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Why does my boyfriend get turned off when he eats me out?

I will first say that it wasn't always like this, and I'm 1,000% sure it's not due to smell, taste, or grooming. I'm ridiculously self aware, I've tasted myself via kissing transfer and it's a very mild taste, and my grooming habits have not changed since high school. I make sure everything is clean.
Anywho, long story short (and yes, this is short) my boyfriend and I dated for about a year and I thought I hit the jackpot with this. He not only was willing to go down on me, but he was enthused about it, and ridiculously good at it as well. Then, we sort of broke up? Ish. He was still very good at eating out while we were "broken up". We got back together officially a couple months after that, and his enthusiasm declined about a month later. I thought that it was insecurity or something, but it's been like this for over a year now. Every other aspect of our relationship is wonderful. We can be serious or goof off and still have a great time, we don't fight often, and when we do, it's respectful on both ends. We're good with each other's friends and family. And we're planning on moving in together soon. Also, aside from this issue, our sex life is fantastic. Never boring, he's still enthused with everything else.
This would be a very small problem IF he wasn't so adamant about doing it. He still thinks it's a great idea to eat me out. But every time he does, it's almost robotic now, and he inevitably loses wood. I've told him hundreds of times (in comfortable settings with varying degrees of serious) that he can just skip it if he doesn't like it anymore. No harm done. I get pleasure from plenty of other aspects of sex. And he'll go ahead and not do it the next couple of times, and we'll both end up satisfied. But then he'll just start up again. And be robotic again. And lose wood again. It's starting to drive me crazy. So 1. Why would that suddenly start turning him off and 2. Why would he keep doing it if he knows it turns him off?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe it's been done too much so it's no longer thrilling for him and if something isn't thrilling then it's not particularly going to be a turn on. He will keep doing it probably because u enjoy it, if he wants to please u then he will try I suppose

  • My boyfriend eats me out two times a day, morning and night. He says he loves the taste of my juices and every night he’ll be licking me for at least an hour, sometimes two hours.

  • If you don't enjoy it, you're not moaning so he doesn't get enthusiastic about it and doesn't perform well so you don't enjoy it. It's a vicious cycle

  • Just take a break from doing it. Or spice it up by doing it in new places or positions.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Wax your pussy, there is nothing worse than a face and mouthful of pubic hair and what's even worse is when a few stray hairs end up in your mouth or stuck in your throat.

    Seriously, get your pussy waxxed

    • He's not into the waxed look. I shaved once and he pouted like a child. Would be interesting though if the same thing he wants is also the same thing that deprives him of what he wants

    • I'm at a loss then, I've never heard of anyone complain about a girl with a waxed pussy.

    • It's a first for me too lmao. He's just strange, I guess.

  • It might just be him changing and not being as interested in doing that. Does he like lose the hard on permantly or just while down there? If so maybe he's lying on it or someithing lol

    • Just while he's down there lol

    • So yeah he could be just get the blood circulation cut off lmao

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  • Maybe he is doing it to keep u satisfied..

    • But I've told him multiple times it doesn't satisfy me anymore? So why wouldn't he just switch to something that does satisfy me? It's like he's only determined to satisfy me in that particular way, but neither of us enjoy it anymore

    • U mean he suck Ur pussy?

  • If he does it every time, maybe it's just become boring routine. Try a different position (69 or you straddle his face or he eats you from behind) to add some variety. Maybe that'll bring the spark back.

  • You smell awful

    • I must, if you can smell it from there

    • Might just be me

  • may b u taste not so well to him

    • Considered that, but my taste has not changed in the slightest since we first started dating, and he used to enjoy it.

    • may be tired of the same taste?

  • Don't let him do it

  • It's hard give you an advice in this situation. Try to do something different maybe with 69 position both can enjoys also if you want to impress him eat his ass out... I'm not gay but feels awesome then I think he will try to give you your reward. God your over 18 right?

  • I don't like dirty pussy. It must be washed first.

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