How was your first time having sex?

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I’ve heard some say it was very intimate or awkward, but what’s your first experience like?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It was amazing! My boyfriend knew I was nervous, so he went down on me for 20 minutes first to help my body relax. Then he asked me many times if I was sure I was ready, then shyly warned me that he had only had sex once, so he wasn't going to last long and that he was told he wasn't very good at it. This kind of helped me relax because he was nervous too, just in a different way. Then he pulled me to the edge of my bed and it stung a little bit as he put it in, but he was lovingly looking into my eyes the entire time, so I stayed calm. He was really gentle and slow making sure to keep asking me if I was okay and looking into my eyes. It was a really good experience even though I was terrified at first and the actually sex was an uncomfortable stinging feeling. But it wasn't as painful as I was afraid of it being.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Mine was weird. First it actually didn't work because I was in too much pain and he couldn't get inside. The second time we tried it was easier. So he entered me but I just thought please cum so that we can stop because the feeling was so weird to have something inside of you

Mo2vatedplastic · Accepted Answer

The worst experience of my life. Super painful, uncomfortable, unwanted, just no. Never again. It seemed like hours of pain and there was so much blood. Everyone's always like "the pain will subside" lol no. Those people are liers. Its terribly painful.

DamnSam · Accepted Answer

I was 15, she was 19... I had no idea what to do but she noticed that and teached me about 3 years (on and off), im glad that she has done that, was a realy nice experience for me...

The first time itself was confusing, that time I dont liked oral but she has done her thing, we where in her car the whole night long... sometimes if she is in my area, she calls me and we hang out in a bar, then she asks if I have a girlfriend, and if not we look for a nice place and going back to the old car story, if I have one, we stay in the bar and talk until the sun rises again... sometimes she gets mad bc I have a girlfriend but only for about 10 minutes, time flies

BlueCoyote · Accepted Answer

It was absolutely wonderful for both of us. Not just the sex itself but the entire leading that led up to it - including the fact that we didn't plan it. It was like in a perfect teenager dream (except we weren't teenagers anymore). It was very romantic, intimate... unforgettable. In fact, to this day I'd say it was once of the nicest evenings I've had in my life.

krakula6972 · Answer

For me it was a little bit awkward because it just kind of happened and then about two minutes in my then girlfriend pushes me off of her and says "no, I want to but we can't because you don't have a condom" ...
P. s. we never did end up using a condom even once... so that was kinda silly, overall though it was still a pleasant experience

angelin · Answer

Good timing for me and we were both virgins yet experienced in making out so it was good. But some would say too young. I was 14 he was 15 but to me I think it was not bad.

CindyRuns · Answer

I waited until it felt right, with a guy I was going out with for around 6 months and could see us possibly getting married.

For me, it was a real wonderful experience, even if I was a bit sore afterwards.

Hurlyburly · Answer

Painful and awkward

PrivateGurl1234 · Answer

My first time was very hardcore for someone who hasn’t had sex before plus he was older than me and didn’t know I was a virgin

Beach1234 · Answer

Sweet, unplanned yet romantic. First time for both of us.

szewczykkit · Answer

Amazing, I remember getting an unexpected kiss and from that point on it was just like the movies. Hot, sweaty & fun.

PrincessPie · Answer

Pain.

Scarlettblaze · Answer

To be honest, I don't really know what solidly counts as my first time as there were several "almosts". But it was all the same guy. I'd say it's a bit awkward and nerve-racking, but not bad at all.

tastetherainbow619 · Answer

I was drunk and it was a one nightstand type of think I had fun I don’t regret it.

10dsw · Answer

Meh at best. We were both virgins and didn't know what we were doing haha

EM9389 · Answer

It was the best yet one of the quickest things I’ve ever done haha

UltimateGohan · Answer

It was amazing we both were skydiving and just about to hit the ground with no parachute. . . . . . . . . . . . Then i woke up from the dream

CHARismatic110 · Answer

Awkward as hell. Uncomfortable. Bit painful. Full of regret. I went home and cried afterwards.

soomin_kim · Answer

Never did it as im not married yet (Im saving myself for marriage)

Tinalee · Answer

Awkward... we didn’t know what we are doing lol

SirRexington · Answer

It was horrible. She wasn't a virgin but she was so boring, she just laid there and did nothing. Like a log. I pulled out and told her it wasn't working. We broke up a few days later.

Jager66 · Answer

ehhh.. pretty shitty to be honest.

She was decently attractive, about 10 years older and a HORRIBLE lay. Like REALLY REALLY bad, I was kinda put off from sex for a while after, thinking "that's what all the fuss was about.. meh I'd rather jerk off."

geeky_stoner · Answer

My first time was quite amazing actually. Educate yourself.

kaskas19 · Answer

Awful.

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