Can you have casual sex with the same person without emotions attached?

I'm really curious, cause I've been sleeping with that one guy. Just sex, kissing, I don't know, after that we'd talk... but like, is it possible to be without emotions? How?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yea totally but its also possible to develop emotions. and that's not a bad thing if you both feel the same but if that's not something you want then make sure to make it clear from the beginning both with your partner and yourself. but if its something you don't mind then its fine honestly its something martial that could happen to the best of us

  • Isn't sex supposed to happen when you really love someone? When you have feelings for the person? When you are sure he/she is the person who would be with you when the time becomes tough?
    What's happening with this world?
    How can girls get so shallow.. you talking about sex asif its some everyday thing that you do..
    Really disappointed..

Most Helpful Girls

  • No I tried many times not to get attached but I emotionally couldn’t do it

    • It's happening to me right now. Did you stop?

    • You stopped hanging with them

  • I think invariably at least one person catches feelings.

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  • Having sex with someone and getting emotionally attached are two completely separate things from each other. You only need good looks to be good enough for sex. But to become a partner you need to offer much more like character and intelligence. Many have the looks, but not much have the other.

  • Yes, you just have to go into it knowing that it is just sex and you are likely to never see them again. View it as a you out your hand that have you that feeling instead of another person.

  • You just do it, just fuck and thats ir, i do it with a friend, i just fuck her and thats it, no feelings no nothing

  • Yes it is. But if you are having feeling for the person and want something more than let them know

  • Kissing builds passion and connection. So if you want just sex, you should probably stop kissing.

  • yea if u dont c them that way

  • Its definetly posible, but not the most easy.

  • It's nearly impossible for me to have sexual relations with a woman and not have some actual feelings for her. I can't speak for " her ", but that's how I roll.

  • You absolutely can

  • I think there are always emotions when you have sex. The dividing line is the meaning in the emotions

    • What is the point having sex with a person without any emotional feeling NO POINT

    • @Kilsyth pretty much

    • Hi there, I would love your take on a situation that I've found myself in. You said you're extremely book smart in your profile and it's quite relevant in my situation. I'd message you, but I'm only at XPER level 1.

  • Sure

  • Yes!! If you want just sex from her!!

  • For me yes

  • yes. casual sex are like that.

  • It's envitable sorry

  • Yeah just sex , not kissing it's emotional.

  • Yeah I guess

  • Yes but isn't very exciting after a bit rather do it with someone who I care for feelings are definitely needed

  • Yes i did it a few time, i wasn't ready for a real relationship so I found hot guy to have sex with

  • I don't think it is. We are holistic and it is unrealistic to compartmentalize to thar extent.

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