Why do women have much more weaker sexual impulse and no sexual attraction?

Girls often say they rarely get horny and rarely get sexual arousing thought even they get wet 2-3 times a month. But sexual feelings is a regular routine for guys. It's like hunger, it comes instinctively frequent.

I have read book (The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine) yesterday, the book refers that

"The sex-related centers in the male brain are actually about two times larger than parallel structures in the female brain. When it comes to the brain, size does make a difference in the way women and men think about, respond to, and experience sex. Men, quite literally, have sex on their minds more than women do. Because of larger sex related center in the brain men get more sexual thoughts and impulse and women less because of small sex related center in brain, may be once in every other day or once a week. Females, from a biological point of view, simply devote less mental space to sexual pursuits"

Girls don't want sex regularly, they don't masturbate much they prefer to have sex for the sake of guy and their relationship.

I also heard heard that girls don't get horny without touch or may be get horny during their ovulation. Except during ovulation (30-3 (ovulation)=27) they don't sexually arouse or get wet. So, calculation say girls get horny 3-4 times a month and only fixed specific time of the month. Everyone say female biology doesn't produce a strong urge to have sex and they only get horny only certain time of the month.

SEXUAL ATTRACTION :

Most common quote of women :
due to biology, testosterone & brain wiring
Women don't experience sexual attraction/physical unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. Before an emotional connection guys and girls are same for them. Girls see people they think look nice, it's nearly the same as when they see flowers and think they look nice. The only person that they find different is the person whom they have some sort of connection. Random guys = Flower (Platonic) No sexual orientation.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yea, try telling that to the girls at work that keep on trying to touch my arms, shoulders and back. Women express it differently, but it's thirsty men that kills it.

    If you're selling a product and it's flying out the doors without ever needing advertisements, would you ever feel the need to advertise your desire to sell that product?

    I am never thirsty, never desperate, and never simping. I've had women beg me, chase, offer phone numbers, talk sexual innuendo, and seen them act all frustrated. Most men never see it because they are desperate. How much sexual tension do you think desperation generates...

  • What what the fuck have you been smoking
    We're all animals, we all like sex, I'm sure women like sex just as much as guys do

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  • Again with this. Women do experience sexual attraction, lust, and we DO masturbate. It may vary person to person, but nobody aside from asexuals and pre-pubescent children are completely devoid of sexual needs and feelings.
    I personally masturbate regularly, enjoy sex, and even definitively have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend.
    The woman who wrote this book was attempting to speak for all women when really, she was just speaking for herself and her sadly low libido.

    • Women do experience sexual attraction, lust, and we DO masturbate I know this. But how common it is? Do women get horny everyday? Do you experience sexual arousal, horniness, sexual feelings everyday or 3-4 times a month (during ovulation) Most common quote of women : due to biology, testosterone & brain wiring Women don't experience sexual attraction/physical unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. Before an emotional connection guys and girls are same for them. Girls see people they think look nice, it's nearly the same as when they see flowers and think they look nice. The only person that they find different is the person whom they have some sort of connection. Random guys = Flower (Platonic) No sexual orientation. What about sexual attraction? If sexual attraction is not visual then how do women experience it? It means men body does nothing for them because they can't experience sexual attraction visually.

    • The quote is describing demisexuality, not the sexuality of every woman. The common woman is attracted by visual means as well. The frequency with which I experience sexual arousal or horniness can depend heavily on my environment and state of mind. If I'm having a bad time mentally (due to insecurity, anxiety, depression) I'm less prone to sexual feelings. If I'm doing good mentally, or in the physical presence of my boyfriend, I get horny every day. As for masturbation, I can go through month-long periods of extreme sexual neediness, almost like a cat being in heat, and may masturbate 2-4 times a day at that time.

    • Often heard, Girls have only ever been attracted to one person, and that was only after they had gotten to know their personality and started liking them or contemplating if they liked them or not. But girls never just immediately feel attracted to a person visually. When they are single they don't feel sexual arousal or get aroused by anyone because they don't have chemistry or a connection to someone. (If I'm doing good mentally, or in the physical presence of my boyfriend, I get horny every day. ) You didn't experience it when you were single? As most women said, Girls don't feel sexual attract with looks and they don't feel like a sexual turn on without a connection. You also referred your boyfriend but here you already have emotional connection with him.

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  • Wow you’re really misinformed

  • Yes I know about that b**ch. And there are many others like her. All of that is not only inaccurate, but also written at an attempt to set men and women apart.

  • I don't know where you got your informaiton from-but from my point of view, it is almost completely inaccurate.
    I am pretty sure that my "sexual impulse" is as strong as any guy's. I just express it differently

    • I got this information from most of my female friends, internet, books even on GAG. (I am pretty sure that my "sexual impulse" is as strong as any guy's) How strong? Do you experience sexual arousal, horniness, sexual feelings everyday or 3-4 times a month (during ovulation) What about sexual attraction?

    • 1. Real strong :) 2. yes 3. like a magnet...

    • I know sexual attraction is like a magnet. But in which place/where, which person and which time, when you experience physical attraction/sexual attraction? And how do you recognize physical attraction/sexual attraction? Most common quote of women : due to biology, testosterone & brain wiring Women don't experience sexual attraction/physical unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. Before an emotional connection guys and girls are same for them. Girls see people they think look nice, it's nearly the same as when they see flowers and think they look nice. The only person that they find different is the person whom they have some sort of connection. Random guys = Flower (Platonic) No sexual orientation. If sexual attraction is not visual then how do women experience it? It means men body does nothing for them because they can't experience sexual attraction visually.

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