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How do guys deal with such strong sexual urges?

I have decided to try some testosterone supplements just for fun. I know, it's probably not a good idea to try these *for fun* but I did it anyway and to see what it's like to be a human with high levels of testosterone.

I started taking those a while back and then I suddenly became hungrier than usual. I ate more than usual. And then the bomb came and I started to think about sex a lot more often. I get horny much easier and much more often. Now I think about sex so much and I want to have sex any time at any day. I became sex crazed myself. I feel this is madness to want to have sex so much.

I have considered some things like a one night stand but i don't like the hookup culture, I want to save myself for a boyfriend. So I just sticked to masturbation. Even I love sex and I usually I masturbate 2 or 3 times every day and recently I have masturbated 6 times! That's double the times than usual.
And I get distracted from things, that I have to do because I think about sex so much!

Now suddenly I realize it's easy to understand guys with their sexual obsessions. Its no wonder to me anymore why guys are so sex crazed. Then some girls say, that guys, who think about sex so often are being brainless idiots. I now know what I will tell those girls and I will tell them "try testosterone supplements and then remember those words, that you just said". Those girls are literally shaming guys for being open and honest about their sexual needs! Its a shame to see that. I hope those girls will realize, that they have been wrong and will realize, that guys need sex in order to be kept.

I mean how do guys deal with all those sexual urges? Is this really what it means to be a guy?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes not you see the main reason why men tend to be more sexual then women, and that it's not an social construct. But for women to be nymphomaniac tend to be more problematic, because women can actually do it almost all day, while men don't, men don't keep their erection all day, even after had satisfied their urges, it might be also way nature didn't wanted women to be as sexual as men, as it's an quite dangerous combo, and it's likely make the women too slutty. Also it's an bad idea to take testosterone supplements if you are single, but for married women who are too frigid it's can actually help, but they should take it with an consultation with a doctor, also taking too much testosterone supplements is risky, as it's can make you develop an too man-like body. Anyway some men have an that much strong willpower, but usually it's sure not as easy for men as it's for women, so it's more of a feat, for a man.

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    • I actually like the idea of developing a stronger body. It will make myself probably sturdier and stronger too :) No worries. When I finish up those testosterone supplements I don't plan on getting some more. I see almost no negative side effects aside from the obvious!

  • Welcome to Testosterone! Welcome to “Guys World”

    As a supplement, you will feel hunger.. big hunger. Your Clitoris will also start to grow, it will enlarge, and can get quite big. I would stop though. You will experience aggressive behavior, and could result in “Roid Rage”..

    Also continued use over time, will increase your chances of a stroke , in guys, your balls atrophy, they get small as they will not produce testosterone anymore as thier body is getting in pill form.

    I had a friend on testosterone, he had rages and a stroke as well, I'd guess that along with the extra muscle mass, he has tiny balls.
    I would recommend stopping, and don't go cold turkey. you have to ween off them to prevent steroid withdrawal, which not everyone gets, but it causes great leg and knee pain..

    Also, your clitoris will not shrink back down

    • How do we deal with the urge.. Remember to be a gentleman and wank a lot! LOL

    • Thanks for the reply and the welcoming! No worries. I am not going to keep taking those testosterone for too long. I am doing it for myself so that I can live in a body full of testosterone like men do for a trial period of time to get the best understanding how it is to be a man. Now if there were pills for men, which could give them a simulation of periods, then men would understand how it will feel like to be a woman on her period. But I will "come back to be a woman again" soon. 😂 I figured that much. Most guys watch porn and it's no secret, that most porn viewers are men. That makes perfect sense to me now.

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  • Only foolish women shame a man for desiring sex.

    It’s legit to shame men for using force or other kinds of power to try to get unwilling sex, though.

    • I wish more women would think this way. Thank you for saying that.

    • Women - straight women - can benefit a lot from positive, healthy sex with men. A healthy sex life is very affirming.

    • Lol, straight and bi-women can benefit. Let's be inclusive, lol.

