It's going to be a long answer.
I think men are hard wired to procreate and in our society breasts have become a symbol of femininity. So by socialisation we connect breasts with the hard wired part of our brains.
Breasts have a much more prosaic function than just about mating, though. They’re food for infants and again, unlike other mammals when we feed our infants, we also gaze at them and they gaze at us. Most mothers call this bonding through feeding one of the most non-sexual intimacies they’ve ever experienced.
So when the boy baby grows up, as long as he’s heterosexual that is, he has a strong memory associated with breasts. It’s not like he sees a boob and he salivates (“lunch!”), but it’s still a primal thing. Plus by the time he’s a mature adult and has had a few sexual partners, he has associations of his lovers’ breasts. So he sees a nice bust in clothes and the mix of sexuality and infancy can cause a man to glance and hopefully then avert his eyes.
It is a part of social training that boys learn not to stare. It may never be told to them explicitly, but a lot of our social learning is done on the non-verbal level. If he just stares and makes his mom, teacher, sister, or friend uncomfortable, and if he’s your basic decent fellow who’s psychologically healthy, he will learn that staring isn’t good.
Out on the street, you really have no control of the politeness factor existing in strangers. You would consider a sweater/jacket/coat to cover a bit more, or just decide that some men are going to stare, so as long as nobody is going beyond that, you’ll take the stares as more complimentary than threatening.
It's just a biological attraction towards opposite sex and because the shape of breasts is quite lovely. It's gentle and soft. It is is so very representative of femininity. I couldn't stop the immediate response to my radar but I could change what happened after that. As soon as I found myself looking at a woman's breasts I would look up at her face and smile. 95% of the time I found I was rewarded with a quite lovely smile in return.
So girls it's not a threat and you shouldn't be uncomfortable when someone stares at your assets but as a guy I should be more careful that the girl at whom I'm starting shouldn't feel uncomfortable or think I'm pervert or something, so being decent a guy, it's my responsibility to avert my gaze quickly. That’s all.
I like your take on this; however, in my culture and a tremendous number of others, babies are not breastfed. To point, in the united states, my generation, for the most part, babies were not fed from the breast. However, men in my generation appear to be totally fascinated with breast. This also doesn't sit well with the female babies who were not breastfed and have no attraction to boobs. I'm just productively arguing a point. I think it is because they have been over-sexualized in certain cultures. If you look at cultures were babies are almost exclusively breastfed for years and years up into age 6, the women even go topless, and there is not the fascination with breast.
a bare chest is a lot easier to ignore on a man because its just flat. On a woman there's something there. Its a lot like if men had constant erections. normally you really can't see much because we wear clothing and it covers those things up. But if we had a constant erection it wouldn't be as "un-noticable" just like breasts. Secondly breasts are an essential part to puberty and sex and since mens brains function a lot more on visual simulation rather then mental like a lot of girls do having that sexual thing right there below the face is a very tempting target. Its a lot like if a guy was wearing a big red button on his chest. your eyes would at some point glance down. its the same thing for breasts
it was very hard to write this with those two photos by the way. :D
I am perfectly ok with it. I mean why wouldn't I be happy about it. It's one of the best signs or best ways a man; even the reserved ones can complement your looks!
But how ever, there are certain situations I hate when it happens. For instance when i braless to the grocery store and people look at me like an alien, makes me so uncomfortable that I actually fold my hands while walking to avoid the jiggles and also when I talk something important or genuine and yet he loses focus and stares at them!
But over all I love it and I cherish it. Apart from when it's done by old uncles and the weird creepy people while walking down the road.
Nice
Lol loses focus... hey, at least we tried... right?
Then u should put on a better dp lol if u know what I mean. :P 😅
I generally feel kinda repulsed. Maybe if I hadn’t had a large chest growing up (12+) I would find it more flattering. I’m like a D+, so on the smaller end of large breasts, but still large enough I get ogled. I’d much rather my entire body or face get complemented, at least those are original. Every woman has boobs. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes the attention is nice, even flattering. But I still feel slightly objectified when I’m talking about something I find interesting or generally intelligent, and all the man can focus on is the two inconvenient globes of flesh sitting on my chest.
Im more of an ass guy myself 😏
What if they're thinking "Oh wow she is smart AND she has a nice rack, what a catch!" ?
@HotDogg Baha 😂 i would always prefer to be noticed for my brains and sense of humor over anything else.
I live in a beach resort island and I like to lay out on the sand very often. Therefore, my C+ boobs (and other parts of me) get glanced at often from various directions. When I'm fully dressed with hardly any chest skin exposed, they still get stared at. I'm half American and that half attributes to my larger breasts. I think most Filipino women have smaller cup sizes which make my 36C+ boobs kinda "pop out" more noticeably than their's. I'm used to that attention and appreciate compliments. I also get creepy stares and disrespecting catcalls but I can handle those.
I have big boobs so it happens fairly often and honestly, I don’t really care. They’re attracted, which is normal... I mean, I always checkout men too and if a guy has a nice muscular back, I am going to take a look at it lol
You're a breath of fresh air in this world where people get easily offended about anything.
Honestly she is , wish more girls were like this
@massb @trumify aw thanks guys 🤙🏼
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Men will stare at boobs, especially if a girl has a nice pair of pups. It's built into their DNA... nothing will change that. Of course, sometimes it's a little obnoxious but as long as they keep their hands and sexist comments to themselves I say "live and let live."
I take it as a compliment or as a man not having enough house training depending on how he goes about it.
