What is wrong with my boyfriend if I’m naked he will ignore me?

[Hleary]

I can just get out the shower and walk around naked and he will continue to play his Xbox or watch tv. Is he not interested in me

[SirRexington]

He's become comfortable with you to where it's not as big a deal. I doubt he isn't turned on by you though. Sit next to him when he's gaming and give him a reason to look so you.

The female body is there most beautiful thing in Earth and it's hard to say no to.

[Anon-ymous1]

Yeah man, uh... that's definitely not the case, did you read what she wrote?

[hamonbry]

Been with the same woman for 20 years and is still can't keep my hands off her every time I see her naked (and not naked). But maybe that's just me

[Hleary]

That’s how it should be

[hamonbry]

Not all guys will do that but if it's what you want then maybe it's the wrong guy or maybe he doesn't know you want it

[Hleary]

I think I am however we just had a little girl 3 months ago

[hamonbry]

Post pregnancy is a tough spot. Gotta communicate a lot about what you want.

[Hleary]

Thanks

[hamonbry]

Anytime

[ciitruskiwi]

He has seen naked women before and he has most likely seen you naked before. He isn't going to drop everything every single time you're naked to fuck you. Chances are you wouldn't either every time he's naked.

[Hleary]

It’s not only if I’m naked I could even ask him and would so not tonite then when I go to sleep he gets off on porn

[charlotte5]

Oh that means he is completely comfortable with you , prolly too comfortable and familiar so that he keeps doing what interests him

[Hleary]

But when I go to sleep he will watch porn

[markscott]

In that case, he's disrespecting you, and he has a problem. He's preferring porn to the real thing, which is not right.

[Hleary]

I agree thank u

[Anon-ymous1]

@markscott Disrespecting? Are you really so whipped yourself dude?

[markscott]

@Anon-ymous1 : I think you are confusing whipped, with caring about how the one you love feels. It's important to her, she's putting herself out there, and he's ignoring her, and then later, watches porn. That is definitely disrespectful of a woman.

[Anon-ymous1]

@markscott Lol whatever you say man.

[mialia]

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[Hleary]

Sure can

[mialia]

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[Hleary]

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[markscott]

When my woman walks around naked like that, it's a clear signal she's ready, and not much will get in my way. I don't care if your boyfriend is used to seeing you naked, I don't understand why he doesn't take notice, and make good use of the the invitation. If for no other reason, he ought to realize you want some attention, and appreciate what you are doing, with a reward of some one on one time. And of course, a good fucking.

[Bad_Man55]

For me naked woman trumps literally everything... your boyfriend has a serious problem. Does he initiate sex with you?

[Hleary]

Nope I am the one who does all the time

[Bad_Man55]

Seriously... that has to get old and very hurtful to your confidence... Does he just not have any sexual needs

[Hleary]

Yea when I go to sleep he watches porn so guess he does he says it’s easier to use his hand then have sex

[Bad_Man55]

Are you fucking kidding me? That is ridiculous he is tech'd out... Why do you stay?

[Hleary]

Cause we just had a baby 3 months ago

[Bad_Man55]

O damn.. Well congrats on the baby... did this behavior just start from him? Did it come from the pregnancy?

[Hleary]

No it’s been like that

[Bad_Man55]

And he has never given you a decent explanation

[Hleary]

It was fine in the beginning for like a year then it all changed he just says he is not a lovably person and he grew up that way

[Bad_Man55]

That is so messed up and very unfortunate for you.. No one deserves to be ignored like that by someone they love

[Hleary]

Thank u

[Bad_Man55]

I hope something changes for the better.. most guys are not lucky enough to have their girl friend just walk around naked with an open invitation.. he is a disgrace to men in relationships everywhere

[Hleary]

Thanks again

[Negrodamu5]

He's used to seeing you naked, of course he won't freak out

[Hleary]

I’m saying he don’t even try to touch me or nothing

[Negrodamu5]

Have you tried touching him naked?

[Hleary]

Yep I can’t keep my hands off him but as soon as I go to sleep he will watch porn

[Negrodamu5]

He's bored by the sounds of it. I would talk to him and find out why he's like that's. If he's not interested pull the plug or find some way to make it interesting again

[Hleary]

Thanks

[BDubBurns26]

If you’re good looking and naked and he isn’t nonstop checking you out and trying to feel up on you, then he’s gotta be a closet homo! #JustSayin! #NoOtherExplanation!! #Lol!!

