My boyfriend watches a lot of porn?

Is it wrong that my boyfriend watches porn and hentai I feel like it’s wrong because they are naked people but I understand if he has to to satisfy him it just makes me uneasy that he looks at jut photos of naked girls am I wrong to feel this way?
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  • You are not "wrong" whenever you have feelings. Feelings are not right or wrong. They're just feelings. The question is do you want to tolerate a guy who gets off looking at porn when he could be spending quality time with you. Now, I understand you are under 18, which technically means you are a child. If the boyfriend is over 18 or even older, he may not feel free to express himself sexually with you. (It's kind of illegal)... But there are other issues with porn that are concerning. It can be very addictive and can give a person unrealistic ideas about women's sexuality, bodies, looks, etc. that many women feel they can't compete with. Generally speaking it's not the "naked girls" that are the problem.. It's how his brain processes the desires, and also actions portrayed by naked women that matters. And you say "girls". I assume you mean legal aged young women. If they are not and he's getting off on younger "girls" that's illegal and he could get into trouble. If he is doing this everyday and not just "once or twice a month" you could be looking at a sex addict. Read up on this. It's a serious thing and not something that leads to healthy relationships. I wish you good luck.

  • It's not wrong for you to feel that way.
    Most couples enact a "you can look but you can't touch" rule.
    But, touching himself I think still counts.
    It's a question of lust, I think. If he is filling his head with thoughts of lust; I think a great man should be a little better than that.
    If you are the girl he's committed to, then you should be enough for him.
    When a good man commits to a girl and he knows he loves her, he will grow eyes only for her. This doesn't mean that other attractive girls won't make him blush, it simply means that he should not be filling his head with lustful thoughts of other people.
    Many people might say it's fine because he's not DOING anything with other girls, but I think that the choice to fill our heads with lust is also unfaithful in a way.
    You are under 18, so I'm assuming he's a youngling too. You 2 might be too young to understand deep love. Heck, I don't even know anything about being close to a girl. But I certainly would abstain from porn if I had a girl I wanted to focus on.

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  • He's a guy, guys do that. Good luck finding a guy who never watches porn. Whether it's 'right' or 'wrong' means nothing, everyone's opinion of 'right' or 'wrong' differs. If it bothers you, talk to him about it, see what he says.

  • If you feel it is wrong then dump him and look for someone who doesn't look at porn.

    Good luck with that by the way.

  • Porn no, hentai yes.

  • I'll never understand why girls are so disturbed by their men watching porn. It's the most normal natural thing in the world. Every guy does it

    • I know some women who occasionally indulge. But I still think it's a matter of degree. And whether it's secretive. I agree that just about every guy today does it.

  • it's a pretty common habit but there is evidence suggesting it is unhealthy especially in a relationship, certainly I wouldn't consider it cheating though. Maybe try to satisfy him to the point where he's not interested in porn? Give him some pics to keep him busy

  • Guys are sex on demand. If we can get at it we will

  • Hentai. Okay, that's where it becomes wrong.

  • If you're boyfriend is looking at a lot of porn, you're failing as a girlfriend.

  • Most guys watch porn. When it starts to interfere with your sex life let him know enough is enough

  • No.. But you need to satisfy him so that he does not watch porn

    • She's under 18 buddy. Did you not catch that part?

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