Ok ok ok... I'm that guy that can go and go! So I looked into a lot of info becus I no when a girl has had enuff but im in good shape and like sex so cumming is the best way for me to stop lol as in if we just stop its on my mind and im good to go in 10mins or less! So I learned ways to get off faster so when the girl im with looks like she can't take much more I give her hints on how it works lol. In your situation teasing him maybe your best bet! How hard can you make him be for you touch it! Don't suck it or give him a all out hand job! Be very soft when your body touches it! The harder he is for a longer time with little stimulation can make him do all the work in his head so when you do go at it he won'ts it bad!! I know some tricks to get him off and some reasons why he takes so long but just reply to this and I will talk about it.
I like that! So spend more time building up to it 😊
Yaeh! Going straight into something like handjob b****** or sex. If he don't get off in the first 10 minutes then he may be desensitized to where it feels good he still into it. Just maybe hard to get off.
I found out when a guy is Young and learning to play with his self. There are two kinds of ways he learns. One is playing with the shaft or the head to get off. The other is prostate that doesn't mean he plays with his prostate that means he focuses on the base of his penis or under his balls or maybe squeezes his ass cheeks really hard. Rule of thumb if the guy is a pounder for when he gets off more than likely he learned to use his prostate to cum and will be hard to get off just using the shaft so b******* handjobs in about anything that does it hit the base of his penis will make it hard to get off. But will still feel amazing. Tips for a blowjob rub kind of roughly on the shaft you feel in and under his balls when you noticing getting quite hard..
You'd have to increase his excitement/arousal to get him to the exploding point - and generally, that means you need to express YOUR arousal, YOUR pleasure, and YOUR desire for him - which should trigger his arousal.
You can't to that abruptly, though - it has to build; there has to be some tension and anticipation, so you start moaning and cooing and so forth, and over a few minutes, you build and build. If he likes something in particular, you use that at the end as your "finishing move" - whether it's dirty talk, boob play, or whatever it is that really gets him going.
Also, realize that if he needs 30 minutes, you can't expect to shave that down to 5 or10 minutes - but you probably can, over time, get it down to 20. Keep your expectations realistic. This is coming from a guy with the same issue, by the way.
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Ask him what he likes... try new things... and the last one is all on him... if he jerks it a lot... you will have trouble
I like a little dirty talk. When the girl is begging for it i get really turned on.
Also if she is on top and has me all the way in and started grinding her hips it feels really good to me and gets me off quickly.
I have the same problem, and the solution is just to end it when you're done. He'll be quicker on the next one. I can get it down to 10 minutes the second time that day.
So could maybe stop for a break? Have dinner or something and then carry on later?
That works for me. We'd make love until she was satisfied, give me time to see if I could finish, and if not, we'd stop and go about our day. Later on, I'd still be hot, but closer to being done, and we'd do it until we were both done.
Okay il give it a try, it's a very new relationship and I'm just trying to work around it without making him feel uncomfortable or embarrassed
Beg for that nut and suck him like you really tryna get that semen out of him
Use no condom in sex. Use a vibrator on his frenulum ( soft, excess skin near the penis head. Buy a prostate massager.
No condom is not an option unfortunately though I have purchased the extra thin ones.
The frenulum is equivalent to the clitoris.
Okay il focus more on that area and see what happens 😊
Prostate massage maybe? Suck him really good. Put your pussy on his face (69), maybe he needs a bit more of scent and taste? Try to find out by trying whatever you can figure and see the reaction. But why would you want to make it short? I dont understand?
I don't want to all the time just every now and then, we go to long that I get tender and can't handle a round 2 until at least the next day lol. Haven't tried 69 yet will suggest it!
In 69 you have a best chances. For most guys pussy in front of them is very hot hot hot! If you also move your ass, he will explode in ya face dear. Or wherever you want :D
Okay good idea 😊 I definitely try it!
Suck my dick hard
Dont be in a rush and just put more effort, not words, into satisfying him. I'm that way too and i don't always "finish". No one ever said that you have to finish every time either.
I'm happy to enjoy it but you no once and a while you haven't got the energy or time to go so long, I just wanted to discover him explode button lol
Then ask him where it is.
I have.. he says everything I do is perfect. I just wanted to know other people's opinions on what to try
Try me. I'm fast.
What the hell? Did i say that out loud? 🤤
No really... take a break and give him head or handjob and jump back on the saddle when you're ready for another round
Top part of a dick is most sensual point.
Finger his ass while you suck him off... makes me cum right away
Just be goid at sex?
That isn't the problem lol
take a knife, and held it on his neck, and tell him if you dont cum, im gonna kill you now
😂😂 that's not really what I had in mind
you should always think, outside the box ;)
Ask and beg.
For me, it helps to get the balls involved. Also, sometimes the simple act of asking me to cum is enough to get me over the edge.
I thought of asking or saying something along the lines of I wanted to feel him cum or something but I was worried if he wasn't ready or Couldnt then it would be to much pressure
Don't worry about it. Just say I can't wait to feel your cum. That way it could mean right now or later.
Foreplay?
When you came give him head to finish off
I ended up doing that but still took a while even after a long session
How long is the session?
About 90mins without oral for him at the end which took probably another 15 mins or so wasn't really clock watching at that point
What you don't try to make blowjob for him and swallov, if you sucked well you make quickly finish him.
Thats what I did but still took forever
Did you swallow or spit?
Swallow but that shouldn't really help him cum quicker as he already had?
stick your finger up his ass
He's already stated that it is 100% not an option lol I tried
he don't know what he is missing
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