[Robert1995]

Would you prefer someone that was hunting and nagging for sex? No well guess what that's you.

[Hleary]

When u don’t have sex but 1 a month then yes I’m gonna be mad about it

[Robert1995]

The more you get mad about it the less attractive it becomes

[Hleary]

So what do u suggest?

[Robert1995]

Plus relationships are more than just sex, why don't you see what's so interesting to him on the Xbox maybe play a few games bond over it be involved with your partner

[Hleary]

All he does is play sports games with his friends on there I mean come on u are 34 its time to grow up a little

[Robert1995]

Why games are proven to provide a escape from daily life there's no age on that, find out why that's so important to him and when trying new things always try and enjoy find reasons to like it.

[LivinLegend]

I mean a lotta dudes would hop off the game throw you over they shoulder and run to bedroom with u.

Some guys though just so hooked on the game. Don't break the Xbox but maybe hide a controller or something make him pay more attention to you. I mean I saw you posted you cooked cleaned and you walking around the crib naked? I don't know what kinda boyfriend you got but ik damn well 85% of guys would drop the controller instantly.

[Hungry_Shark]

Go to a therapist.

[dardorsama]

Well I'm a gamer and if I'm really into the game I might have done the same lol.

So don't worry he's still into you but it was a bad timing lol.

[Anon-ymous1]

He is not interested in you. At least, not as consistently as you would like, yes?

[Hleary]

I don’t think he is anymore but he says he is I just don’t know what to say

[Anon-ymous1]

Have you gained weight or something?

[Hleary]

Just had a baby 3 months ago but still weigh about the same as when he met me

[Anon-ymous1]

Uh the baby is the reason.

[Hleary]

What about her he made her also so y would he act like that because of her

[Anon-ymous1]

That doesn't matter-- she has created stress, and he's just not interested in that. Guys are naturally attracted to youth and carefree stuff, not commitment and long-term things. Biology has made males thusly. So how that trickles down into modern life is guys accepting but also getting sad/bored by their lives, SOMEtimes (not all the time, but sometimes), after pregnancies and living together and all that stuff happens. Security, both emotional and physical, matters way, way less to us than it does to you guys.

[Hleary]

He is a 34 year old man if he feels that way then he should have never had a kid

[Anon-ymous1]

Perhaps so. It is what it is.

[TXKen]

Is he gay or cheating on you?

[Hleary]

Don’t think he is gay but not sure about the cheating part

[TXKen]

Either he has a low sex drive or I'd be worried he has someone on the side if he ignores you 29 days a month.

[Hleary]

Thanks

[gbmlevin]

I could never disrespect a naked woman's body. It is so amazing and holy.

[Crankor]

He's probably not attracted to you

[Billywu]

He be queer/gay

[Good_Behavior]

Isn't that a good thing? It means you aren't suffering objectification.

[Sergei_dragunov]

Priority. Video games then you

[ovoxo_]

Maybe because you're not attractive anymore? At least to him you're not.

[Hleary]

He says I am but I don’t think so

[ovoxo_]

Well are you attractive?

[Hleary]

I like to think so

[ovoxo_]

What do you look like?

[ovoxo_]

What's your height and body type?

[Hleary]

I would add a picture but I don’t no how

[ovoxo_]

Describe to me your hair and lips and face. Also your body and boobs and butt.

[hello1985]

Ohhh you alright?

[teanotsympathy]

He is comfortable around you, and as long as he responds when you approach him sensually you are ok.

[Hleary]

But he don’t

[teanotsympathy]

Then talk with him and be honest about how you feel. If he is not interested then maybe you need to leave him to make room for someone more responsive

[Hleary]

Yea guess I’m gonna have to have that talk real soon

[harrry1234]

Change ur boyfriend

[dineshbpl]

Men intrest not every time sex
For sex he need special feeling from partner

[Hleary]

I do I give him everything cook clean talk to him give back rubs I mean come on what else can he want

[dineshbpl]

But I think he is satisfy with other Or he want to test u and he is showing u attitude u r not nessesary need of mine

[Beeni]

Absolutely nothing. If a girl walks out naked. Well. Must have sex. Start rubbing ya self. I bet he wants sex real quick

[dineshbpl]

No it's not possible every time I bet