Why do some guys like married women?

[ElaineS18]

Some guys get turned on when they find out the woman is married. Why is that?

[CubsterShura]

Let's see from the man's perspective.

1) The natural tendency to do forbidden stuff. 'Don't touch!' doesn't this sign just wanna make you touch it?
2) If she is married she must be that type of a great woman and definitely fuckable.
3) Milf fetish, especially if the woman has more curves since having a baby.
4) More experienced, mature, and most probably more naughty in bed. Definitely not naive.
5) The feel of being a winner in a competition.
6) The excitement of doing a risky thing. Kinda like acting like a rebel.
7) I feel like this is the most important. Wanting the rights but not willing to take responsibility. Basically with your own wife you have to take many responsibilities but with someone else's wife you don't have to do that. You can get away with stuff.
8) This one has to do with the woman. Of course if a man is with a married women she is also the kind of woman interested in younger, single men. She's also excited about another man outside of her marriage doing forbidden stuff with her, feeling better with a new man flattering her and all. Maybe taking his virginity as well.

That's all that I can think of.

[lord_chilled]

I see a trend here, where women that have an affinity to be independent from men , seem to be more interested in these kind of bad activities. No wonder men prefer submissive women. Much more loyal

[CubsterShura]

@lord_chilled I personally found no correlation there mainly because our culture here is so different and except in the urban and suburban areas women are highly dependent on men. One of my cousins works abroad, you see. His wife cheated on him while he was abroad that's why they had to divorce. His new wife is a much less attractive woman but such a goddamn sweet lady, omg. Rather men take bad advantage of submissive women and abuse them. 😭 Of course a man who loves beating woman would love a woman who doesn't fight back, so no... I am not interested in talking about why men love submissive women. Reasons vary depending on the person.

[lord_chilled]

As a man i see a lot of correlation. And yes, the cheating when one spouse works abroad happens a lot. I don't know, about abusive men, but i wouldn't enjoy fighting someone that doesn't hit back. But i dont know about those guys. In my experience submissive women do tend to be more loyal, so thats why normal men would prefer one

[CubsterShura]

@lord_chilled I understand your viewpoint. But things are not the same everywhere all the time for everyone. Cheaters come in all shapes, sizes and colors to me.

[lord_chilled]

Yeah they do, altough, i would say certain demographics have more of them. And the deciding factors seem to be culture , morals and circumstances.

[CubsterShura]

@lord_chilled that could be true.

[desidoll]

They are just using these women to feed their ego. Nothing more than that. These stupid women cheat on their husbands thinking that those young guys want to take them seriously. It makes them feel attractive again. I don't usually use the word hate but yea I hate any guys who have affair with married women. They must be laughing at these women's husbands and make fun of them. Toxic guys.

[azzntittiz]

Are these claims real? I hear this in the reverse too. People are weird, and I think it's because they are miserable and want to screw up what others have, makes them feel powerful and valuable. Just like some women like men who already have a woman, especially if the girl is better looking. If she can steal him she will feel prettier than the girl lmao.

[livinglikelarry223]

Never thought i would see the day that you were actually right in something. This must be a dream

[azzntittiz]

@livinglikelarry223 Oh hey livinglikealiar, I missed you, just wanna kiss you.

[livinglikelarry223]

Hahaha

[Elliegirl]

They want what they can’t have and if they get her, they’ve attained the forbidden. It’s the taboo of the conquest.

[Logorithim]

I haven't done this, but off the top of my head, I'd guess the reasons are:

1) The thrill of "forbidden sex" with another man's wife, especially without a condom
2) The ego boost of having sex with another man's wife- she wants you instead of him
3) It can be no-strings-attached sex
4) She can't be as demanding as a girlfriend
5) She's fetishized by him
6) Wanting something different, e. g., an older woman
7) Assumption that she is more experienced and better in bed
8) He lives at home and has no other place to have sex

[H2OHydrox]

There’s several reasons. 1. Knowing that there’s a minimal level of commitment involved in getting laid; 2. Ego - stealing another guy’s wife (and additionally if you can make her cum while he can’t/won’t); 3. Her voracious sexual appetite; and 4. The taboo nature of it.

[Tdieseler]

MHO here.

[H2OHydrox]

Glad that you found my words helpful 😀

[ElaineS18]

😉😉

[AthleticMom]

some report it's the affair, never to be anything but sex
needed/used by a gal that knows what-for, how to use it and out for sex for sexual reasons, motivated and wanton

[Tdieseler]

I've seen it happen, maybe have even had it sometimes... i guess it must be the forbidden fruit thing.
Its a better reason than why some women like married men, or fathers.

[SunnySonia]

1. Girls who are no more virgin are easy catch than the virgin girls as they are "afraid" to loose their virginity.
2. Now they are experienced.
3. They are more confident and open and understand sexual needs better.
4. There's more maturity and understanding especially when sex is concerned.