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  • Which supplements did you take and for how long? What other side effects did you experience?

    • I already forgot. I throwed the package away (and i also took out the trash) and just kept the blisters with the tablets and the instruction paper. The instruction paper does not mention the brand but only as the medicine itself. My mistake, I know. I will have to revisit the pharmacy and check what kinds of testosterones I got. I will get back to you the next time I go to the pharmacy and check for the testosterone, that I got. Hope I don't forget it. That is all I can report. No other side effects. Just really hungry and sex crazed. And I feel a bit more assertive but not aggressive.

    • I couldn't find the testosterones in the pharmacy anymore. I checked in today for that. I think they discontinued selling them 🤷

  • So you can just go into a store and buy actual testosterone? The hormone itself? I didn't know you could get that kind of thing without a prescription.

    • Yeah there like supplements so the amount inside isn't as strong as prescription would be

    • I bought them from the pharmacy, no questions asked.

  • Requires some discipline to resist these urges.
    But it's not that difficult, sometimes though ill get a boner in public places and literally not thinking about anything remotely attractive.
    Although it varies from person to person, I can control myself for the most part

  • Men cannot handle their urges as seen by oodles of dick pix in various inboxes the world over. Focus on being better is a big factor in what you see from us most days.
    Thank you for trying to live in our world for even that short amount of time to gain more understanding

    • I really wanted to get into a guys perspective and I mean by actually experiencing it myself. I did it for science and for myself. For me communication and understanding is vital for relationships.

  • I use two methods to turn myself of. 1 I add Fibonacci numbers in my head by the time I cross 200 I am usually no longer horny. 2 I make it physically uncomfortable to be horny

  • Hence I refer to the male libido as the " Male Curse " , male sex drive is on average much higher than female ( thankfully not me anymore ) , plus the other part of the curse is that sex is much harder to come by , for the majority of men , including those in relationships / marriages . Women simply do not understand , as they will not know from experience , anymore than a man could truly understand periods and pregnancy.
    However a lot of women have been conditioned to look down on men as sex obsessed hound dogs , hence the women you mention , gleefully mock men. As a counter to this imbalance , the majority of men also possess a matching level of self control.

  • Yeah it can actually be annoying sometimes, especially if I’m dating someone that has a lower sex drive.

  • Why, as a girl would you take the male hormone? Are you wanting to be a body builder? Have you started to grow a beard? Has your voice dropped, breasts shrink, enlarged clitoris (inches long)?

    • For science. I want to experience how it is like to be a man myself and get the best understanding by first hand experience as close as i could manage to. It doesn't mean however, that I want to be a man. Just for a short time.

    • Good luck with the side effects.

    • Oh I'm fine, thanks :)

  • Glad some girls out there can empathize. Unfortunately, my urges made me a porn addict for years and now I'm trying my best to keep it under control. I would say that what you're experiencing is maybe like the really really horny guys out there. I would say you have me beat. Nonetheless, my libido is only a little lower than what you're experiencing.

  • Well we learn to live with it. But also not all men have high sex testosterone. As men grow up older from the horny teen years you become so focused with school and business you forget the word sex all together lol.

    • I wish that was the case lol

    • Thats why i sais not all men lol i know there many men with high testosterone almost all their life.

  • Welcome to our world

  • Just wait until the facial and chest hair comes in... you're gonna love that!

  • Guys keep their minds busy. That way sex isn't the only thing on our mind.

  • Oh no you have contracted toxic masculinity.

  • get a hooker.

  • Hope you don't start growing a beard...

  • We can't help how we were made

  • masturbate...

  • You're brave

  • First of all stop taking those supplements if you hadn’t already. And second of all. As I just hit puberty recently and I got that feeling. What I did was to cut masturbating and not look at anything that might turn me on. Keep it like that until you feel that you’re normal again. And masturbating isn’t good anyways (for men) I guess it has benefits for women so yeah. Bit just try to stop it for a little while and find a boyfriend or something

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