Masturbating with my dysphoria?

I have gender dysphoria and I avoid masturbating for it causes my dysphoria to go crazy. I would rather not have dysphoria happen while I masturbate or after. This is usually what happens. I feel the semen coming and tell myself now just let it happen. It will start to squirt out and feels so good and soon after I ejaculate, I start to feel awful. It sucks!!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Everyone i know when i was younger ended up with a little bit post-masturbation guilt. I think it was more to do with the stigma attached to it that brought it on, especially if you came from religious household.
    Eventually you stop caring.

  • why is it that you feel bad about it? i mean can you not have gender dysphoria but still enjoy masturbation?

    • It's the fact Of I hate seeing my stuff down there. I hate how it works. Except for peeing I wish it wasn't there.

    • well i don't exactly enjoy seeing "my stuff down there" and i think it's slightly disgusting even though i'm heterosexual and identify as a male. i just try not to focus on it in masturbation, cause even for me that makes things worse xD

Most Helpful Girl

  • I’m sorry that must be horrible for you. Have you talked to a psychiatrist or some kind of specialist about the dysphoria and problems that it’s causing you? If not you should try it maybe it will help

    • Very awful. I've tried to avoid talking to a therapist about it because of the money.

    • Check with your insurance some cover it

    • Ya I def should look into that.

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  • Gerbils tube bum

  • I'm sorry what? 😂

  • What is your question exactly?

    • I want to know how to get around the dysphoria to just love what I feel when masturbating.

    • Be proud of your body and what it can do. I'm not entire sure what dysphoria is

    • Im transgender. Its a disconnect between your body and who you are.

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  • I smell a sort of narcissism.