Will a guy ever say no to getting a blowjob?

[Anonymous]

I really want to give my boyfriend one (we just started dating) I've been fantasizing about giving him one for so long. Thing is that he's really shy and so am I so I don't know how to initiate it. Also, I'm afraid that he'll think I'm being too forward or aggressive. Do you think he'll say no because he's shy? Also, how should I initiate this?

[TonguePunch]

Well, in theory , a guy will only refuse a bj if he is totally against it cuz it seems unclean and disgusting to him... or he isn't up for anything sexual at that moment for whatever reason... you could talk to him what he thinks of oral pleasure in general... or maybe when you are kissing and getting intimate and touchy... maybe get to a hand job at first... and when he is really hard and horny just like... tell him to close his eyes... or maybe tell him you want to pleasure him more... and then slowly go for that dick and mouth action... one other option is when you are kissing... go down his neck, chest and belly... and look how he is reacting... I dunno... you both are shy so just take it slow... watch him... talk about what you both want...

[MrMysteryMan]

Yeah a guy will object to one, but it would be because of being not attracted to the person or just not feeling up to having one or maybe they don't like oral sex (for some odd reason). But that's subjective. Either than that, most guys want nasty sloppy bjs.

[Asker]

Lol he's verrry attracted to me.

[MrMysteryMan]

Well then, SUCK AWAAAAYYYY!!!

[Asker]

Hahaha how should I initiate it though?

[MrMysteryMan]

It's easy. When you guys get hot enough during heavy making out and petting, push him back against the couch (or bed, or wall, or sink, or car hood, or etc, etc, etc...), start undoing his pants while kissing him and looking into his eyes in that sly, sexual, naughty look women get that are OH SO sexy to see, start kissing him down his neck, then his chest, then his belly, then grind your face in his pubs and then slowly go up his shaft and... Well, you get the gist. ;)

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

You can either ask or test the waters by handling his package with your hands a little. If he responds positively I would then ask and go for it if he says yes. I think he is more likely to go for it if he is horny and in the mood.

[disasterdrills]

damn you look really good

[desidoll]

I have never met any. They are the minority though. Most guys love it.

[ok359]

Who ever says no is not a real man xD

[deeders]

It's a free service so, Well, except this man has a girlfriend (not you)

[vad1990]

How are you

[ZanyInternetName]

Necessary information: Are you engaging in sexual activity at all? It sounds like you're not.

[Asker]

No we're not.

[ZanyInternetName]

I'd suggest that you first create a situation with light sexual contact, such as giving him a handjob. I don't know how to do that properly. Once you've done that and it is at last not an uncommon occurrence you could go about giving him a blowjob, although you would do it slowly and in a manner that may not cause him embarrassment. I have potential ideas on how to initiate sexual contact but I am not the best choice to come up with such things.

[skullwulf]

Ok maybe out of shyness or nerves he could think no but he wants it trust me! Be confident and tell him to let you do your thing!!

[ok359]

Not against his will...

[Asker]

How should I initiate it?

[ok359]

What turns me on for example if she says how much she likes my dick then sucks thirsty and wild that drives me crazy But some guys maybe find that weird lol I guess what every guy likes Cuddle with him kiss him then slowly put ur hand into his pants then LOOK INTO HIS FACE does he enjoy or not? If he do , go ahead ;)

[ok359]

He does * sry :D

[skullwulf]

Both of what he sead would work I like answer 2 if we are not already messing around.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Yes, some men will say no if they do not like the person offering the blowjob for one reason or another. Whether it be her appearance or personality.

[NJ_Casanova]

Really depends on how shy he is, how he feels about you, etc.

A guy that isn't ready/not feeling it might say No... guys stand up for how they feel more than girls... which tend to give in to make their So happy/not make him mad.

[NJ_Casanova]

If he's aggressive when you are making out/into it... you should have no problem.. as him acting like that would say he is down for it.

[abc3643]

Is the Pope Catholic?

[The_Dean]

I like blowjobs. Why would I say no to the lovely lady handling my package?

[Ben_Mark]

There are times where a blowjob will be just a tease. Then again. I've never received a successful blowjob.

[GingerGuy]

Because he's shy, don't worry AT ALL about being forward, you have to be in this case! And you have nothing to fear, I can't see him stopping you.

[GingerGuy]

And to initiate, just start making out with him, then start touching him, slowly work your way down to that area. Start touching it. Pull it out and go to town! lol ;)

[Crackalata]

If he doesn't want it let me know. I stand in for him.

[Finchie40]

I would say no if I knew i wasn't fresh down there but then i would say give me 5 minutes to get a shower lol

[Cuintan]

If I'm dating her, no way! That would be an insult.
A random stranger has no chance!

[reptocarl]

“I want to suck your cock”

[JLoper23]

I doubt he'll say no unless he has a good reason. Given that he's shy, he probably wouldn't mind a BJ, but won't ask. I'd say talk to him about him, don't just go for it. Worst case scenario, he'll say no. As long as you approach the topic correctly, he won't think you're too forward. I can't tell you the right way to approach him though. That varies from person to person.

[Goochbreaker]

if he's dating you, that means he likes you, he probably wouldn't refuse a blowjob... on the other hand it might give him the impression that you are easy or go around blowing every guy so it's a bit of a risk

[StephenCF]

Dunno about him, but blowjobs are a no-no for me at all times, not while the person has teeth (in case they seek secret revenge for something stupid, offer me one, give me head, then let a rip)

[USA1960]

As " tough as it may be ", I'd decline a bj if I knew the gal had an underlining reason, that wasn't a good one, for the offering.

[Kylesar]

Most guys would definitely choose a blowjob over nothing, but that highly depends on your boyfriend. Could he? Most definitely, but that depends on him

It's not really on us to tell you if he really would or not. You know him better than we do

[Blu91]

I cannot imagine anyone stopping his girlfriend from doing a blowjob. And by the way for us is never too forward, i personally like "aggressive" girls. But again is just my opinion...

[Anon-ymous1]

Yes, if she's unattractive. If she's attractive, then no. Never.

[Walrus_au]

I very much doubt he would refuse it, I'd suggest just starting with feeling him up and move down there and go for it. If he's not into it, he'll let you know, but I bet he enjoys the hell out of it!

[OreoMilkshake]

Never had one but I know i would if I really didn't want it. When I'm stressed is when I'd decline i think.