What is something you've tried sexually that you'd never do again?

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  • Okay, this is a weird one and nobody is going to believe it, but I can get sworn testimony. Years ago - my girlfriend and I have been living together for just over ten years - my girlfriend went through this thing where she thought watching gay sex was kind of hot. I count myself straight, but I kind of played along and we would watch some gay porn or something.

    Then at a Christmas party, a gay co-worker of her's happened to mention that he thought I was kind of cute. girlfriend got an idea and asked if co-worker and I would have sex so she could watch. He loved the idea, but only if sometimes he could just have sex with me without girlfriend watching.

    They thought it was a brilliant idea and came to me. I was not exactly enthralled at first, but after several weeks, and I mean weeks, of back and forth and nagging and pleading and girlfriend offering me all sorts of sex, I agreed, and for the next seven months - !!! - I was in a gay relationship (at the same time still having sex with my girlfriend.)

    To my surprise, it took getting used to but I actually started to enjoy it. I was both top and bottom - and even liked being the bottom. We actually got sort of intimate, especially one week when my girlfriend went out of town on business and her co-worker stayed with me. It wasn't like we had sex every day or anything - we both had to work, we had other things going on - but we did spend time together. We got along great and the sex was actually pretty good - both when we had it in front of my girlfriend (which actually really turned me on) and when it was just the two of us. Weirder still, I actually liked cuddling with him and talking.

    It was weird on one level, unpleasant on another, and good on another. I was all over the board.

    It actually ended on a somewhat sour note. It became fairly obvious that the guy was getting pretty involved with me and we decided to end it. He took it pretty hard and it got a bit uncomfortable. My girlfriend felt especially bad and tried to set him up with another guy, but nothing really worked. Eventually he got another job and we lost touch.

    During this and for a bit after I sort of had a nagging sense that maybe I was bi. That has passed with time. I think, in retrospect, it was more the novelty than the sex - and I definitely told my girlfriend never again. (Easier to do now that we have 3 kids.)

    Still it was interesting to get to know another guy at that level of intimacy. However, as I say, I would not repeat it.

    • Wow - that is wild o_O You sound like a brave and loving husband.

    • @Aceria Thanks. We were pretty wild in our early days. Much more mellow, now. By the way, speaking of which, my girlfriend and I are not married. We have been together for 12 years, living together for 10 and as I say we have three children. However, we don't want to be married. We have nothing but respect for people who see marriage as a religious sacrament, but for us we are not especially religious and think that what we have is natural and beautiful. We just think a permission slip from the government would diminish what we have.

    • How you gon say "maybe" you were bi 😂😂😂

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  • I will never to put my finger in any asshole again

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  • Being choked during sex, he was choking me so hard I couldn't say the safe word or tap him move went unconscious, according to him there was no pulse and I stopped breathing completely he had to revive me and it was a huge turn on for him. I broke up with him right then there.

    • Hooooly shite

    • That's so hot

    • Codycodycody, you can be choked to death if you'd, but never again for me. There is nothing worse than feeling the life leaving your body and there's nothing you can do.

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  • Try to train a shy first time boy if you want to learn what real frustration is... lol

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JHzSd26gB-cWhat is something you've tried sexually that you'd never do again?
    • Really how old was he my age lol

    • Now you know how manny guy's feel in the same situation 😉

  • Some guy spit in my mouth and told me to swallow... the audacity

    • Lmao I'm dying right now!!!

    • LOL omg

    • Wth xD Did he drink alcohol or something? 😂

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  • Fisting. To painful and I'm all about the pleasure.

    • I think if it's done gently then it would be pleasureable

    • I genuinely didn't think that was a real thing outside of porn, I'm curious

    • i dont even wana know what that mean it sounds bad.

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  • Anal. Never liked it. Never will. I cannot understand why my boyfriend keeps suggesting it when we’re even though he told me it didn’t feel as good as vagina for him. It’s not like I’m not ok birth control either. Lol. He told me it’s a guy dominance thing or something.

