The really hard and fast is not how most guys do it. Yes, they pump hard and fast, but like they do in porn. Porn in make believe, not real sex. Re. noise. Yes, sex is often noisy, especially if you are really into it. No, not the moaning like you see in porn, though some moaning is common, depending on the personality of the girl and guy, how verbal they tend to be, and how passionate they are at the time. Talking is also common - such as - does that feel good - is that the right spot - you are such a great f-----, I want to shove my c--- up your p----. Hard pounding should not hurt, and if it does, make him stop. (the exception is the first time or two - if a virgin - in which case he should be soft and gently, not hard pounding.
An average guy, you mean?
Porn "actors" tend to be at the top of their physical condition.
The average guy is very far from that kind of fitness, lol.
Think more along the lines of shaky spaghetti arms giving out after a minute of missionary, whining about thighs hurting, and awkwardly flopping around like two paralyzed manatees trying to find a comfortable position to die in.
When you think of the "average" sexual experience.
Lol, ok, that was perhaps a little too inelegant of a description.
But, yeah, sex is a demanding physical activity, so if someone is a couch potato, they should expect to have sex like one.
very rarely because most likely it would not feel very pleasant but lol tbh there have been a few times where it seems like we are doing something like that lmao. if it's with the right person or someone you trust to stop if it starts hurting rough sex can be fun, but i wouldn't want it like that everytime if that makes sense
Yes, they can. If it's super hard and fast, it can hurt sometimes but you can always just tll the dude to slow down a little and he will unless he's a prick so it's not a big deal.
Porn and food porn and quite alike, you see. They show the perfect sexy shot of cutting onions, but not the tears of the chef.
OMG, that was so poetically expressed. Did you copy that, or make it up yourself?
@CubsterShura I'd take this if an experienced person had said it..
@mattai787 well, it's still true, whether he is experienced or not.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!yes.. even not going fast, there is often a lot of squishing sounds.
But yes, some guys do go super fast at the end before they climax...
That's because they're not connected with their body; the same reason they need to jerk it off when they pull out, rather than she doing it, etc. John Leslie (80s porn god) would stop, pull out, and say, 'don't touch it, let it dribble out'...
Lmao depends on how experienced they are
Yes it can happen but it's not common IRL. Remember that both ejaculation is delayed and erections are enhanced pharmaceutically in porn.
You want him to? well some girls can take it, they tougher then they look. Also congratulations on fact that you was watching straight porn instead of lesbian porn. No it's not strictly a porn thing, it's not some kind of movie special effects, but not all guys have the ability to go so hard and fast, but there are girls who are into it. Anyway you a virgin, I don't think that you can handle such a pace. :)
I've done it like that, so yes, it's possible. I prefer to take it slow and gentle, but some girls I've met turned out to be animals and wanted it fast and rough. Poking a girl's cervix can be painful for the girl, though, as I've found out with a couple of girls whose vaginas were too short for me. With girls who like it rough, though, it doesn't last hours and hours like the slow and gentle action.
It depends on some things like how big is he relative to her internal size. If he is smaller then her inside then the woman will actually like the pounding feeling more on the clitoris and thrust sensation. If he is large and long relative to her internal size, he will have to take it easy (no pounding at all) and the pounding isn't required because he is reaching all the way in her anyways and if done right slow and easy sensual is best and most satisfying to her.
Actual sex does not involve thrusting.
Really? 😮
Plus one for the sentiment, but that's not accurate. Sex usually is all huff and little puff. Love-making... Mmmmmm...
As others have said, it is easily done. You'll figure out yourself what you like, but don't use porn as a guide for what must be done.
I’m a virgin too.. and honestly I don’t know..🤷🏻♂️
PS:I would never want to hurt the girl though..
I think making noise and thrusting pretty hard are fairly normal.
As for going fast, I think most people do that some of the time, but not all the time, as most men would cum very quickly doing that. Some men don't, and they tend to be in porn more - plus in porn they can just take drugs to maintain erections.
Does it hurt the girl? If she's highly aroused, most likely no. Some women love hard and fast, some don't. However unlike men, most women are not concerned with cumming too quickly.
Porn, porn, porn. I'm not saying it can't be done, but who the hell wants to do that?
I dunno, maybe it's pleasurable to guy and girl?
You're probably right. I'm sure someone likes it that way.
Some do. But done right is different than you typically see it.
I think some of it is staged after all it's just porn not really sure.
I really loved ur thinking.
Well I'm really young so...
Life happened... then u should think about something else.
Yes, and that sound you hear is SUCH a turn-on in real life. That slapping sound. I love it when I'm doing the f**king, AND when I'm the one being f**ked, too. You feel the pounding, and the sound reinforces the act, the actuality of hard thrusting sex. Can it hurt? I've had no complaints, so far.
yes it is possible.. have you not seen guys shaking their hips in dance moves..
Lol these are two different things 😂
Not much different.. IF a guy can dance like that, he can do same with an erect penis..
Yeah, it's definitely possible, but not all girls enjoy that. Some like it rough, and some don't, but if you're properly wet or lubed up, and his dick isn't too huge, it usually doesn't hurt.
Naah. Tried doing it just can't
I keep loosing my coordination... Porn is all about skills editing and loops.
Most of these guys below are definitely lying lol
...-chuckles- Nooo, lack of coordination means you can't fuck.
@Ahsthen oh please I meant if I go to fast it's always me loosing my coordination
Ah noo, lad. By the way, if you have a spring bed, it should be easier, because of the rebound to ride.
Whilst porn is essentially fantasy, obviously it does involve real people, actors is far too loose a term. It is possible to thrust like that, but in reality the pace of sex will differ from person to person.
No, unless they're super ripped.
yeah they probably can but not for too log without cumming.
no it doesn't hurt the girl unless his dick is too big, goes in with an awkward angle or she's not warmed up. it feels good. that's why they do it.
i mean the average joe will cum too fast if he does it for long and probably they aren't even fit enough to do it for long xD
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