Do you have a fetish you wouldn't feel comfortable sharing with your partner?

[Anonymous]

Do you have a fetish that's a little unusual that you wouldn't exactly share with anyone, especially a partner?

For me, I have a belly button fetish that started when I was 3 or 4 years old. I get aroused when girls wear crop tops, belly shirts, or stretch and their shirt lifts up and expose their bellybutton, unless they got an outie. I don't know why but I've found it to be sexy ever since I was young.

That being said, I'd never tell anyone about it, especially to a partner or date because I'd hate to be shunned or labeled as a weird guy with a bellybutton fetish as it was something I was born with. Just like being gay or any sexual orientation, it's not a choice.

For example, a week ago I had a date with a girl and we fooled around in the back of her car. Her stomach was out when she was laying down and asked me if I'm a tits or ass guy. I said tits and abs to make it more broad/vague as I would have felt weird saying I like tits and bellybuttons. I feel like it'd have the same stigma as having a foot fetish. I never understood why being attracted to bellybuttons was weird. If it's considered risque to wear a belly shirt or hot to have a bellybutton piercing (personally i prefer unpeirced), then why is it that bizarre to have a thing for them?

Do you have any fetishes you feel like you'd never share or else you'd be judged?

[Anonymous]

I used to fear it but honestly I’m in the “idgaf” mood now where if I’m with a girl and if she doesn’t like getting kinky then her loss. I usually tell her the first time we’re in bed together. You’d be surprised, women love knowing what turns you on no matter how weird. Makes life easier for them. Foot/nylon fetishist here.

[Asker]

yeah id have times where I'd hook up with girls and feel them up and finger their bellybuttons, in a rather discrete manner. Some didn't say anything, some moaned, but some would be like you touching my bellybutton? Stop.

[Asker]

I don't have a foot fetish, but how'd the women respond once you told them?

[Opinion Owner]

Quite mixed. Never rejection, my last ex was like “you have a foot fetish? Oh Jesus” while laughing and then asked me what I wanted her to do and went from there. The girl I’m with now I’ve done foot fetish stuff with but haven’t really told her if that makes sense? I think she’s got the clue but I play it off as being “kinky” when I suck her toes lol. She knows I’m into nylons tho so she always wears them because she likes it as well. I’d recommend asking her fetishes, then she’ll ask yours and you just need to play it cool from there

[Asker]

I guess for me, I could always do body shots if the girl is willing

[Opinion Owner]

NOW THATS THINKIN!

[Asker]

I just kinda felt weird about my bellybutton fetish because I hear people talk about all different kinds of porn, and my "porn" is a women wearing a belly shirt, bikini, lingerie or anything that exposes her bellybutton. I'd get off to it more than actual pornography. But actually seeing a girl naked in person is a whole different story and actually gets me hard. Not sure how but it is what it is.

[Beserkerman8]

I have a very embarrassing fetish that I would never reveal to a woman or really anyone because well as with most fetishes people find them strange... Yet odly enough I would not be so quick to judge a partner for their own fetishes. I think it is just a self defense for us not to reveal them.

[Asker]

I hear you on that. In fact, my brothers found out my other fetish I'd never share with anyone as they saw my browsing history, this was like 15 years ago, and boy did they give me shit for it, making me feel even worse about having the fetish. I mean it's nothing illegal, but it is out there. I agree, a lot of people don't reveal their fetishes and keep them private, from everyone not just their partner, in fear of being judged. Having said that, having this fetish and having had phased it out and trying to get rid of it (which failed) has me be more understanding and sympathetic with gay people. I was never homophobic of course, but I understand that being gay is not a choice. You can't control who you're attracted to or what you get off to.

[sweetannied]

You should always share it with the girl you're dating. It's not that weird.
If I had to choose between (my boyfriend having) this, foot fetish, ballbusting fetish, or nurse costume fetish, I'd choose this every day or the week.

[Asker]

ballbusting fetish?

[Asker]

I don't think I'd share some fetishes. While they may not be illegal or hurting anyone, I'd hate to be branded or labeled as that weird guy with (insert strange fetish)

[Asker]

Some things are just better kept to yourself

[Anonymous]

I doubt I'd even like it in real life, but I really like watersports porn/erotica. I don't think I'd ever admit to that in real life though.

[Asker]

Interesting, never heard of that type of porn. But I hear you, I have another fetish that I'd never admit to anyone in real life because people would judge it for sure and it's physically impossible too.

[grossgirl19]

Weird lmao, i have w fear of bellybuttons. I legit have dreams about having it removed lmao

[grossgirl19]

But for fetishes id say beastiality or cheating

[Asker]

lol why are you afraid of them? Most people I know are just neutral on them. They're like "a bellybutton is just there" everyone's got them, it's just a hole in the stomach, nothing special.

[Asker]

so a person into beastiality is calling a person with a bellybutton fetish weird? interesting

[grossgirl19]

Never said u where weird i just thought it was funny that u have a fetish for it yet i have a phobia of it lol. And EXACTLY! Its a HOLE! in my stomach

[Asker]

My bad, I misread that. Why do you have a phobia of them?

[grossgirl19]

Cause theyre freaky af like i get sick just remebering that i have one

[Asker]

but what is so freaky about them? Not judging, just curious.

[grossgirl19]

The fact that it does straight inside of me. Like i could legit stick a finger through me ughhh. Why do u even like them?

[Asker]

I think it looks like a mouth or mini vagina that is saying "OH" or "WOAH!" depending on its shape, depth, and overall appearance like a bottomless pit. Having stuck my finger in a girl's once it felt nice like fingering her vagina but I didn't get my fingers wet of course. Weird, I know but that's part of it and when a girl stretches and it shows, it kinda feels like a tease if that makes any sense.

[Anonymous]

I have too many.