Why are women disgusted by penises?

[Anonymous]

I've spent a lot of time trying to learn about women and what they like or don't like in relationships or sex. It seems like everything I've researched or discovered leads to: --- Yes, size does matter but not nearly as much as guys want to think --- Girls love it when guys cum in them but hate the mess --- Girls love watching a guy masturbate --- Girls would far prefer a penis without balls --- But relevant to the question, girls think penises in general are visually disgusting. Why is that? I personally think a majority of vaginas are very beautiful and if any girl were to willingly spread her legs and let me in, I'd love the opportunity. And most of the guys I know would too. But women, even if they saw a really cute guy sit down with a raging hard on and willing let them ride him... They wouldn't... Like they would be disgusted at the idea of it. Why is that? And don't say "because men are pigs" because studies have proven women are just as horny as guys, so there must be something deeper than just that.

[MlleCake]

Ok, so a lot of your assumptions are very narrow-minded, and not really very true of most women. We are all different.

I am not disgusted by penises. I was not raised to think they were scary or bad, or that boys wanted to do bad things with them. I was not raised to think sex is dirty. I was not raised to fear men or think of their penises as something that might hurt me.

That might be a lot of why some women feel the way we do.

But also, we aren't raised to look at men as sex objects to jump on, and that really isn't a very healthy attitude, so we're probably not ever going to be very excited to jump on whatever random penis we encounter.

Also:
--- Yes, size does matter but not nearly as much as guys want to think
Yes. To some women. Not all. It matters more to men, from what I can tell, but you're about right.

--- Girls love it when guys cum in them but hate the mess
Eh, kinda. I don't need semen in me because I am not trying to get pregnant and I don't want a disease, but I also don't like having a man just cum ON me like I am a rag either. Condoms are what I prefer. Cum is kind of like snot, so it's going to be kind of gross to some people, and it doesn't taste fantastic. Expect women to be about 50/50 on cum itself. But really, use condoms dude. People die from shit.

--- Girls love watching a guy masturbate
Some do. I don't. Most women I know, young and old, because I talk to women a lot, don't want to watch a stranger do it, but may want to watch a guy they are intimate with do it. It can be fun and kind of hot, but it's also sort of boring because he is probably getting the bulk of the pleasure.

--- Girls would far prefer a penis without balls
God no. That's just ridiculous. The only real problem we have with balls is funk and sweat to be honest. Wash-up. Women will like your balls just fine.

[PrincessProtection]

(1) size does matter but not in the way you think. Most women prefer men who aren’t too big—guys go around bragging their 10 inches and most girls DO NOT want that thing anywhere near them becasue it’ll hurt
(2) mess is part of sex, we don’t hate it we deal with it like guys do
(3) we don’t enjoy all guys masturbating—generally I enjoy watching the guy I’m in a relationship with but some girls are different
(4) sooooo wrong
(5) even more wrong
Not sure where you did your “study and research” on women but wow I suggest you take the class again

[Asker]

Everything I listed were based on several studies from several sources. They are all averages of each study containing hundreds of women. Obviously there will be a few that don't always agree with those results.

[PrincessProtection]

Give me the link on these studies I want to read this nonsense

[PrincessProtection]

Find those links yet?

[Asker]

Size Does Matter:

www.sciencenews.org/article/penis-size-does-matter

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4558040/

www.google.com/.../size-does-matter%3famp

Post-sex mess:

www.google.com/.../

forums.webmd.com/.../0

I can't find the ones I saw about preferring a penis without balls... But oh well, that was a while ago.

[PrincessProtection]

From your own research : “The attractiveness of a larger penis is intertwined with height and body shape, new research suggests.” “Additionally, a large sample (52,000) of heterosexual men and women found that 85% of female respondents were happy with their partner’s penis size.” And the “Post Sex Mess” wasn’t scientific research by several studies by several sources with hundreds of women as you claim - it’s ONE woman on google complaining about it and a webmd forum. HARDLY scientific research. And you have nothing to back up the rest of your absurd claims

[Asker]

For the first claim, regardless if they were happy with the size or not, or if there were other factors... It's still play a part in attraction and it still does matter. Those were just few of the several I've researched, but it's not like I wrote down the name or links of the sites or authors. But you wanted links, so I gave you the quickest, easiest ones I found on the spot.

[PrincessProtection]

You can’t just make wild accusations and not back them up with data , especially when you say your findings are a result of “several studies from several sources. They are all averages of each study containing hundreds of women” - you make a statement like that when someone disagrees with your nonsense you need to back it up... which you cannot

[Mmmmmmb78]

I'm not disgusted by penises. If anything, I'm disgusted by guys showing me their penises without my consent. There's a difference.

Don't get me wrong, I've had some wonderful one night stands in the past.

[9teen]

First of all, studies haven't shown that women are as horny as men. Men are up to seven times hornier than women in general. Makes sense.
Secondly, you're generalizing.
Thirdly, straight women will feel turned on looking at a penis. In order to feel turned on, you have to feel attracted. Attraction occurs when we find something sexually beautiful.

Also, I assume you're straight so you won't understand the way we feel looking at a penis and yes that includes the balls. Size doesn't matter, it's mainly about the performance.

Your statement (s) is/are therefore incorrect.

[Mebe4any1else]

Because it is gross to see a hairy thing out there. That "thing" is what you (guys) pee and masturbated with.

[_bunny02]

-size doesn’t always matter it’s the motion of the ocean
-I mean if they like it when guys cum inside them, they should expect the mess.. it’s apart of sex
- thats is opinion based bc every female isn’t he same
-thats is just non-sense I prefer real dick as opposed to fake
- I think dicks are beautiful!!!
-idk what kind of girls you are talking about but they must be asexual!

[Asker]

So... You're saying if you saw a cute guy you didn't know, but somehow knew he was std free, sitting on a bench in the park with a raging hard on and said you could ride him as long as hard at you want. You WOULD do it (assuming you weren't in a committed relationship) ?

[_bunny02]

Lmao @somehow knew he was std free Ummmmm when put it that way... No! But that’s just me, I don’t just go to the park to ride guys instead of bikes. But that’s is a great entry to a porn film 👍🏽

[Asker]

Lol. I guess that's what I'm getting at. If I knew a random cute girl was std free and she said she wanted me inside of her, there'd be very little hesitation before I'd accept the offer. Same with most of the guys I know.

[Anonymous]

You again...🙄

[Anonymous]

Cuz they are gross.-.
But Im a lesbian so like my opinion is probably irrelevant to this specific question here

[Anonymous]

First of all, I do not find dicks disgusting at all, they do look good to me when they are hard and kind of cute/funny when they are soft. A penis without balls on the other hand would freak me out xD
But I'd still run if I'd see a random naked guy with a hard dick somewhere. That's not because I'm afraid of his dick, but because I do not want to fuck with random people no matter how they look like.
If I'd see my boyfriend nacked with a hard on then I'd jump on it in no time 😂

[Anonymous]

Some penises look nice and some not really, but most penises turn me on. The only thing is that women need more than the visual to be able to go as far as jumping on that d****. Women's sexuality is more in their heads while men's sexuality is more in their d***s!

[Anonymous]

I like looking at them when they're cropped from the picture
It's kinda weird to me to see them with the whole body
I like the balls
I've never had sex

[Opinion Owner]

Weird doesn't mean disgusting