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For a threesome with your SO would you rather it be a friend or a stranger?

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  • I would never do it.
    If the other person is a female, the girlfriend will almost ALWAYS get jealous of the other girl. Afterwards, she will question her partner constantly and will inevitably drive a wedge between them.

    If the other person is a guy, the female will almost always start getting feelings for the other guy because women generally get emotionally attached through sex because of the Oxytocin release. So she will almost always start seeing the guy behind the bfs back and will inevitably break up the relationship.

  • If 0 strings attached, no future expectations. A friend for sure. That relationship and understanding of the other person would make it so hot.

    But in reality, it totally does affect a friendship and change it. So I would say a stranger, just because I value my friends and don't want to loose them.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I’m single... but I imagine how weird it would be if it was with a friend. It would lead to statements such as :

    Sweetie do you think Becky gives better head than me? 😡

    Hey do you remember that time we had sex with your friend Bob... yeah can we have him join us again some time 😉

    • Hey, I'm Bob. ... lol jk

  • I done it before. My ex and I did this with a close friend. No awkwardness after.

  • I don’t think I need to answer that I told you on Kik lol!!!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If it's safe, then even strangers are a welcome. I just don't want my SO to get emotionally attached.. be it with friend or stranger.

  • Kinda both, u dont want the person to try and steal your mate, so theirs gotta be trust. But you also wana know they dont have any stds.

  • Mutually trusted friend. Don't know anything about a stranger, but if me and my SO had a mutual friend we were both attracted to and trusted, and could share together?
    That could be very worth it.

  • Neither, that's a good way of destroying a relationship.

  • i can't trust strangers, and a threesome requires a lot of trust. even if he was a stranger, i would have to trust him over time, like i would trust a friend.

  • My experiences so far I've been the friend invited, but I think yeah, I'd prefer a friend.

  • Well It was with my girl and her friend. I think the person that is the same sex should be the one to choose the partner.

    Example... FFM, the girlfriend will be the most uncomfortable with the other girl there... so her comfort is the most important... same with the guy if the other person is a man.

  • A friend

  • Stranger 100%, but one were both attracted to!

  • total stranger... thats how i have done it in the past as it stops any chance of weirdness afterwards

  • No people, use a dildo and a fleshlight instead, me and the wife tride it and it was great

  • I had two bisexual girlfriends for a while. That was fun.

    We lived in different cities, so usually it would be me and one or the other. But sometimes I would take one to where the other lived so we could all be together. I don't think the two of them ever got together without me, although I was not always participating when we were all together.

    This worked well because the relationship between me and each of the girls was approximately equal. There wasn't one who was the odd wheel.

  • Depends on the situation. I can see arguments for and against both.

  • Not overly bothered. I've had a mix of both. But to chose one... friend.

  • wouldn't do it, I find it gross

  • Probably closer to a stranger but someone we are comfortable with.

    I’m also not sure I’d be fine with it in general or she would.

    If we wanted it I’d be tempted to start off just fooling around with a third person getting each other off but not full sex and see how we see after.

  • Unless you've committed to it as a lifestyle, it should always be with someone neither of you know and will never see outside the event, ever.

  • I think i would rather have it with someone i knew somewhat but not a close friend

  • I would prefer a friend... for hygienic reasons but otherwise a stranger would be fine, and you?

    • Stranger for me

    • Cool haha, also thanks for the follow, why a stranger?

    • No emotional connection if it goes bad

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  • A stranger woman.

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