Guys, Can you tell when your girlfriend is feeling horny/frisky?

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So my boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and see each other a couple times a month. I'm eventually gonna move in with him so our relationship will be a lot easier. Obviously we get creative with how we stay in communication & keep things interesting with pictures and video chat. But here's something weird I noticed. Even though we're not physically together, he can ALWAYS tell when I'm feeling horny/frisky. Within the first few minutes of our video chat he'll be like "You're horny?" I'll be blushing and ask how he knew. He just gets a playful look in his eye and just says he knows. I have no idea how this is possible unless we're actually in the bedroom together? He says my face gets a bit flushed during those moments and my breath comes out a little quicker when I'm in the mood for sex. I don't even notice the difference in myself and yet he gets it right every time lol? Guys, can you tell when your girl is feeling horny? What are the telltale signs?

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AustinMan | 41.3K opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Your body language and facial expressions give it away. I think it's great that he can see it. How would you feel if you were together and he told you you were being a naughty little wench for being so horny all the time and that he was going to give you a "spanking?" ;)

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Asker

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What kind of body language? I think it's great that he can detect it because when we're actually together I don't need to spell it out for him aha :) That actually sounds like something he'd say lol and I don't mind it because name calling does something to me for some reason lol :)
AustinMan

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Ah! I wonder what he calls you when he has you alone and naked and is having his wicked way with his naughty little...
Asker

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LOL! He calls me his whore or his slut mostly because he took my virginity and because I'm only naughty with him lol :) Some girls would find that degrading but as long as it doesn't happen outside of the bedroom I'm okay with it ;)
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AustinMan

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Are you just okay with it or do you enjoy the role in that moment? Would you call yourself that if he didn't?
Asker

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I wouldn't refer to myself as a whore or slut lol but when we're in the heat of the moment I actually enjoy it when he calls me that lol :) Maybe I'm weird but it just triggers something in my mind
AustinMan

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You're not remotely weird. I'm guessing what it triggers in your mind is your sexually submissive streak. How would you react if he tossed you over his knee and gave you a bare bottom spanking for being such a tart at a time like that?
Asker

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Well we kind of alternate between who is dominant & who is submissive (I'd like to think lol) but normally he takes the reins because he's more experienced lol :) And he does spank my bottom playfully sometimes and I like it because it shows he's territorial and that I'm his lol :)
AustinMan

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Switches!! How lovely! Have you ever dabbled in bondage? Some subs love the helplessness that comes from not being able to move.
Asker

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Oh no lol :) That's not for us. Neither of us are into the idea of bondage lol although I heard some people do enjoy that. I just like being able to move freely and the idea of not being able to kind of freaks me out aha :) I do think the guy should be more dominant than the girl but bondage takes it to an extreme (in my opinion) :)
AustinMan

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This one of those don't knock it 'til you try it kind of things. You can start with just a pair of wrist cuffs and you're more at his mercy. That have any attraction?
Asker

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It does kind of hold an attraction lol although we'd probably have to take baby steps if I ever considered it lol :)
AustinMan

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Consider! And go with baby steps. I suspect you find the helplessness very erotic. Who knows, he might even spank you soundly on your bare bottom.
Asker

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He might be into it & we will never know unless we give it a try lol :) I'm still in the experimenting stage since he's my first sexual partner so we shall see lol :P If neither of us enjoy it we can just rule it out and no harm done right :)
AustinMan

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Exactly but give it a fair shot. What do your fantasies tell you?

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Asker

What kind of body language? I think it's great that he can detect it because when we're actually together I don't need to spell it out for him aha :) That actually sounds like something he'd say lol and I don't mind it because name calling does something to me for some reason lol :)

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AustinMan

Ah! I wonder what he calls you when he has you alone and naked and is having his wicked way with his naughty little...

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Asker

LOL! He calls me his whore or his slut mostly because he took my virginity and because I'm only naughty with him lol :) Some girls would find that degrading but as long as it doesn't happen outside of the bedroom I'm okay with it ;)

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AustinMan

Are you just okay with it or do you enjoy the role in that moment? Would you call yourself that if he didn't?