There's a polite way to glance and admire when the woman and her company are not noticing, but it's not polite to blatantly stare once she catches you. I had one guy at the gym look me dead in the eye and then drop right back down to my chest. Yuck! HE didn't even know that i could see his reflection in the mirror watching my big butt the whole time I was on the treadmill. That's was forgivable, but not just being rude.
I stare at pretty boobs sometimes as well. It just means a woman has pretty parts. For me it's not even sexual, it's admiration.
Mmm I wish I was at this gym
I'm ok with it for the most part. A little weird sometimes when random people stare or decide to comment on them.
- Because boobs are awesome?
- Because most men (and even a lot of women and gay men) are naturally attracted to boobs?
- Because, the jiggle?
https://i.imgur.com/8lJf8Pg.gif
That is what I am saying.
Maybe the natural ones jiggle the fake ones dont jiggle I assume
@kitty71 Fake one jiggle awkwardly... real ones jiggle but still go with body in a natural way... (What a lot of girls who get breast enhancements dont know.)
If it is my boyfriend then I feel flattered and happy. If it is anyone except my boyfriend then I feel unfortable and objectified. I dont go out in skimpy clothes so I feel like I am not there looking for attention over my boobs which is why I find it offensive. It is one thing to go out purposely in a seductive way but I dress modest so i am not looking to be objectified.
It makes me feel uncomfortable, especially when they stare to the point it's creepy. Makes you wonder if they're going to follow you.
What if you catch them just looking quickly
Then that's not staring, that's a casual glance, which wouldn't be uncomfortable unless it was request glancing over and over!
Unless it was frequent glancing! I hate autocorrect!
I don't have an issue with my breasts being checked out which isn't too often. Having smaller breasts the only time they get attention is when I'm braless or at the beach. I like to look at women's boobs but it's a quick turn off when they are obviously fake or the female appears to be starving for attention.
Depends on the context. If they are staring at them on a date, that's pretty fun and makes me feel good. If it's while I'm at work or something, that would annoy because I don't want to be viewed a sexual object while I'm busy trying to be in charge of people and show my authority. I know people can't help it sometimes, but sometimes it's obvious that they realize they are staring and continue to do it.
Just dont give hee creepy stare or be too obvious and make it look awkard. Im sure she won't feel uncomfortable rather sge would feel your checking her out from the corner of her eye. Sadly though you have to be good looking for her meter of creepiness to not go off.
Some girl flaunts them others dont notice.
This girl, whiile we were standing on the bus, i holding to a bar and she was stand close to me, Packed, all seats filled with tired people who jus came from work, anyway, this girl had her breast resting where my hands were. She gave no eye contact nor didn't move. I just was like fuck it, and stared. Shed catch me then look passed me and scatched her nose like it ain't nothin. kid you not.
When I was a senior in highschool (a few months ago before I graduated) when I went up to the desk of my history teacher he looked straight at my boobs almost every time I went up to his desk and asked a question wearing a completely unrevealing shirt. And my friend Amber said he always stared at my butt when I walked away. I took that as a compliment rather than creepy. But that was probably because he used to be a collage football player and he’s 6”4 so I found him attractive on some levels. But if it were an old man teacher then I would find it a little creepy.
You're fine with attractive guys checking you out? 😂 Good girl 😋🤘
Well, once I got them, they came in fast & large, so my friends from K-12 found me different & guys wanted to see them, even resorted to tricks. Although my BFs wouldn't be so obvious, their friends WOULD be and that bothered me a bit, enough to remark from time-time. Anyway I got used to all that and even like to show cleavage at times, certainly costume parties.
They must be nice
I get very uncomfortable. I don't like the attention and when guys stare and doesn't seem to care when I catch them staring. That's when I feel uncomfortable.
Well I considered getting a tattoo on my chest saying
"The conversation is up here mate" with and arrow pointing up at my face lol.
very funny... but some guys might claim nearsight issues and lean in close ha :)
Then I would grab their head smuther's them In my titts and say you finished looking now can have a conversation please? What can I say I get it from my mum.
lol... a motorboat greeting ha... i like it :)
Staring always makes me uncomfortable and I wear baggy clothes and shirts with high neckline because of that. To glance is fine but staring just makes me feel like I'm being hunted.
Considering I won't meet anyone here and none of y'all will follow my social media happenings, I feel comfortable saying:
First, I don't stare because that'd be rude. 😎 Though "boobs" are very very attractive... I dunno, big (not huge), soft smooth skin, & the roundness are desired probably because of something to do w/ the reproductive section of the brain (but that doesn't dismiss the fact that it's me that wants ta touch 'em!). 😉😁
I very much look forward to having a girlfriend & later being married. 😀
This pretty much never happens because my boobs barely exist. Tbh it’s a relief, can’t stand gross guys.
Un-nerving. I mean, I love my body. It's the way they stare that is creepy.
I´m not sure any guy would be able to give a scientific explanation to this question. I just like how they look as I know how they´d feel like in my hands. The thought of playing around with boobs is really arousing. They are a really feminine thing that most of the guys don´t have so why not. Especially shirts that show cleavage look nice.
It's so obvious haha, I can't say I relish it. I usually dress kinda modest when first talking to a guy, so not a lot of cleavage.
I wear loose clothes so I don't have that issue.
However during my fat days, it was an issue, as it was harder to conceal the shape of them. Quick glances I was okay with, but guys ONLY staring at them, it made me feel sick, I badly wanted to remove myself from those situations.
aw dont feel like u have to change ur lifestyle Because of them. the problem is THEM. not your clothes. were whatever you want and forget them
@mikrjebdjd I agree, if theyre being creeps, it's their problem. I dont let them affect my lifestyle, as I've always preferred and felt comfortable wearing looser clothes.
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