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Ballet leotard persistant arousal help?

Ok so im 21y F and I've been dancing for the past 14 years. Something that has been happening since i started dancing is that I always get aroused in class due to the fabrics of tights and leotard. everything rubs my clit allthe time when i move. i just had the guts to ask this now because its anonimously. But here's the deal, i discovered masturbation when my ballet tights touched and rubbed my genitals when i was little. and nowadays the feeling is also arousing and the movements and breathing makes my leotard rub a lot down there and i always have wet spots down there in my leos and tights. when i get home from dance class i masturbate a lot and it has been always like that. any similar experiences? what should i do?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Don’t worry, there is probably nothing wrong with you as long as you are healthy and you eat healthy and get enough sleep.

    People’s sex drives vary. Doctors attribute this behaviour to the fact that the sex drive depends on the levels of testosterone, a hormone found in abundance in men. On the other hand, women have only one tenth of the amount of testosterone as men.

    However, there are cases where women have increased testosterone levels, and this can cause a high sex drive in women.

    Focusing your thoughts on things that interest you besides sex is another effective way to reduce your hyperactive sex drive. Yoga, meditation and breathing exercises also help to curb the libido.

    Libido is a major concern for women when it is either too high or too low. There are many cases of a high sex drive in women.

    No need to worry. Enjoy Masturbation.

    Hope it Helps.
    Any Queries?

  • I would not ever discourage masturbation and I would assume you have tried padding? Are you close enough with any other dancers to discuss with them? Surely you cannot be the only one feeling this.
    Does the arousal affect your dancing? In a positive way? I'm asking because when stimulated I seem to be less inhibited when writing and the words flow onto the page a whole lot easier

Most Helpful Girls

  • It sounds like your leotards are a bit too tight, which can happen—try finding one that isn’t so tight around the crotch or even go a size up and have it fitted to you?

  • It's understandable I get turned on by thongs rubbing. As long as it doesn't affect your dance performance who cares if you get a little horny?

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  • maybe put on a pad under there. That might help.

  • Are you a ballet dancer or a modern dancer?

    • both

    • Which one turns you on more?

    • Are you horny?

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  • I never understand how girls can get aroused without the visual element present. You get aroused by the feel of your leotard. Guys get aroused by seeing a leotard.

  • I don't think there has to be done something XD why change?

  • loool

  • It happens to men too when we wear speedos or dancing tights. You get used to it. Maybe go up a size and see if that helps.

  • If it's not affecting you negatively then just let it happen

  • Are you horny

    • dude wut

  • Sweetie, there's nothing wrong at all. This is something you can, and should, learn to enjoy.

    The exact same thing happened to me during my ballet days. Like, literally the same thing. I was dressing for ballet and got that funny feeling between my legs because the tights and leotard were hugging me just right. (And it wasn't necessarily because they were too tight. I remember trying on a leo that was too small, and it didn't feel good down there at all.) During class, I couldn't help wondering if any of the other girls were feeling the same thing I was. But of course, being a confused teenager, I wouldn't dare talk about something like that out loud. After class, I noticed that feeling wasn't going away, and it seemed to become more intense. Natural curiosity led to touching. You can imagine the beautiful conclusion.

    I mentioned it to the teacher when it was relatively safe and private and she said it's a perfectly normal thing that happens with some ballet dancers, probably more than you think. The materials of the uniform can be very sensual, especially since we don't wear anything underneath. And the moves we make... well, it's natural that our uniform moves with us, it's designed that way.

    Your mileage may vary but if it's affecting your dancing, here's what I tried: I just embraced it. I added subtle, sensual elements to my dance moves. Sometimes, not so subtle. Nobody ever seemed to complain and it was a sexy little secret I kept. At least until now.

    Enjoy it, love it. To this day, my most powerful O's are when I'm in a leo and tights. Even though a ballet class would be next to impossible for these old bones now.

  • Seems you developed a fetish for those things ;-)

    You should stop masturbating.

  • Just enjoy it. That is very hot would love to see it. Do you orgasm while dancing. Is it constant tease through out the dance.
    I used to dance and get huge boners because of the materials in what we guys wore.

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