wash regularly and be nice to everyone and you'll quickly find someone willing to pick you up.

ADDITIONAL ADVICE:
It's important you understand that some guys really do just want to fuck you and move on. Others value sex as part of a relationship. It can be hard to figure out which ones want what because sometimes they don't even have it planned out and are just seeing how it plays out themselves.

On the other end of the spectrum, guys have found some girls to be just as manipulative as the infamous "players" amoung their own ranks. These girls can rip a guy's heart out after emptying his wallet and then leave his social status damaged just to play the victim for pity points. (These acts have lead to an entire community of "MGTOW" which is essentially a group of men who have sworn off relationships with women due to past bad experiences and concerns over legal biases) This means guys will be trying to figure out if you care or if you're one of the varying degrees of nightmare girlfriends while you are doing a similar thing.

Try to be a little conscientious of how you act and what you want from the relationship and express that as clearly as you can since honesty can save you and them from a lot of heart break later and remember that looks aren't everything and that you BOTH have wants and needs that you must use to make the relationship work.

Lily_Pi · Accepted Answer

Small chests can be just as sexy if not more sexy than big chests. So big chests may look great in a pushup bra fully clothed but let's face it, really big boobs tend to sag and a lot of the time they aren't as appealing once the bra comes off. Small chests are the opposite I think. They may not look like much under your clothes but once you take your top off and they are standing at attention looking you dead in the eyes, that is hot! I'm a 32A and when I was younger I hated it and wished I had larger breasts but the older I got the more I realized how great they where and how much guys love them just as they are. My boyfriend loves my breasts, all I have to do is take my top off and he's kissing my breasts and getting hard. I don't need to wear a bra and my breasts sit perfectly on my chest. You'll come to find on breast size isn't actually that big a deal and just as many guys like smaller breasts as those who like larger ones. Breast size is more of a cultural thing. What men actually look for subconsciously is hips thighs and butt as these help determine a woman's fertility.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Believe me , I have big boobs but no guy finds them attractive, because I have skinny asf legs and a flat ass.
Figure and shape is more important , also proportion. So if you have a good body shape it doesn't matter if you're a flat A cup or a curvy D cup , if your shape isn't proportionate then it won't look as good as you think.
I'd do anything to get a breast reduction , but I'm young and my family says no and maybe when I'm older if they don't go away with weight loss I'll get them removed but most likely won't happen lol.
Look on the bright side , small boobs don't sag as quick as big ones, you can go braless, you don't get back pain , your shirt doesn't just unbutton itself because your bust is too big lol , you can move and bounce and jump without them jumping with you as well. Small boobs are awesome , I want small boobs instead of these already sagging mom boobs..

Jen1406 · Accepted Answer

I can see how small boobs can lead to insecurity but as you get older you learn to appreciate what you have. I know where you are blessed with what is barely an A cup. Both big and small have there advantage and disadvantages. Boys may also rather prefer big but as time goes by and rhe become men, it all becomes a personal preference. Some will rather find small boobs attractive and others will rather prefer big boobs. Some may like racing cars and others more 4x4 bakkies and offroad cars. It's preference. A guy once told me that women are more obsessed with boobs than men and that men loves boobs no matter the size or shape.

Smart_Girl92 · Accepted Answer

I have really small boobs & I still get hit on frequently. Everyone has their own preferences. Sometimes it may seem every guy or girl only likes one thing, but that's not true. Most big-boobed girls I've talked to wish they can just switch chests with me. They always talk about back pain, pervy glances, not being able to wear cute tops, & the discomfort of doing basic things like jogging. So embrace the advantages you have & love your boobs no matter how small they are. (Big boobied gals should love themselves too!!) <3 <3 <3 <3

peppermintpatty · Answer

I have a large chest and yea guys will hit on me just cause of that BUT my girlfriends with small boobs or barely any can get away with wearing much nicer, sexier outfits than I can and they don't get hit on any less. You just have to had confidence in your body and sex appeal will come naturally.

