How often is anal sex healthy? Everyday? Every week?

[PrettyLittleSister]

[LuckyEnough]

A) depends on your body, and experience level. The anus is very elastic, and each person's has it's own amount of time to "snap back ". Not to mention, how far it has to go, depending on girth of the guy.

B) duration, andforcefullyness if the sex. If it's tender, and slower, than less effect. If hard and deep, more. If he's a minute man, less, if he's pounding it for an hour, more.

Wife loves anal, a lot. Unless I'm really going hard, usually about every other night should never do "damage". Biggest thing for not every night seems to be that it sometimes can make her constipated. Anal while constipated is no fun, because it is usually a bit painfull due to added pressure, and can end in suddenly becoming "not constipated", if you get my meaning.

[Anonymous]

I think frequency may be a factor, but along with frequency; friction, size relative to size, how it is done, hygiene (for example girls should go from anal to vaginal, only vice-versa... for the same reason you don’t wipe your ass in a forwardly direction). It’s all about how it’s done, more than how much.

[MlleCake]

If you know how to do it without pain, and don't do things like have an enema every time, it's probably healthy to do it daily. Gently though.

One should not try to wear a plug all day though.

[olderbudweiser]

Gud idea

[jakeforfun]

Informative, and also very hot.

[MlleCake]

@jakeforfun See? Who says information can't be interesting and sexy?

[jakeforfun]

Seems like you'd be a lot of fun. I wish more women had your outlook, honesty, guts, and gregariousness. Thanks

[jakeforfun]

@MarKus133 Really? I hope you're trying for humor, because if not, your game is flawed, dude. I start with respect, and if the woman is into some sort of submissiveness, or degradation, I can oblige. Otherwise - gentleman. I love woman, so don't start with an "attitude", or agenda.

[MlleCake]

@jakeforfun And if you know me at all, you know I am not in for submission or degradation. If there's to be a power exchange, I'm tops all the way. But it is not a specifically d/s act. It's in the realm of neutral kink for a lot of people. I love my subs, and I think adventurous sex is awesome, so I would never use sex to degrade someone. Plenty of doms love some funky butt love too, so who's to say, right?

[MlleCake]

@jakeforfun And you're right. That ain't no game @MarKus133. If you want to have sex with a lady don't make her regret knowing you in the first sentence man. I promise you, none of you want the lady who would just say "oh yes" to that and agree to meet you somewhere.

[jakeforfun]

You are definitely a serious turn-on, for me. When you say "I love my subs", I get tingly. You being a top all the way really sparks my imagination, too. I wish you could play with me. I'm a Switch, so usually do fit into most other's play, one way o another. Anyway, great to know you exist. Now all I have to do is meet someone like you in real life...

[MlleCake]

See @MarKus133, @jakeforfun has MUCH better game.

[LaurenGrace]

A few times a week is ok
. i can do it a couple days in a row before i need at least a days rest. its not a hole that can handle being used that way daily

[JSmith925]

Never, but if you must, I would limit it to once a month or less. It is just an unhealthy practice in general and unnecessary.
~JSmith

[MlleCake]

It really isn't particularly unhealthy. Humans appear to have done it through all human history. That doesn't mean YOU have to like it though.

[JSmith925]

@MlleCake A huge risk to blood-borne diseases, cancer of the bowels, anal fissures and hemorrhoids, urinal infections, incontinence in later years and so on---I would say it is unhealthy. It is also quite uncomfortable, by most accounts. But if your adventurous, enjoy. ~JSmith

[MlleCake]

Except not all of that is true for one thing, and the rest of it is avoided by using safer sex practices. It's not particularly less healthy than vaginal intercourse, or doesn't have to be. Again, I'm not saying just jump-in and be foolish about it, but it doesn't have to be unhealthy.

[jakeforfun]

@MlleCake Respect! You are so communicative. And knowledgeable, too. You know what you like. You know who, and what you are. A formidable woman, for sure. If you're ever in the general New England area, and are up for fun, let me know - I'll show you the town (and so much more).

[MlleCake]

@jakeforfun This really isn't even about what I like. I just don't think we do each other any favors making claims that aren't quite the whole story. There is and has always been a hell of a lot of variety to sexual stuff that humans do. Some of it has turned out to be disastrous, and JSmith is not wrong in pointing out real risks. But overstating them is not needed either.

[JSmith925]

@MlleCake I have a number of gay friends who were felled by HIV. Web MD and other medical cites clearly state the many unintended consequences and risks. But you keep the faith, my dear. For the rest of you, open your eyes to the facts and just say no.

[MlleCake]

You say that as if I didn't live through those days either. That's why I know that safer sex practices are incredibly effective.

[MrMysteryMan]

As in, if you have it too much you'll get more issues in the rectum or what?

[Cwazzycwafter]

There isn’t really any sort of health that plays into it. I mean I’d argue that it’s actually probably not healthy at all because a foreign object is entering and could damage your rectum.

[TheIceCreamQueen]

As often as you like as long as you don't feel like crap HaHAhAhAa

[bumblingbee]

Depends on how rough you are and what you do. Like, taking a finger or a cock, no worries, every day would be fine (unless you get really rough with it). Going for fisting or prolapse or gape? Should probably take a few days between sessions to recover/heal.

[funguy90]

As often as you like really. As long as it doesn't hurt and you feel fine you can do it multiple times a day

[wankiam]

i dont think its ever unhealthy as long as you keep everything hygenic

[Chelseachelsea]

Um, i mean if you like it do it whenever you want.

[theDarkangel12344]

That's cool

[jimyee]

Technically anal sex is never health as it can lead to small tears in your rectum

[justaskher]

Not everyday but once a week can acceptable. The butt hole can be irritated

[Malita55]

I’d say once a week is fine, I do it more than that and I’m okay

[Knight15]

YOU GO GIRL!!

[Dargil]

Never is good.

[Chaz269]

If you're doing it well, there is no limit to the frequency with which you can enjoy anal sex.

[OvershareGamer]

Not more than 3 times a month.

[BillieJean1070]

To me, anal sex is not that exciting and I save it for special times when regular sex may not be an option.

[WhiteKite]

Take it slow and be careful. If you enjoy it rough, do it rarely. There is a slight increase in anal incontinence in people who regularly have anal sex to those who don't, according to epidemiological data.
Something we do know however is that having anal sex rough, with large objects or against a tightened anal sphincter is a bad idea.

[Micmac0]

It is not correct anal sex and incontinence are completely uncorrelated

[WhiteKite]

@Micmac0 Use the comma, otherwise it's hard to understand what you mean. Or don't forget the "that". But regardless which side you're on, the National Health and Nutrition Examination survey 2009-2010 shows a correlation between the two. Hence not completely uncorrelated. I'm not claiming a cause. There has also been demonstrated that men engaging in anal sex has lower pressure, hence weaker muscles.

[Kreneman]

According to most health books and Doctors recommendations, at least once or twice (depending on the woman) a week but no more then 3 or 4 a month plus slow steady pace with lube during the intercourse (For beginners and for multiple times in a month) bring more pleasure. For fast pace (rough anal) about two or three times out of the month for great pleasure.

[opurba]

Please try other side.

[PrettyLittleSister]

what?

[kamash]

Vagina

[PrettyLittleSister]

@kamash ass is tighter

[kamash]

Yes... it is... but loving it and stimulating can take it to a whole new level

[jakeforfun]

I'm gonna talk mental health - I need it (receiving anal) every so often, or I get ornery. I need to be taken down a peg, and that seems to work perfectly. Lots of fun, too.

[ravedave]

As long as you're not in pain, you're using lube, and you're comfortable doing it, as much as you want.