[TheGreatDerpsby]

This gives me bitter feelings some people don't have a sense of respect for one another or a respect for a relationship. I'm only commenting and not giving a legitimate answer is because I don't have a neutral or good enough response to this.

[Pinay_ako]

Simply because she is taken and is a challenge.

[Goodwifie]

Because they want what they can't have.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Well, I do not but if some men do it might be because they think that woman has good values and beliefs. That woman believed in unity and having a family.

[Goodwifie]

But then she doesn't have good values if she decides to cheat.

[PoliceLivesMatter]

Of course she wouldn’t

[princess094]

Because guys like what they can't have

[niomi04]

Can be true

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

It’s a challenge for them and they don’t respect you or your husband. They know no bounds.

[Smoothshave]

And The Married Women Who Seek Out Single Guys Don’t Respect Their Husbands Either...

[lord_chilled]

@Smoothshave i would argue they resoect their husbands a lot less than the single guy. The guy , unless he knows the husband, holds no loyalty to him. What she does is unforgivable

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

@lord_chilled married women cheat because they feel ignored or because the sex sucks.

[lord_chilled]

Yeah, exactly because they are sluts

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

@lord_chilled I don’t think you understand the concept of affairs period. It’s way more complex than that , people grow apart and sometimes pay more attention to their work.. so anyone could possibly look for an Affair like dudes too

[lord_chilled]

Either way if they had morals the would end the relationship or try to fix it. They are dirty wh*res , so they just cheat. Cheating is low, very low, and nothing you say justifies. You women aren't f*cking angels, get off your high horse.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

@lord_chilled I’m not pretending to have higher morals. I’m just stating that people of both genders do cheat , and more often than you would know.

[lord_chilled]

Shitty people cheat, decent people dont. Just because it happens doesn't make ut any less worse. Cheating, especially when married is the worst thing you can do. Its right up there with murder and rape for me

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

@lord_chilled murder and rape are way worse ! And yes cheating is a horrible thing when you are married I just thing that it has become a lot more common with social media.

[lord_chilled]

Which is why i think people need to limit social media and focus more on the real world. Everyone would be a lot better off without snapchat or insta. Also if you are married and your wife cheats on you, gets pregnant and you end up raising another mans child, thinking its yours, i dont see how rape or murder comes anywhere near to close to murder or rape. I'd rather be stomped and beaten to death 10 times than have that shit happen to me.

[ElaineS18]

Can you two please have your back and fourth whatever this is on pm or something so I stop getting the notifications

[lord_chilled]

When you post an interesting question, you should expect arguments or discussions. You can turn the notifications down by the way

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

@ElaineS18 you don’t have to read our argument or anyone else’s

[TheCunningLinguist]

Because of the married woman is to be had, Then they are less responsibility and less work. Often easy to please because they are unhappy, which can be an ego boost for them. When I was growing up, we called them all bottom feeders because they're feeding off of somebody else's table and have no ability to truly have someone of their own. For as soon as anyone really knows them, they realize there's nothing to them and dump them.

[TazWax]

The same reason some women like married men. It's hot to have an affair, or then in now way want a commitment

[swagswagswag]

They get off on the feeling that a woman who "belongs to another man" is coming to them to get her needs met. Plus, you never have to worry about getting exposed or dealing with any drama considering she wants to keep it as lowkey as possible. Her husband deals with all the emotional things you don't want to deal with, you get the sex.|

*Not speaking from experience here, fyi, I just know a lot of stories of guys who have done it and why they did

[10dsw]

(1) The forbidden fruit effect
(2) Happily married women are actually a pleasure to be around. They don't come with the bitter and depressing attitude that comes with older similar single women

[sammy1537]

More experienced, less uncertainty in her life, less complicated

[Dude55]

Having what you can't have.. or sometimes can

[Cuintan]

A lot of young guys have massive fantasies of being seduced and/or offered sexual coaching by an older married woman. No strings attached sex with an experienced woman is irresistable to the self esteem of the teen age mind marinating in sex hormones.
Not so sure this lasts into adulthood.

[ariadneR]

The thrill of the chase

[Solias]

I would say its because they have to go back to their own house with no subtle move in attempts

[Wollu]

Really? I had quite some married women but never knew in advance they have been married. If I would know it, I haven’t started anything with them. I disliked hearing it and the affair never lasted long. Loyalty is important for me.

[DominicJohn]

Same reason Adam ate that apple. Some people desire something that is forbidden. Nothing is ever enough. No self control. Knowing it is wrong can be a turn on for some.

[MeshCastillo]

Eve ate the apple... m

[DominicJohn]

Yup. Then she offered it to Adam and he got tempted