Guys, what's a situance where you're not in the mood for sex?

Men have a stereotype of wanting sex all of the time, and are ready at any given time. I know that's not the truth but I just want some instances when you aren't in the mood, cause I can't think of a lot of things that would stop guys from wanting to bone. You can use an actual event, or one you just don'r think you'd be up for it.

Please avoid over obvious ones like you just heard your grandma died
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  • When you were just at your side chick's place and it took her an unusually long time go climax so you just want to go home, cry in the shower and go straight to bed. But then your girlfriend is waiting for you in the tub and just came back from victoria secrets and because you're not in the mood you spend ages on forplay which gets her even more turned on. And after like two hours she wants to return the favour so you have to lay there for like an hour trying not to fall asleep.

    Or when she's really pissed you off and you can't stand the sight of her.

  • Being sick makes you want it less or not at all... it depends on the guy and the type of argument but if Im in an argument with my girl - Im not very horny at that time... can't think of any other situations rn, but Im pretty sure there are other ones

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  • When I am engulfed in a nice book, a video game that I'm really into, or I need my time to myself and don't want to be bothered.

  • 1- Tired from work
    2- The girl is being annoying
    3- When you have something that's time sensitive
    4- Thinking about a problem that you can't solve
    5- you have feelings for someone else
    6- The girl is not attractive to me

    • Rather well put

  • When i am tired or too much work stuff on my mind

  • Right after I've finished having sex.

  • When I'm really tired I can't keep an erection no matter what I do.

    Gotta be decently rested to be able to romp 👍

  • I would say when I get so sick that my body aches and all the body wants to do is just sleep.

  • In some cases, it could be loss of a loved one that puts men off from sex.

    • that's why said it.

  • Honestly if I just ate a really big meal, don't take me to bed, cuddles first until the Itis has passed

  • After an argument, while watching something I really like, or if it's the day before something stressful

  • - Being too tired
    - Being starvingly hungry/thirsty
    - SSRI
    - Sometimes we just had sex and are in our refractory period
    - High stress levels
    - During and after a fight
    - Being too much in pain
    - Being in a blazingly hot environment
    - Having just being kicked in the nuggets
    - Terrible music
    - No privacy

  • When your watching your favourite TV show/series/movies. Or if I'm heading out somewhere.

  • Usually if a game is on or just after an argument but most of the time we're ok specially just light touching and caressing

  • When i get home after 15 hours of work.. then i really want to do a lot in bed... cuddles and sleeping.. but sex? No.. to tired for that

  • When they get really drunk. I belive the term is called "whisky dick"
    Or
    If they just masturbated, usually it takes a few hours to regenerate more sperm.

    • My mistake "whisky dick" we still try, but just can't finish.

  • when my sexual hormones are not at its peak

  • For me it depends on how bad off a day I have had at work, my job is extremely stressful and has high expectations for everyone and if it comes down to just wanting to come home and relax to get my mind off of work I wouldn’t be in the mood

  • None Lol

  • Never

  • Nothing

  • Simply too tired.

    Maybe she smells.

    Headache.

    Hungry.

    Maybe it's too hot, temperature wise doesn't want anyone touching him.

    Maybe he's gassy.

    Or simply not in the mood :)

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