Guys, Is it bad if Im really horny all the time?

Is it bad if I am nearly always horny? Like I have an extremely needy sex drive but I’ve never had sex, it takes so much to not have sex. I already know I’m into a lot of kinks and most girls my age aren’t. I always find myself talking sexy over text and say what I want to do to guys, and have them say what they want to do but I don’t send pictures, I just talk really sexy. I’ve had a lot of guys say they’ve loved it because it’s so hot. I know when I have sex for the first time, I’ll want him to be rough and wild and to choke me and stuff like that. I just feel kinda insecure about some things with my body but I really want to have sex.
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  • It´s 100% natural. You are very lucky to know you like kinks so all you need, is a guy who likes the same things and has experience in that (especially choking and spanking as it can be dangerous if the guy doesn´t know what he´s doing). Take your time getting to someone who fits your ideal man-profile and go from there. For you to feel pleasured and safe, you need to accept your body and understand that how you look doesn´t have that much of an effect on the perfect guy for you. He will do all the things you want regardless of how you look. As many of your fantasies are based on ideal thoughts, I suggest you start slowly with the kinks so you know if you actually like it or not. The first time is exciting enough even without any hc bdsm so get to know your body first before diving into the hc stuff. Oh, and definitely find an older guy so you know he has experience and can make you feel good and safe.

  • I'm that way also. My sex drive is so high and I'm into kinky stuff. But I have not really found someone who I want to share it with and go that far with. I have fun sexting and writing sexual stories with some girls but it does not fully satisfy me but for a bit.. I want sex and to share it all with some one. Sometimes it feels wrong and bad. Others it just feels normal.
    If your up for it we can have some fun sexting on Kik. We can make up our own sex story.

    • Okay

    • What is your Kik name?

    • My Kik name is Hampstonater

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  • Hey, that’s alright. High sex drives aren’t a bad thing. Some guys probably really like higher sex drives or might even have a sex drive to match and you two will just always be able to go wild. You’ll find someone who can treat you right one day

    • Thanks 🙂

  • Bad? No, totally normal. Sounds like it's time for you to be on birth control if you aren't already.

  • All this is normal. Nothing wrong with it.

  • Haha so go have sex then! Just use protection!!! Having a child will ruin your career plans!

  • Puberty and hormones that's pretty much all it is. It's not bad or good it just is.

  • I'm horny all the time so you are perfectly normal

  • Why would that be bad?

    Also, once you turn 18, get an account on FetLife and join your local kink scene

  • Are you willing to follow through with your fantasies when you get the oppertunity?

  • I can totally relate to every single thing. Trust me it's not bad. Relax! be abit confident. I'm a virgin too and Ik how it feels when you have to control your urges. Do whatever your heart says. Good luck!
    by the way what's your age?

  • Why you ask though?

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