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Why some men have reverse rape fantasy (being raped by a girl)?

For what reasons some guys fantasize about being raped by a woman?

According to 80s research by French sexologist Couture M Crépault:
45.8% of men in a 1980s study reported fantasizing during heterosexual intercourse about "a scene where [they had] the impression of being raped by a woman" (3.2% often and 42.6% sometimes)". Apparently, such fantasies were common in lots of men during the history, even in antique times. Modern men like it too, in the east as well in the west, because it often appears not just in anime, but also in western sex-fantasy literature.
Why some men have reverse rape fantasy (being raped by a girl)?

Why some men have reverse rape fantasy (being raped by a girl)?

Why some men have reverse rape fantasy (being raped by a girl)?

Why some men have reverse rape fantasy (being raped by a girl)?

Why some men have reverse rape fantasy (being raped by a girl)?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's definitely a turn on for me. I'm turned on my orgasm control in the first place, and girls using their sexuality against me. So this kind of fits right in. I have no choice but to cum and she has all the power to make me do it, and she des.

  • I think it's very exciting for submissive men to be overpowered by sexy & dominant girls, especially if they are athletic and sporty.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's because most men are secretly submissive, they like to be dominated by women who are both strong and attractive. But I don't think they would like it if the woman who attacks them is ugly or fat.

    • You're kinda right

  • It wouldn’t be rape then because they’d like it.

    • Probably :P

    • Yo bro what if it's a random but attractive girl and your in a relationship with your girlfriend, and you don't wanna cheat on her, but she fks you anyways, doesn't that count as rape

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  • I think it's really REALLY hot! It's a great role-playing scenario. A woman (or women) find me attractive. So much so that they don't want to know me, they just want to fuck me, use me for the sexual pleasure for one entire night (or more. lol) I like the idea that it's all against my will. They tear off my clothes. When they do, I get an erection and it's very embarrassing/humiliating. To them it's "He must really like what's happening! Why else is his cock hard?" Then then force me, order to pleasure them multiple ways. As I do, they continue to give me feedback as to how to do it better. The whole time they keep reminding me, "Don't you dare cum! We (or I) need your cock hard. If you cum, you're going to regret it. I WILL make you eat it afterwards!" I also like the idea that they make me do things that are VERY naughty, kinky or taboo. For example, making me French kiss them after they've been sucking my cock for a while. Or to eat them out right in the middle of sex. Or, they want to explore my ass with their fingers, or with a sex toy. Or they want to see me eat my cum.

    I also like the idea that they get my home address and telephone number and then they make me submit to them (or her) several MORE times! Or, they insist that I pleasure their girlfriends as well. I just can't say no.

    Whew! Is it hot in here, or is it just me?

  • Not a big fan, actually, as I much prefer being sexually dominant.

    That said, that sense of being controlled can be, in a strange way, liberating. You are being used as a thing by an aggressive woman for her pleasure. You are helpless and your penis is her toy.

    You are not worried even remotely about pleasuring her and there is a psychological separation of sex from anything but the most primal sex. It is a kind of variation on the kind of primal animal sex that a man needs - and that my girlfriend likes too.

    My girlfriend and I have tried "rape fantasy" sex - both ways. Again, not huge fans, but that combination of animal sex - two animals breeding in a field - and the fear of being totally helpless and submissive has its exciting side. I can see where it might be popular with some men.

    • Very interesting explanation, good points...

    • Thank you. Most kind.

    • You're welcome.

  • I have the fantasy myself. The helplessness, my clothes torn off, no guilt because I’m being attacked, several new men to experience, the raw nakedness, unprotected sex, I’m ravaged, filled, and sent home to my husband…. I secretly enjoyed it all, and hubby wants all the details , revealed slowly, as I strip for him

    • Have you ever seen "Pretty Peaches"?

