I may have raped my best friend's wife (explained in deets). Am I a bad person?

So my best mate and I went fishing last Saturday and camped out until Sunday morning.
He left his catch with me cause there is no power in his street because of a fault and it won't be fixed until next week.

Anyway, he didn't have time to pick it up so he sent his wife over.
She came straight from the gym and had on those shorts that if a man wore them would be considered underwear.
My freezer is a drawer below my fridge and I told her the catch was in there.
When she bent over I commented that those shorts didn't leave much to the imagination.

In response she did a little booty shake. So my response was to walk over and grab it.
She quickly swung around and slapped me and said no and to behave myself.
But I grabbed it again and said "but no means yes right?"
She didn't answer and I still had my hand there so I peeled down her shorts and walked her to my room where we had sex. It was pretty kinky too but I won't go into detail. All 3 holes.

So she only gave me the one no but made no objection when I went for a second crack and willfully walked to my room with her pants down.
I mean is that actually rape or not?
It was still rape.
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Not rape. She made a pretty clear just silent consent.
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Ok... I'm getting a lot of "you made this up" in the comments section. If you think that it's up to you and your life probably isn't exciting enough to believe the sorts of things that go on when you're married in your 30's and have other married friends. Blanket answer to that comment so I won't be answering those anymore.
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  • This is actually a really good question. Without verbal consent that is in fact rape and the question of whether body language can be used as consent is also very intriguing. I had not considered for the longest time the idea of using body language as consent.

    So I suppose if I were a judge sitting this particular case I would need a psychological assessment of the woman if she were to press charges to see if she had the same mental markers as those who are victims of violent and forceful crimes.

    Fascinating.

    • Well she's crazy in the sack that's for sure

    • I don't know if that matters to me since I can't have a piece of DAT ASS

    • Well you can't with that attitude

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  • Omg, is that how easy it is to get a girl to have sex with you? Advance on her and keep going even after she slaps you and tells you to behave? And she'll still do it even if she's married to your best friend? Gosh, I've been doing it wrong my whole life.

    • It depends on the woman. In my experience women usually respond to physical touch when you're alone with them and are giving you signals

    • Well perhaps her rocking up to your place without putting on some decent pants was a clear sign she wanted you so maybe it makes sense. Though if that were the case, I don't know why she would slap you at first.

    • I suspected she might like me or at least just be a bit of a slut for a while now

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  • What. The. Fuck. Is. Wrong. With. You.

    You damn well know that answer.

    Get ready for the worst ass whooping of your life.
    Oh and I'm sure you can have your "pals" "wife" all to yourself after that ass gets beat

    • No way could be beat me in a fight

    • Hope you like soup

    • I quite enjoy soup actually why?

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  • I wouldn't call it rape because her initial rejection seemed feigned like she was just playing hard to get, but you're still a terrible person for fucking another man's wife.

    • Yeah true

  • I honestly don't know. Why didn't you just stop when she said no the first time and why in the hell would you do that to your "best friend"? This doesn't seem real

    • She shook her ass in front of me. If that's not a sign, what is?

    • I'm talking about after she said no, and you did it anyway. What made you feel so entitled?

    • That was before she said no

  • If this story is true both of you are disgusting and I am sorry for your best friend. You don't deserve him.

    • Hey I'm keeping his fish in my freezer

    • So what?

    • @Asker lmao

  • Considering the fact that didn't happen, nah you're good.

    • I wouldn't be so quick to assume it didn't. You don't know me

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  • That sounds like fully informed consent to me!

  • Sounds fake as fuck

  • this is foul, dawg.

  • I don't bother to read your story. You are a disgusting human being

    • You should read it

    • Omg you're a Killing Stalking fan too?

    • Shit you know! 😅 Yes

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  • It doesn't sound like rape but you're gonna be murdered by you're friend most likely

  • Nice troll dude. You’ve got lots of peeps fired up.

    • It would've been but it's actually true

    • [X] Doubt

  • Not rape but thats still the worst thing either of you could do the friend (I mean, if this is actually real)

    • It is

  • No, but you are a terrible friend and she is an awful wife.

  • No does not mean yes. Tf?

    • Yeah but that's what you say when a woman says no and if she says no again then it's no

    • Why not listen the first time? That's childish.

    • It didn't sound like a real no. I can't convey the tone

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  • Interesting fanfiction you've written.

    • Fanfiction?

  • Lol, what are a professional porno writer?

    • No but I'm happy to have turned you on with my life

    • I bet you wish that would have happened

    • Beforere it actually did yeah

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  • Why did you have to that with someone's wife? It's really bad.

    • She got me horny. Just a spur of the moment thing.

    • WTH! She can wear whatever she wants to and men need to change their minds. You were literally forcing her!

    • Yeah but she bent over and shook her ass at me

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  • It is not rape at all if the story is true. I hope that you beat that pussy up

    • I gave it pretty good

    • Sounds like you condone rape

    • Sigh He’s a troll yo

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  • It's not a rape but you are a dick head of a friend!

    • I'll take that

  • sounds like a bad sex novel for teenage girls and boys. but no it doesn't sound like rape

  • What did your mate catch?

    • A couple of flatties and a pretty big bream

    • Not bad. You're a good friend to hold it for him.

    • Thanks man

  • Not rape. She made a pretty clear just silent consent.

    • I think so

  • She loves you

    • Maybe

    • you made this up

  • This definitely happened. You watch too much porn, bro

    • It actually happened believe it not. There are a lot of doubters though. I think most people here's lives are just not exciting

    • No, it didn't, and that's ok, nobody takes these kinds of stories seriously anyway. Degeneracy is not exciting, finding fulfilling relationships is. I used to be a total fuckboy and the most exciting relationship I've ever had is my total dork (and inexperienced virgin) best friend who fell in love with me.

    • It happened alright. Just cause your life isn't exciting that doesn't mean nobody else's is. Wait until you got your 30's and have friends with wives dude

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  • I'm not going to lie that's hot as hell

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