Girls, is losing your virginity hurtful? , do you wish the man go slow the first time?

[Anonymous]

Girls, was losing your virginity painful? what can a guy do to make it less painful and may be even a bit enjoyable for you the first time? and is the bigger my dick is the worst the first time will be for my girlfriend?
1 last question , i heard and saw some stuff saying that rough sex during losing virginity makes it better and makes the girl more happy with later sex after losing their virginity , hope you can help me make the first time as good as it can be for my girlfriend and thank you

[butterflyflyaway]

My advice would be to go down on her as long as possible without her coming, or even coming, cause she will be very lubricated and prepare for penetration, and first time she won't come by penetration. It would work aswell to have a drink before.
And lot of foreplay.

[Asker]

Great advice , i would probably do so and as you say if she don't come by penetration should i go down on her again to make her come? as at least to give her some orgasm pleasure her first time as well because i know i will enjoy it but i don't want her to just feel pain the first time :/

[butterflyflyaway]

There will be blood and some pain after penetration so i would prefer her to come before it. She can come once, and you can continue giving oral a bit more till she is close to the second orgasm, then you stop and try penetration. I would be so happy if i was her and you did it that way

[Asker]

Great !! , thanks a lot you've really helped me a lot :D

[butterflyflyaway]

You are welcome👍👍

[snowangle]

My first time did hurt more than I expected. My boyfriend at the time wasn't very big, either; maybe 4-5". He could have gone down on me a little longer (he only did for a minute or two) and we should have used lube.

[Asker]

ohh , so if i was let's say 18 CM i guess that's like 7" it would hurt her more :/ well so i should go down on her for like 5 mins? and is the longer i go down on her the better it is? like we do when a girl give a BJ? And thank you !

[butterflyflyaway]

My advice would be to go down on her as long as possible without her coming, or even coming, cause she will be very lubricated and prepare for penetration, and first time she won't come by penetration. It would work aswell to have a drink before. And lot of foreplay.

[snowangle]

@butterflyflyaway is right. Go down on her for as long as possible, ideally at least 10-15 minutes.

[Asker]

Great , i will for sure thanks for your advices !

[BatmansWife]

My first time didn't hurt at all. And he shoved it in. Rough sex. 👍🏾

[Asker]

Great for you :D ! Thank you !

[Anonymous]

Depends on the girl, but generally it is very painful and not that enjoyable. All you can do is take it slow, make sure she is fully aroused before penetration and use lubrication.

[Asker]

Okay that's great advice , thank you ! :D