I like to call my wife "queen" because I enjoy being sexually submissive to her.
Terms like "slut" or "whore" would never even come into question for us. Not only would I feel bad about using them but she would also get offended and hurt. I think for native English speakers these terms aren't considered to be a big deal because native English speakers cuss a lot in general but in her and my mother tongue, it sounds extremely serious and harsh. It doesn't have the tone of a sexy word, just a plain insult. So, even though we usually dirty talk in English, we wouldn't use these words.
When we do change roles and I am becoming the dominant part, I might say something like "my little submissive Asian girl/slave".
She usually just calls me "sweetie", which she also does outside of the bedroom.
What is your mother tongue?
Mine is Swiss (German). Hers is Korean.
Oh... man... There's been a lot of things girls have asked to be called. The classics;bitch, whore, slut. Also nice adjectives that never get stale; dirty, nasty, sexy, pretty, special, ugly, fat, slutty, etc.. But I've had some crazies scream out to be called combos of those, and other wild shit. Fuck me:like a; animal, beast, dog, gorilla, walrus? till i; shake, cry, bleed, shit, pass out... But for names... had a girl call me Santa the whole time once...
Lmfao u had me dying at Santa 😂😂
@aconfusedgirlie was not at my request, in case you were wondering. Was Christmas night, all other reasoning is on her.
That last bit killed me 😂😂😂
I've been called Goddess a lot. Only one guy's tried to call me things like slut and whore in the bedroom. He also chose to call me goddess outside of the bedroom. Very interesting. The next most used word for me in and out of the bedroom is Baby.
It's interesting how many people will thumbs down my answer to what other people decide to call me. XD If you don't like it, then it's really not doing anything to you... I didn't choose it. I prefer baby, honey, sweetheart, or sweetie, but men in my life keep jumping to goddess for some reason. C'est la vie.
Also, the slut/whore guy was into the whole dominant sadism thing in bed. He was a total sweetheart when sex was not happening though lol
I don't understand the downvotes either, this is such a trivial thing... it's not like you said you wanna kill babies, lol and you're right, these are things someone else is calling you. I don't get it..
My boyfriend is brazilian so I usually get called "linda" or "gostosa" which is portuguese for pretty or hot. And other things in portuguese, which I can't understand. Or phrases like "do like being my bitch", but this one rarely.
Daenerys Stormborn of the House Targaryen, First of Her Name, the Unburnt, Queen of the Andals and the First Men, Khaleesi of the Great Grass Sea, Breaker of Chains, and Mother of Dragons.
I call him Lord Commander
LMAO
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Honestly, I don't really use any special names. If we are feeling romantic, sweetheart, honey or some such. However, it is more what I say to her and tell her than any particular name.
If we are having more primal sex - more animal, so to speak - then the words might get a little harsher. Even then, I don't recall using very many harsh words, maybe the b word once - but then I felt bad about it.
We are not very verbal I guess.
From my gf: Babe, Baby, her little slut, her perfect whore, princess, gorgeous
I love to be called dirty names, but I personally don’t like being called my own name... it feels weird, mostly because I don’t like the way my name sounds
may be he can shorten or nickname you :p
Hmm I personally would absolutely hate being called princess or queen.
Honey, baby, muffin
ah, I forgot about baby. so silly of me, it's super popular.
Babe or my name. I don't want to be called anything that reminds me of my parents during sex, so cutesy pet names are off the table. And I'm not big on degrading names in bed. Some people like them, I don't.
I think it’s super sweet when he calls me princess during everyday life (not always though, just every once in a while). I can’t even imagine it during sex, it feels awkward and almost like a turnoff.
I don't talk much, too much talking seems like it would be annoying. I like more sounds from her than talking. What do you call him btw?
I just use his name or say baby. but really only talk once it's disgusting and all inhibitions are gone.
It is funny though the difference as some have said they call their woman "slut" or whore or whatever when sex gets nasty and rough. Words that would otherwise be degrading. Some women like that, but it's funny how you see who really runs the sex, guys. Because women don't use words equivalent or like that toward the man, but more complimentary words. Huge submission/dominance difference and dynamice with word association between the two
lol i can't argue, being dominated (him over me) is a huge turn on, maybe it's the size difference thing? not sure. But yea, it would be less sexy if he started saying slut, whore, etc before it even got hot..
My Girl and Baby. Are my names for my girl and of cource her name.
Is this something young people are into? Honestly, calling the woman I am with Princess or queen sounds creepy. Calling her a whore, slut or anything else vulgar is seriously disrespectful. Do people talk that much during sex? WTF are you talking about? I admit that I can get into the moment and say something like "suck that cock" , but overall, the only thing coming from me is my semen. maybe some moans.
I think they talk more in roleplay or teasing before they actually have sex. During sex, I agree a lot of talking is fucking weird. Kind of cringey too. Small phrases during transition of positions is fine but if it's not that or foreplay then it's weird to me.
@CherryRoseChampange @godfatherfan agree, I don't want him to recite a raunchy sonnet, but some words here or there are fun.
I'm not much of a talker. Typically whatever they ask me to call them.
I mainly call her princess and queen.
Depends on the most but baby, sexy, my little *blank*, slut, whore, precious
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I've used princess a few times. I hate babe or baby. If a partner is submissive and in to it, sometimes I'll give her a "good girl" while my dick is in her mouth.
The only name I've ever been called in bed by a lover, was by my current boyfriend when he called me his princess
I get called daddy, papi, my own name and sometimes I'll tell that bitch to call me dragon jk jk. I never really say much but if I do it's either little slut or baby. Honestly what I find really hot is when she moans my name before she cums.
I dont get called none of those things. Mostly i hear baby... but we're not in a relationship. I've called them baby and for those who like it i call them daddy. Lol even though im older than them
Potato
Do you call the guy Mr. Potato Head?
Sometimes.
Slut, fucktoy, baby, babygirl, whore, cumslut.
All depends on the mood I guess haha
Um... Slut I guess? Unless I was saying something it was always silent besides grunts and such... A lot of it was that one of out mouths we're often occupied or someone else was home.
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