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Why does he keep asking if he can cum inside of me?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 months. We don't use protection but he always pulls out before he cums.
The past two times we have had sex, he has asked if he can cum inside of me. He knows I am not on birth control and that I have very little experience with it.

The first time he asked me if he could cum inside of me, I said no. When he asked why, I said I didn't want to get pregnant and he joked about being a good candidate for a father.
The second time he asked again was a few days ago.

Why does he keep asking me if he can cum inside of me when he knows I am not on birth control?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Look, humans are funny creatures, having an 'impregnation fetish' is something 'normal', but that does not mean that you should loose track of daily responsibilities and reality.

    Cut the crap: Coming inside w/o protection = making babies. Normal people only do that if they have a stable relationship and are ready to have together a baby.

    If that's not the situation, you should extremely fast return to decent anti-conception to not become parents. As long as you consent to having sex this way you're as guilty as him of this irresponsible situation.

    Seriously, stop it, and if he does not want to listen to you, up until finishing inside you against your will, kick him out.

  • Neither one of you are being responsible if you don't want to get pregnant. Relying on your boyfriend to "pull out" isn't very smart. Maybe he really does want to get you pregnant, because why else would he want to cum inside you without protection.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You need to get your butt to Planned Parenthood ASAP. First, put yourself on birth control. Pills, shot- something. Secondly, no birth control is 100% effective, and the more overweight you are the less effective it is. There are hundreds of known STDs. Condoms, while not 100% effective, can help curb you getting one.
    Also, to really answer your question, if he is pulling out now, there's barely a difference to just let him cum inside you. Pulling out is less than 40% effective.
    You need sex education desperately before you wind up with a child you're not ready for.

  • First, if you don't wanna get pregnant something has to change. You should get on birth control and he should be wearing condoms for the best changes of not getting pregnant. If you only what to use one method of contraception than choose between the two.

    Second, because creampies feel great but I don't suggest you let him do it if you really don't wanna become pregnant.

    • They feel great for the woman?

    • @HotDogg yeah, It's a nice warm feel to it

  • Dont do it sweetheart i made that same fatal mistake, to make my man happy and i ended up pregnant n u will 2.. n to be honest men talk about how good it is for u its really not, to have it leak out of u.. girl stand ur ground and tell him to wear a rubber if he doesn't want to pull out

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  • You don't want to get pregnant, so you have unprotected sex? Yeah ok...
    If you're not being responsible about it, why should he?

    • If he pull it before he cum she will not be pregnant

    • @johnthuglife "But pulling out can be difficult to do perfectly. So in real life, about 22 out of 100 women who use withdrawal get pregnant every year — that’s about 1 in 5." Seriously, even surgery isn't 100% safe. If you're genuinly concerned, you do not put all your eggs in a single basket full of holes. You also do your homework instead of making assumptions.

  • Girl... this guy is trying to get you pregnant... plain and simple.

    If that isn't your plan, find another guy. Any time you have a penis in a vagina, a pregnancy can happen... Nature made it work that way.

  • If you don’t want to get pregnant you should be putting a little more effort on your protection, just saying...

  • Tell him no and you shouldn't be having unprotected sex if your not on the pill. Its mega risky

    • Get on it before you have to get an abortion if he does it on purpose. And he sounds like a complete idiot.

  • It seems that you too are going to have a baby, I hope you are prepared to be a mother, because that's what happens when couples have unprotected sex and there's no birth control. Congratulations on the future baby

  • Because if feels much better than pulling out.
    Ask him how $5000 in natal expenses and 18 years of child support sound to him.

  • It feels amazing and more satisfying than pulling out

  • you need to go on birth control if you guys aren't using condoms. you never know when a guy is gonna pull a jerk move

  • Because he wants you to figure him as a father of your children. It’s a special thing for a man to hear that from a woman he loves. He already gave you the answer when he asked you if he wouldn’t be a good candidate.

  • Hey,

    This is very concerning and if I were you, I would ask him why he wanted to have in protection sex? I think you should be honest with him by telling him how you really feel about this. If he still doesn't listen, I would avoid him because that's a red flag.

  • if you dont wanna get pregnant , nake sure to use protection the pull out thing can still get you pregnant.

  • Bec it's enjoyable for both of the guy and the girl if the guy cums inside the vagina.

    If he's using protection then it's safe for him to cum inside. However if he's not using any protection don't let him.

  • He wants to become father, or he is an idiot.

  • Maybe he wants to impregnate you or maybe cause it feels good to cum inside.

  • Probably wants to be a dad? Or just too horny he can't think straight at the time of sex

  • he's a twat... dont let him cos all it takes is just one of 300million little fuckers to get through. Either dump him asap or go on the pill... unless you want a baby... the so called "safe" or "rhythm" method is a load of bollox

  • Just ask him clearly as it is not a matter of joke

  • Do u want get pregnant by a fool and and up being a single mom?

  • Don't know he's stupid. Don't let him if you must have sex make sure you use a condom !!!

  • You can’t expect a guy to pull out forever, it’s extremely unpleasant to pull out before cuming, the shock from hot to cold alone can make a guys orgasm much weaker, it’s natural to want to cum inside someone you love, my advice is to start on the pill and let him cum inside you’ll feel great too

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