    • Part of my fascination with anal is how our bodies fit together, how her hips come up against mine in a very intimate way. JMO

    • Break up with him for your both sake. I love anal, my wife hates it (despite her having good time with it and orgasms) we are not happy couple. People must fit sexually, "love won't feed the hungry"

    • nothing sexual should be about degrading your partner or dominating-this coming from a guy who wants to try anal

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  • Never done it but probably cuz I find it to weird/uncomfortable but foot fetish and those who like to pee/poop on you or want you too pee/poop on them... that's just way weird

  • Screwing in a filled bathtub. Seems romantic, it's just water splashing everywhere and no real ability for proper thrusting. Fooling around in a bathtub? Great! Actual screwing? Ineffective.

  • Putting something in my urethra. Nope nope nope.

  • Nothing.. I've never tried anal. I know I would never wanna do that again

    • He didn't do it right bit not everything is for everybody

  • Golden shower.

    • Golden shower ? Can you explain.

    • How is that sexy ever... good choice. Lol

    • Golden shower is being peed on.

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  • Never had intercourse but sitting on a dudes face was really weird for me. I didn't like the sensation of his tounge living my what's it.

    • So you didn't enjoy having your clitoris licked and sucked

    • He for some reason didn't want to lick that he however was obsessed with my arse. Which was as I said a weird feeling.

    • He should have been giving you amazing pleasure, but clearly likes arse rather than pussy

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  • Face fucking. didn't want it done to me, and hated it when it happened. Never again.

    • I wouldn't know but couldn't imagine that. I've been with women who could handle it no problem so I was like cool.

    • I must be simple but just sounds abusive to me.

    • Its not that i can't handle it. It just doesn't feel good.

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  • Car Sex, I hit her poor head into the ceiling and it shook too much

    • Ouch

  • 69 position, hate it. never tried anal but i would never do it

    • You're 16, don't you have better stuff to do at that age like study and work?

    • LMFAO bruh you sound like an old ass man

    • So you don't like having your clitoris licked and sucked and teased

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  • Doing it with my ex weeks after we broke up

  • standing 69. For the life of me I don't know why it's a thing and my life flashed before my eyes whilst doing it.

    • 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm assuming you were upside-down then?

    • Haha, never tried that

    • @Ghost_Woof yeah, and since my partner was tall I was quite far off the floor

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  • Yeah I'm pretty good here. If anything open to more. Life is short man

  • So many chicks are saying buttsecks and I'm right there with them xD God it's awful. It takes a special kind of gal to tolerate it.

    • Or man that's good at it lube up a dry butt is a sore butt never force the door 🤣🙊🙈

    • Nope. Never again. The butt is exit only. I don't get anything out of it so I'm not going to do it "just for him"

  • haven't done much nor anything i dont like other than doing things too soon but nothing i didn't like.

    hypocrites who have never had it done to them - go ahead and down vote this.

  • Choking my partner. I just don’t have the edge to do it. Never will again.

  • Being choked and letting myself be talked into sex I didn't want to have.

    • I'm curious about this. Can I get a example?

    • @vinnyAlo On which one. I don't want to give you any pointers after all.

    • Not about choking. Lol About "Talked into sex I didn't want to have."

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  • Sex in a bath.

    Looks hot in movies and whatnot. In real life it fills the sensations, makes a lot of really unattractive noises, and if you've got enough water in there to be worth calling a bath you're just gonna make a mess. Didn't finish the first time, won't try a second.

    • Yup i agree. Not cool lol

  • Slap and struggle play.

  • being tied up and him ass fucking me til i felt like i was dying... he kept ignoring my Secret Word.

    and the asshole made me wear a ball gag so i couldnt really scream...

    • Lmao girl same

    • @deehayashida the thing is, after i dumped him, he has dated over 5 Asian women in the last 3 years... he is into Asian women, esp vietnamese... an ex girlfriend of his told me she knows he butt fucks every one of them over regular sex... they end up leaving him coz he is also abusive verbally and physically.

    • So anal is no fun at all?

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