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Asker

I wouldn't refer to myself as a whore or slut lol but when we're in the heat of the moment I actually enjoy it when he calls me that lol :) Maybe I'm weird but it just triggers something in my mind

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AustinMan

You're not remotely weird. I'm guessing what it triggers in your mind is your sexually submissive streak. How would you react if he tossed you over his knee and gave you a bare bottom spanking for being such a tart at a time like that?

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Asker

Well we kind of alternate between who is dominant & who is submissive (I'd like to think lol) but normally he takes the reins because he's more experienced lol :) And he does spank my bottom playfully sometimes and I like it because it shows he's territorial and that I'm his lol :)

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AustinMan

Switches!! How lovely! Have you ever dabbled in bondage? Some subs love the helplessness that comes from not being able to move.

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Asker

Oh no lol :) That's not for us. Neither of us are into the idea of bondage lol although I heard some people do enjoy that. I just like being able to move freely and the idea of not being able to kind of freaks me out aha :) I do think the guy should be more dominant than the girl but bondage takes it to an extreme (in my opinion) :)

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AustinMan

This one of those don't knock it 'til you try it kind of things. You can start with just a pair of wrist cuffs and you're more at his mercy. That have any attraction?

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Asker

It does kind of hold an attraction lol although we'd probably have to take baby steps if I ever considered it lol :)

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AustinMan

Consider! And go with baby steps. I suspect you find the helplessness very erotic. Who knows, he might even spank you soundly on your bare bottom.

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Asker

He might be into it & we will never know unless we give it a try lol :) I'm still in the experimenting stage since he's my first sexual partner so we shall see lol :P If neither of us enjoy it we can just rule it out and no harm done right :)

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AustinMan

Exactly but give it a fair shot. What do your fantasies tell you?

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Joeyb12

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Most of the time a guy can tell if a girl is horny. She doesn't have to be a girlfriend in order for him to Know. I sometimes know by the way a girl talks or acts but never make a move on her. The blushing and sexual stare is how I know. And other body movements show it.

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Asker

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What's a specific body language sign? :)
Joeyb12

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Playing with their while they look at a guy and leg movements. some I notice when they are wearing flip-flops they will use those to show they are horny. Most of the ways that I know are hard to explain. For me girls that dangle their flip flops is a big turn on, sexy female feet and flip-flops = SEXY
Joeyb12

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I meant to say playing with their hair. LOL
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Asker

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I got the gist lol :) Yeah, my boyfriend always comments that I'm playing with my hair and I fiddle with any object in the room when I'm horny without even realizing it lol :) Guys have good observation skills I would say!
Joeyb12

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Us guys are very aware of sexy girls that do things and that gets us horny. I love watching a girl play with flip-flops and twirl their hair especially at the same time.😂 Mostly anything girls do can and will make a guy horny.

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Asker

What's a specific body language sign? :)

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Joeyb12

Playing with their while they look at a guy and leg movements. some I notice when they are wearing flip-flops they will use those to show they are horny. Most of the ways that I know are hard to explain. For me girls that dangle their flip flops is a big turn on, sexy female feet and flip-flops = SEXY

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Joeyb12

I meant to say playing with their hair. LOL

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Asker

I got the gist lol :) Yeah, my boyfriend always comments that I'm playing with my hair and I fiddle with any object in the room when I'm horny without even realizing it lol :) Guys have good observation skills I would say!

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Joeyb12

Us guys are very aware of sexy girls that do things and that gets us horny. I love watching a girl play with flip-flops and twirl their hair especially at the same time.😂 Mostly anything girls do can and will make a guy horny.

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timbo2 | 73 opinions shared on Sexuality topic.

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Some people are good at reading other people. You could be blushing or moving a certain way or speaking differently. It can be a ton of things.

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Asker

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Yes! Apparently my voice gets softer and I play with my hair a lot according to him. He's very good at reading people & very perceptive in general lol :)

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Asker

Yes! Apparently my voice gets softer and I play with my hair a lot according to him. He's very good at reading people & very perceptive in general lol :)

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Anonymous

No, she hides it

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Asker

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Well I try to but I'm really bad at hiding it lol :) Most girls try to hide it

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Asker

Well I try to but I'm really bad at hiding it lol :) Most girls try to hide it

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