What should teenage girls do with their pubic hair?

[Anonymous]

Pick an answer for each question please!! 1- natural, trimmed, bare, manicured 2- if manicured, or trimmed how much should the hair cover the area? 3- should girls shave/wax around their vagina? (i don’t know what the area is called) 4- what do you recommend? wax, shave, trim, etc 5- I’m virgin but I wanna lose it and that might happen in the next 2 weeks. I don’t really need to hear any opinion about it, but do you have any advices for the “first time”? ps. I am on birth control pills (because of my PMS)

[GreedyGiver651]

Honestly, it should be what you are most comfortable with, my preference is trimmed or bare. Usually trimmed is in a strip when I see it.
Around it, again, up to you
I have lots of advice for the first time, but the big things are:
it won't be perfect, and that's okay. You will probably be nervous and shy, know that it's normal and you will get better at it. Mistakes happen and bodies make weird noises, sex is weird, and that's okay. The person must find you attractive to want to sleep with you, so try not to feel super self conscious, but it's okay if you do. Have fun and don't be afraid to move more, first times have a lot of people trying to stay in perfect position, so really move your body, get into it.

[GreedyGiver651]

P. s. I read the other comments and please don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want. You don't "need" to trim or wax or anything. Do what you feel most comfortable with

[Asker]

Thank you so much for answering!! It really helped :)

[GreedyGiver651]

Of course :) also, if you do have a partner that you are planning it with. Ask what his preference is. Shaved, tried etc. It's a little awkward, yes but it's good to be open about that stuff and it will mean the guessing will be taken out.

[Asker]

We’re not dating or anything so that’s kind of a hard question to ask... But when I have a boyfriend, I think I would ask him what he likes.

[GreedyGiver651]

It's okay. Part of being comfortable with sex is being able to ask "awkward" questions. My first time was with a friend. I think asking a general preference is still your best option, but it's your choice :)

[Asker]

Hmmm I see... yeah maybe I should ask him and see what he says

[GreedyGiver651]

You don't have to ask him specifically about you. It could be a general preference

[Asker]

Okay. I’ll do that😬💕 Thank you so much for answering!!!

[GreedyGiver651]

No worries, have fun :)

[Anonymous]

For the first time shave it.
Take things from slow to rough at a slow pace.

[Asker]

The entire area?

[Opinion Owner]

I am little busy now I will reply in 10 min

[Asker]

Sure thanks I appreciate it

[Opinion Owner]

Just be online ok

[Opinion Owner]

By shave I mean wax it

[Opinion Owner]

It depends on the guy too.

[Opinion Owner]

Trimming it in a triangle. Is sexy too

[Asker]

Hmm okay thanks!!

[Opinion Owner]

Just curious

[Opinion Owner]

Is he virgin too

[Asker]

No he’s not

[Opinion Owner]

Then he know how to and what to do. But I know none of my business u sure u want to lose ur virginity to him.

[Asker]

100%. We’re not dating but still I trust him like A LOT.

[Opinion Owner]

Well good luck. enjoy

[Lavinnykins]

Considering it sounds like you've never done any preening of that area, completely shave it. Be careful and don't try and rush it. If you do it now, enough will have grown back in 2 weeks for you to do it again and perhaps do a better job... Got to experiment with what you like, really.

[Painter1998]

Girl How old are u I don't want u to mess up ur life with doing it is ther e. A good resone to

[Asker]

I’m 18

[Painter1998]

O I'm sorry it will hurt like a bitch

[Asker]

Waxing?

[Painter1998]

Havering sex

[Asker]

Ooohhh that... yeah I’m little scared

[Painter1998]

If he knows what he is doing it won't be as bad

[Asker]

He’s not a virgin and he’s older than me so I’d say he’s okay

[Painter1998]

Good luck I have been going trew a lot with guys let me k how it went

[Asker]

Thankssss

[Painter1998]

Np girl can we be freinds

[Painter1998]

Don't Terncese up it hurts like hell have u fingered ur self jw if so then u should be ready if not just relax

[Asker]

I never actually had dick in side of me, but this one dude fingered me before.

[Asker]

And yeassss girlll! I love making frinedssss lol

[Painter1998]

Did u cum

[Painter1998]

Thanks I'm going trew a lot right now

[Asker]

I almost did but I was kinda scared so I told him to stop

[Painter1998]

I'm Sammy by the way

[Asker]

Hi :) I know I’m anonymous right now but I will text you with my actual account later on!!

[Asker]

Do you wanna tell me what you are going though rn?

[Painter1998]

My grandma has one Medicaid stuff

[Asker]

So... she’s sick?

[Painter1998]

She has demncha

[Asker]

Oh I’m sorry... That must be hard for you and your family...