BlueCoyote · Answer

For me, B-, C- and D-cup is all perfectly fine and I won't complain. My favorite is probably C-cups but it's really not a big issue to me. My wife has B-cups and I love her boobs.

PrinceyPru · Answer

Honestly I think that girls with flat cheers or smaller breasts are more attractive than girls with large breasts.
That night just be a bad since I have large breasts and dislike them a lot, but I don't know.

laurieluvsit · Answer

Many guys prefer small breasted girls actually. It is a fetish with many. A good figure otherwise will do wonders but personality tops it all:)

Majesty101 · Answer

Honestly I dont think guys really care how much chest you have. I mean come on boobs are boobs.

cflr0227 · Answer

Yes they absolutely can, for one thing clothes hang off a small chest much more elegantly and that can be very sexy, the grass is always greener, I have very large boobs and would love smaller ones, I don't think it makes much difference to guys either, when Iv gone out with friends with small chests they get hit on just as often as I do

hopromantic · Answer

of course!!! a woman's body is not what makes her sexy its her attitude and personality! our body's being fat in all the right places only causes lust in most men in my opinion

anxiousanon · Answer

Yes! You can be sexy without boobs. A lot of being sexy is about how you carry yourself. Confidence is sexy. So is having a good attitude or mindset.

EnjoysTea · Answer

I legit do not care about all about a woman's breast size. I am not lying on this I am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.

NightlyCreature · Answer

Of course they can be sexy, a girl sexyness isn't measure by the size of her boobs or ass, there are a lot of factors involved, including physical attributes, yes, but other as well, as character, personality, face, clothing, etc.

marcobanks · Answer

Guys like natural looking girls. Much rather be with a girl who has small boobs than one with fake ones. Every woman i have dated after college has had fake boobs. WTF?

Sorathevilone · Answer

I manage it lol XD plus whoever made you feel that way needs a kick in the dick or fanny!

SEntertainment · Answer

They absolutely can, remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And I personally, love to behold the body type you show above.

Every guy has their tasted. If you make sure safe search is on and Google Reilly Reed, she's one of the hottest stars in my honest opinion.

So don't worry about that, if you are a smaller chested woman, in my view you not only can be sexy, but chances are you won't have to work as hard at it as you think.

MlleCake · Answer

I never met a boob, small or large, that I didn't think was awesome. They are all wonderful. I even like man boobs.

HP992 · Answer

Boob size is not directly proportional to attractiveness for most self-aware adults. It's more of a figure thing. Some guys have preferences for different parts of the female body, but the female form itself is what is attractive. If your breasts complement that form and are also small, then yep they can help you be sexy. I actually prefer boobs of a medium or smaller cup size. With an appropriate form, I find them to be incredibly sexy.

Demiurgos · Answer

I, personally, am more fond of girls with a soft/jelly-like ass. This means it doesn't exactly have to be massive, but big enough for me to see it jiggle a little. So yes, you can be sexy in other ways. This, however, is NOT a requirement that I look for in girls when I'm choosing a partner. The same goes for breast size.

rishiofficial · Answer

Yes.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Yes but boobs just look better in my opinion. However girls without boobs usually need a nice ass to balance them out

Tuned · Answer

Sure. I like them just a bit bigger than this but if not it’s fine

Germanium · Answer

Sometimes I wonder why there are such obvious questions on GAG that should be rhetorical.

OF COURSE there are guys who love women with small tits!

OF COURSE there are men who love women thin!

OF COURSE there are men who love women with more to play with!

OF COURSE there are men who love women with fake sizes!

OF COURSE there are men who love ANYTHING about a woman!

You don't have to worry about such trivial things. What you do need to worry about, is how you're going to approach that next guy you've been looking at.

You gotta get to know him and find out what HE likes, not what other men like! You don't know this guy, so maybe he'll like things about you, maybe not. Remember, you first have to get to know this person... as a person. Lovey-dovey emotions should be saved for a little bit later after you've known this guy for a bit. A couple of months should do it of talking? If you're still interested in him, then go ahead! Eat'm up.

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