Often Masturbate everyday?

[12100794]

I am 23 years old woman, no boyfriend since birth and never had sex of her entire life

I am a woman who is afraid of sex because of getting pregnant and hated by the community of not being Virgin anymore. I live in an Asian country where you should take care of yourself especially your virginity.

But honestly , everyday I found myself masturbating and I want to feel that orgasm that a man has. I sometimes watched porn videos which make me feel more horny. I often touch my boobs and pussy every time I am alone at room after work. Most of the time I also stayed at home alone because my family are always away

Until I met this very handsome foreign guy. Blue eyed, tall , thin and a model like person. We've been going out lately and he wants to have sex with me. He is very sweet, charming and fun.
I honestly want to sex with him , but I was afraid because he don't me at his very point of life he is not yet ready to have a serious relationship. But he wants to be very close to me as his special someone, truly love me and make me happy.
He said he would respect my decision to say yes or no.

Do I have some mental disorder that I always think of sex everyday? And should I sex with this guy.

[Goochbreaker]

you don't have a mental disorder, you have hormones, and if we let our hormones control us we are animals, so control your hormones. You are on the right track and shouldn't sleep with a guy unless you think he is marriage material. Your elders are wise and you were wise to heed their advice, masturbate and watch porn all you want but do not bond physically with a man unless you think there is a really good chance of that bond never breaking till death, otherwise you are setting yourself up for a lot of pain and suffering and when you are spat out of that failed relationship maybe in your 30s you will be worth a lot less to men looking for wives.

[jsdfreedom]

If your actual age is listed by your name, then nothing is wrong with that. Women can reach their peak of sexuality ANYWHERE between 20 and 40 years old (everyone is different and can peak at different times), and during that peak your body has the strongest desire for sexual pleasure.

That's basic human biology and there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

[Britski123]

Nothin wrong wit it!

[simonqq]

It's not bad, are you from central Asia?

Just take your time too feel ready. Sex is nothing bad and even if maybe there will not be a relationship later you shouldn't feel bad about sex. When it feels right you shouldn't hold yourself back.

[KingZeus]

Well it's up to your values. Is your want for sex greater than another person or country's opinion? I'd say go for it!

[GingerGuy]

Completely normal. No you do NOT have a mental disorder!

[bobbyp]

There is nothing wrong with having a friend with benefits. If your afraid of getting pregnant get the depo shot... And what you see in porn. Is not an everyday male. Them guys take so much stuff to perform the way they do. And if I'm not mistaken they stop every5min but anyway. The man respects your decision that's great. But don't do it unroll your really ready.. And he can always wear protection

[Jessington]

I think its very normal. Everyone has desires. Some stronger than others. Hopefully one day you will meet the right guy and get everything you want from him. And lots of passion and cock inside you

[Andreas300787]

just go for it. who will know if you are a virgin or not?

[J4Zzi3]

The more the socity restraining something the more each person become curious about it? I think you're normal. Don't worry too much

[traveler74]

No, masturbation is healthy. There are people who do it several times a day, every day. As far as this guy... no definatly not. Wait for yur husband.

[OneFrustratedGuy]

I have the same problem as you. I am virgin ansd willing to stay that way till mariage. However I think of sex a lot and used to masturbate a lot. I can relate to your story. No you aren't mentally ill. I just wish you patience

[Enigma69]

you need to try sex

[ninefullinches]

Personally I prefer blowjob or intercourse to masturbation however I need at least two orgasms daily to keep me from going insane

[Elementis]

Daily masturbating is not wrong or unhealthy. You go girl.

[metalman12]

Nothing wrong with u. I masterbate 2 or 3 times a day been doing that since 15

[rockrewls]

Nope it's normal to think about sex.

[Seppelson]

Why do you want an orgasms like guys? They are much weaker. It's normal to think about sex.

[mypleasurey]

No mental disorder. Just have sex

[han_ty]

It's not strange to constantly be thinking of sex. Global society pushes a narrative of sexuality and tend to romanticize it. However, there's always a risk involved. As I don't know your culture, I wouldn't say if you should have sex with him or not, I just suggest that if you do that you use some form of protection

[muscle77]

U r fine

[pareesh]

Y u r wasting ur time in masturbating go sex with men

[pareesh]

If ur online text me up

[Anonymous]

You can give him a blow job and keep him happy. Or give him some massage treatment. Or show him your naked body. As long as he doesn't fuck you , you will still remain a virgin.