    • U turned me on both ways

    • Wow! That's really hot! As you're telling your husband all about it, your pussy is full of cum and you're also covered in it; your legs, stomach and even your face, all covered with cum. As you're telling him, you ask him to eat you out, your cum filled pussy. You slowly tell him ALL the details. Even admitting that you actually achieved several orgasms! As he's licking you, you remind him that your pussy if full of cum! He doesn't care. After you achieve several orgasms (from his tongue) you beg him to fuck you hard and fast. As he does, he pins you down and fucks you hard and fast. After he cums, he quickly pulls out and eats you out some more! A couple days later, you get a text from one of the guys who raped you. He demands a repeat performance! He tells you the entire thing was videod! If you don't comply, he WILL send that video to ALL your friends, family and even co-workers! Naturally, you comply. This goes on for YEARS! Each time you come home your husband is waiting to eat you out immediately so you can tell him all about what happened! Question: Would you like it if they brought a woman in and forced you two to perform (with each other) right in front of them?

  • I have no idea, I've never had that fantasy so I can't relate.

  • Why does anyone have any fetish or fantasy?

    • Good point :)

  • Rape fantasy is a big thing for both genders. If you are a submissive person who is open to that kind of thing and don't have an intense traumatic violent memory associated to it, it can be very intoxicating to have pleasure forced on you. It's confusing and overwhelming.

    You just have to do it safely. BDSM exists for a reason.

  • 2 things:
    1, it's probably just based around the desire for women to be sexually aggressive for once.
    2, why question this? People have fantasies about being shit on and just all kinds of awful, rape fantasy is down right tame lol

    • Oh, that's totally true, shitting, pissing, vomiting and other grose fantasies... I guess fantasy rape play is much better.

  • Well... Because as a reverse rape person like myself would say...
    We're pretty much desperate or we are waiting for *that* woman to ravage us
    Co'z if I would rape them, I would feel gravely guilty of what I've done.
    In short...
    If she takes my V-Card
    She'll steal my heart
    Leaving me wanting for more

  • I think because it shows her raw desire for him, which women tend to hide. It's really a turn on for us. Makes us feel physically desired which we don't usually get from women at all.

    • Great explanation 👍

  • Because men are always considered the dominant ones so it's hot knowing a girl is being dominant

  • Probably because it gives the man impression that he inspires so much lust in women that they go to drastic measures to have sex with him. "Wow, I'm so sexy, that hot girl wants to tie me up just to have a taste of my dick!"

    Women have rape fantasies very a lot too, more than men I think.

  • Why do many women have the same fantasy? Why do any of us have any fantasies? It turns us on. Why does it turn us on? Who knows? It just does. Why do you like your favourite food? Why do you prefer writing with one hand over the other? Why is your favourite colour your favourite colour?
    Feel free to get back to me when you've figured out what kind of answer you're looking for.

  • Reverse rape isn't a thing, its rape. But not me tbh. I've actually had a nightmare where I was rapped by a girl. Woke up scared as hell. I'm not trying to be forcefully fucked in general.

    • Nightmare? Was the girl in your dream very ugly, or fat?

    • No, just someone I didn't like in the past

    • Oh, I see, she was mean to you?

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  • Its not really "rape" in the fantasy since the guy is hard and the girl will dominate if she really wants to have sex.

  • "Reverse rape"?
    WTF!

    Its called "rape", there is no "reverse", for fucks sake! Do not pretend, that raping a man is somehow something completely different.

    Like "reverse racism" is also not a thing, its just "racism".

    • Ok, I get that :)

  • definitely a turn on for me and i really just couldnt control my feel when such thing happens

  • Oh yes i do as well. Im the always in control. While i want to see what it like the other way.

    • Interesting :)

  • "reverse rape"

    • What about it?

    • its not "Reverse" there is no such thing as reverse rape

    • rape is rape

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  • I've never had but thought of raping ex for dumping me I tried hitting them up to see if they wanted to come over to f*** I always need consent

  • For the same reasons so many women have rape fantasies, I'd guess. Sex without guilt ("They made me do it!") and/or the idea that they're so desirable.

    • I get it, no guilt, no responsibility.

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