[Painter1998]

Im with her all day every day

[Asker]

Do you like that? Or do you feel like you HAVE to be with her

[Painter1998]

It's hard but with out me she loud be in a home

[Asker]

Hmmm so thats pretty tough... what about her children? Like your mom or dad? Do they stay with her?

[Painter1998]

It's grate gm there busy and I'm done with hs

[Kolibri]

Whatever YOU want to do. If the guy's the right pick, he'll accept you however you are.

[Asker]

I don’t know what to do with it. What do you usually do? Shave them?

[Kolibri]

I personally shave completely. I'm extremely uncomfy with hair down there but that's a me thing. Try going for a wax, remove the hair beside the vagina and the outer crotch area, then trim the hair on top of the slit very shory. The wax will hurt but the trim is extremely uncomfy when growing back

[Asker]

Thanks so much!!

[ghostqueen]

Do whatever you want with it. I prefer to keep mine shaved.

[Asker]

Does it get itchy? Or do you shave them like everyday?

[ghostqueen]

I'd shave down there once in a blue moon when I was 12 and whenever I did it would be so itchy. Then, stopped for years and when I made a habit of doing it by the time I was 15 it hasn't been itchy after shaving since.

[Asker]

Oh okay. Thank you for answering!!!

[ghostqueen]

You're welcome.

[Saksham2910]

1. Trimmed, coz you obviously need to keep it quite natural (designs make it look stupid so i suggest you don't try them for the first time)

2. It should be less enough (For approximation, if you touch that area, the hair should not be able to be pulled out)

3. The pelvis (That's what the are is called) should be shaved regularly to maintain hygiene down there (waxing is useless and painful).

4. Trimming is recommended, as shaving it makes it irritable (it then might possibly itch and bleed)

5. Be careful for the first time. Don't be so nervous about it, these feelings are just natural. Just go the way you like to...

[lopan17]

Shave it off. No one wants a hairy vagina!

[HappyGuy27]

Some guys prefer it hairy sadly

[HappyGuy27]

I don't but some do

[lopan17]

Those guys are gross.

[HappyGuy27]

Agreed for the most part.

[Nottheonlytravellee]

Whatever you feel comfortable in

[SmoMan71]

You realize you could have made this a poll right?

[Asker]

I know but I wanted ask couple questions in one post

[SmoMan71]

Well, they are your pubes, do what you want with them.

[Asker]

I don’t know what to do though

[SmoMan71]

Fine, here is some real advice. Many guys (myself included) prefer a vulva to be as smooth as possible. Which put waxing and laser hair removal, Nair and, an Epilator at the top of the list. Shaving is in there too because it is cheap, easy, and effective. But shaving will never get it fully smooth.

Waxing and an Epilator can hurt like a bitch, Nair can be dangerous on sensitive skin. Laser hair removal is the most expensive, but also the longest lasting and the one I would suggest. Sure, it will hurt, but more like a sun burn than ripping all the hair out. But you need an appointment for that. may be best to stick with shaving for now.

Also this…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_hGkcrgtdc

[Asker]

Thank you so much for answering! It really helped!!

[SmoMan71]

Sure thing. Also make sure you know how to use a condom properly before you go out and get laid. Don’t trust the guy to know.

[Asker]

Okay. I’ll watch a video or something :)

[SmoMan71]

That same woman, Dr. Doe has lots of good videos. Check them out

[Asker]

Sounds good! Thanks !!!

[SmoMan71]

Anytime.

[Papavera]

Braid.

[lonley-harted]

Number 3

[lotje]

I always waxed. The more you do it the less grows back.

[gobsmacked3]

Whatever they feel like doing

[AM-205]

Well... Here's what I'm doing. I'm keeping mine. I don't like it, and I've shaven it about 3 times my whole life. I'm waiting for a girl in my life to tell me someday what she thinks of it, and doing with it what SHE wants.

[reneti77]

my current girlfriend keeps her pubic hair under control but I'm being serious when I say this if this dude cares about if you're clean shaven or not, he probably isn't worth losing your virginity to if he means anything to you.

[Painter1998]

I agree

[james_mark]

Waxing

[Sai36]

Trim or shave will hurt when it starts growing, so better wax

[vanrap]

You need to wax it and make a triangular trimmed design.

[Asker]

What about the area down there? I’m not talking about the bikini area but like around vagina?

[vanrap]

You can go to a parlor and they'll do it

[CT_CD]

Wax it

[Asker]

How much? Like all of them?

[CT_CD]

Every hair from your eyelashes down

[Asker]

Haha okay okay thanks

[CT_CD]

You're welcome

[garfield1968]

Clean shaven please

[Slayer119]

It don't really matter but honestly at least keep your pussy trimmed

[Seppelson]

I prefer them all shaved

[cmann]

Shaved

[Anonymous]

Whatever they choose to do.

[Anonymous]

Shave