Guys, Can you tell when your girlfriend is feeling horny/frisky?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and see each other a couple times a month. I'm eventually gonna move in with him so our relationship will be a lot easier. Obviously we get creative with how we stay in communication & keep things interesting with pictures and video chat. But here's something weird I noticed. Even though we're not physically together, he can ALWAYS tell when I'm feeling horny/frisky. Within the first few minutes of our video chat he'll be like "You're horny?" I'll be blushing and ask how he knew. He just gets a playful look in his eye and just says he knows. I have no idea how this is possible unless we're actually in the bedroom together? He says my face gets a bit flushed during those moments and my breath comes out a little quicker when I'm in the mood for sex. I don't even notice the difference in myself and yet he gets it right every time lol? Guys, can you tell when your girl is feeling horny? What are the telltale signs?

[AustinMan]

Your body language and facial expressions give it away. I think it's great that he can see it. How would you feel if you were together and he told you you were being a naughty little wench for being so horny all the time and that he was going to give you a "spanking?" ;)

[Asker]

What kind of body language? I think it's great that he can detect it because when we're actually together I don't need to spell it out for him aha :) That actually sounds like something he'd say lol and I don't mind it because name calling does something to me for some reason lol :)

[AustinMan]

Ah! I wonder what he calls you when he has you alone and naked and is having his wicked way with his naughty little...

[Asker]

LOL! He calls me his whore or his slut mostly because he took my virginity and because I'm only naughty with him lol :) Some girls would find that degrading but as long as it doesn't happen outside of the bedroom I'm okay with it ;)

[AustinMan]

Are you just okay with it or do you enjoy the role in that moment? Would you call yourself that if he didn't?

[Asker]

I wouldn't refer to myself as a whore or slut lol but when we're in the heat of the moment I actually enjoy it when he calls me that lol :) Maybe I'm weird but it just triggers something in my mind

[AustinMan]

You're not remotely weird. I'm guessing what it triggers in your mind is your sexually submissive streak. How would you react if he tossed you over his knee and gave you a bare bottom spanking for being such a tart at a time like that?

[Asker]

Well we kind of alternate between who is dominant & who is submissive (I'd like to think lol) but normally he takes the reins because he's more experienced lol :) And he does spank my bottom playfully sometimes and I like it because it shows he's territorial and that I'm his lol :)

[AustinMan]

Switches!! How lovely! Have you ever dabbled in bondage? Some subs love the helplessness that comes from not being able to move.

[Asker]

Oh no lol :) That's not for us. Neither of us are into the idea of bondage lol although I heard some people do enjoy that. I just like being able to move freely and the idea of not being able to kind of freaks me out aha :) I do think the guy should be more dominant than the girl but bondage takes it to an extreme (in my opinion) :)

[AustinMan]

This one of those don't knock it 'til you try it kind of things. You can start with just a pair of wrist cuffs and you're more at his mercy. That have any attraction?

[Asker]

It does kind of hold an attraction lol although we'd probably have to take baby steps if I ever considered it lol :)

[AustinMan]

Consider! And go with baby steps. I suspect you find the helplessness very erotic. Who knows, he might even spank you soundly on your bare bottom.

[Asker]

He might be into it & we will never know unless we give it a try lol :) I'm still in the experimenting stage since he's my first sexual partner so we shall see lol :P If neither of us enjoy it we can just rule it out and no harm done right :)

[AustinMan]

Exactly but give it a fair shot. What do your fantasies tell you?

[Joeyb12]

Most of the time a guy can tell if a girl is horny. She doesn't have to be a girlfriend in order for him to Know. I sometimes know by the way a girl talks or acts but never make a move on her. The blushing and sexual stare is how I know. And other body movements show it.

[Asker]

What's a specific body language sign? :)

[Joeyb12]

Playing with their while they look at a guy and leg movements. some I notice when they are wearing flip-flops they will use those to show they are horny. Most of the ways that I know are hard to explain. For me girls that dangle their flip flops is a big turn on, sexy female feet and flip-flops = SEXY

[Joeyb12]

I meant to say playing with their hair. LOL

[Asker]

I got the gist lol :) Yeah, my boyfriend always comments that I'm playing with my hair and I fiddle with any object in the room when I'm horny without even realizing it lol :) Guys have good observation skills I would say!

[Joeyb12]

Us guys are very aware of sexy girls that do things and that gets us horny. I love watching a girl play with flip-flops and twirl their hair especially at the same time.😂 Mostly anything girls do can and will make a guy horny.

[timbo2]

Some people are good at reading other people. You could be blushing or moving a certain way or speaking differently. It can be a ton of things.

[Asker]

Yes! Apparently my voice gets softer and I play with my hair a lot according to him. He's very good at reading people & very perceptive in general lol :)

[Anonymous]

No, she hides it

[Asker]

Well I try to but I'm really bad at hiding it lol :) Most girls try to hide it