Use condoms until you both get tested.
As a girl, I don't really feel a big difference between with or without.
And at least with a condom none of us have to worry about taking hormones everyday of our life.
It is true that it is less intense for the man, but it shouldn't be the reason to take it off.
All my exes and the people I asked about used condoms for several months (or more for some people) before switching to another contraception.1 0 0 0Well I'm a virgin so I can skip the testing lol, I think my boyfriend is clean but I'll ask him to get tested, it would only be fair for me. But okay, thanks so much for the advice! :)
Yes it would be fair, and it won't cost you anything to do it too, so it is fair for both of you (I work in a hospital so I can tell you people can get STD deseases from other ways than sex, not talking about you specificly of course, but there can be surprises)
Oh really? :0 What other ways? 😱
I prefer no condom but that and the fact I forgot to take my pill is the reason I'm preggers
1 1 0 0Awww 🙈 God bless your pregnancy sweetheart. Hope your little one becomes the best thing in this world for you 🤗
Thanks. I know it will.
You're welcome, thank you for sharing your experience
It feels a hell of a lot better than an STD or being pregnant.
1 1 0 0Lol well yeah, but if you didn't run the risk of those, wouldn't it be better without a condom and use a different method? xD
No other method stops STDs though. I never had a guy not enjoy sex with me because I made him wear a condom.
True, but I don't think of going around sleeping with random men that might have STD's. I only want a long term sexual relationship with one partner that's clean :)
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It like eating sweet with a wrappers on. I do hate it too because I can not feel the wetness. Sadly to be safe than sorry I will have to wear condom to prevent std and hiv. That is why I don't just sleep around and I rather masturbate than fucking stranger with condom.
Will only go without condom with long time partner2 0 0 0Wow that's very descriptive, thank you. And yes well I'm a virgin and I wanna have my boyfriend tested before we do anything. He's not a promiscuous guy, he's had very few girlfriends before and not much sex from what I know. I still wanna know all his sex history, it would only be fair to me. So I would wanna go condomless with him if he's clean. We are long term so I would like to use another method like maybe the pill. I wouldn't know, but I believe skin on skin would be the ultimate feeling of pleasure and intimacy.
Mmm that nice. Good luck. You can experience both condom and without. Go without after you know he is clean. Make sure he will withdrawal if you are not on pill. Enjoy making love. I am sure you will love it. Remember the 1st time will be very sore but after that will get easier.
For sure, thanks so much! :) And yeah I'm aware the first time can be a little intense lol, but I know he'll be very gentle, we've talked about it haha
I would not say the wetness, but more of texture, the vagina has a texture to it that feels good, however wearing a condom, even the super thin ones, takes away from this texture, makes everything feel smoother and not as enjoyable
1 1 0 0Ohh okay thanks :) I wanna make my first time with my boyfriend very enjoyable for him so I was wondering if we should use condoms or a different kind of method instead
Use condoms regardless, the risk of pregnancy and stds are too high, there are many other ways of making it enjoyable for BOTH of you, foreplay, touching, visual teasing, intercourse is only a small part of being intimate
Yeah you're right, thanks for the advice :)
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4 14It’s still good even if the guy has a condom on, just that the rubbing sensation is, I don't know less intense... and obviously can't feel him finish :o (
1 0 0 0Shit, it removes some of the most intense sensations of sexual intercourse.
1 0 0 0Wow interesting :0
Without a condom I can feel everything. With a condom not everything but it still feels good. But it protects from STDs and pregnancy (if not on birth control).
1 0 0 0You can definitely still feel how hot she is, but not actually how wet she is, at least not like without it. There are flavored condoms and also textured condoms too, so maybe if we want to play around I will use one of those
1 0 0 0Bare is obviously so much better because of the awesome heat and fluid transfer.
Although there are those thin "bareskin" advertised condoms that do share some of the warmth, if you have to use condoms.1 0 0 0Can still feel a little bit how wet she is but without its brilliant feeling it wet 💦 😍
1 0 0 0Ahh, reason I'm asking this question is because I've never had sex before, and I think I might soon with my boyfriend. But I want my first time to feel really good for him so I guess I'll go bareback with him :)
Definitely go on the pill if u are but I advice use a condom to be safe he will still feel how good it is trust me
Oh okay :) If, however, the pill is taken at the same time every day, there shouldn't be a risk of pregnancy, right? I wanna feel my boyfriend skin on skin, I don't wanna risk pregnancy but I want that complete intimacy if you know what I mean. Especially for my first time.
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1 0 0 0The sensation is less intense. You can feel the warmth, but not the wetness.
1 0 0 0That sucks lol
It's not as good as without a condom, but it's not bad either.
Gotcha
Just feel the heat
1 0 0 0l dont use them
1 0 0 0send the condoms to the third world
Like going to bed with your socks on
0 0 0 0Lol I actually like doing that cuzz my feet get cold 😂
its worse, condom is worse invention. raw fuck is best.
1 0 1 0i hate it do u like it
1 0 0 0I wouldn't know, I'm a virgin, that's why I'm asking 😂 I wanna have sex with my boyfriend and I want his first time with me to feel really good you know?
hmmm im jealous too many virgin here
Lol well I'm anonymous so maybe some other anonymous virgin questions are coming from me 😂 But yeah there's lots of virgins here, they come here for advice like me xD
safe sex, especially if you don't know him or her
1 0 0 0It feels like a lie. We know we are in there but dont have the friction as without it. I can rarely ever finish with a condom. can't feel the wetness. And then we just smell like latex. Very little feeling with one one
1 0 0 0Oh wow interesting :0
I don’t like or wear them. I love feeling the natural warmth and wetness plus I love to feel her orgasm and also finish inside too.
1 0 0 0Nothing like natural I must imagine 😍
Slipping in bare is soooooo much better in terms of the feel for both the guy and the girl.
1 0 0 0A condom reduces friction so it makes sex less intense but it is outweighed by the benefits of wearing them. No pregnancy, no diseases and it provides lubrication which is important but you can just use lube instead
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