Is sending a picture to a guy showing the string of your underwear slutty?

He KNOWS I’m not going to hookup with him. I’m still a virgin and he knows that but he’s very sexual and has been trying to get at me for months. So I did it as a way to tease him... I know this may not be the nicest thing but hey he's asking for it.
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  • Playing with fire...
    Not slutty, but you are teasing him, which might lead him to expect and want more, which will then challenge you to send a more nasty picture and then one day you will be next to him and he will be pestering you for sex...
    Something like that... don't tease too much, or you might get bit.

    • I agree 100%😬 thank you

    • Thanks for the MHO :)

  • if you have that standard and you don't plan on losing to virginity to him, then why would you tease them? that's just mean. i know he asked for it but since when is them asking a good reason for you doing something? xD

    • I totally see your point but the thing is, I do kinda like him. But I don’t wanna have sex cuz I’m not ready to do that with anyone yet. I’m confused myself and even if I were ready I don’t know if I would trust him

    • haha i know exactly why you are confused. it's really hard for girls... there's that fear of pain cause society tells you the first time is gonna be bloody and painfull and then there's that social pressure of not being a slut which conflict with your natural desire to experience sexuality. the tip i can give you is to be a bit less judgmental towards yourself. allow yourself those urges you have. allow yourself to act upon them more as you already started sending hi stuff. if you don't trust the guy, just stop it but if you kind of feel attracted and you get kind of excited about the thought of having sex with him, maybe it would be a good idea do drop some of those weights that rest on your shoulders in form of expectations superimposed by society and self imposed by your own insecurity

    • i mean who tells you, you're not ready for it? you're over 18 right? and you know how to use birth control right? you don't get any more ready for this in your life xD

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  • I don’t believe it’s slutty. However, if you have no intentions of dating him or hooking up with him, why insinuate there’s an interest there? it’ll only lead him on and make him believe he has a chance... but you do what you wanna do. i just think it’s kinda immature.

  • The answer to your question is Yes, it is slutty. But you know what? You shouldn't give a single fck if someone would think that. It's your business 😉

  • Don't. I don't understand why you're leading him on in the first place and yes it is slutty if he ain't your boyfriend.

  • If he's a good, loyal friend of mine, I won't mind teasing him with whatever I can 😜

    • Who's he

    • @Jason40 a guy lol

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  • No girl you tease that man!! Haha!!! It sounds fun!! Heck maybe some day he will agree to respect your wishes if he can take you on a date...

  • Go for it. Make sure u ain’t got no shit stain xD

  • That is called being a cock tease. It is not a good habit to get into.

    • At lest I try to give some structure of the subject

  • Not slutty at all.

  • Not slutty. You are just teasing him giving him a preview of what could come if he plays his cards right.

    • Exactlyyyyyy and so far he is not impressing me. All he has shown me a he is he’s a big fuckboy so🤷🏻‍♀️😂

    • If he knows you aren't going to hookup right away then he shouldn't keep pushing. He should be happy to be with you and whenever you decide great. I don't see anything wrong with playful teasing or showing him things because it's playful. Just because you want to show off your body and give him a peak doesn't mean he's entitled to sex.

    • Thank you!!! Amen to that

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  • Never.

  • Nope

  • Tease the shit out of that horndog lol for not respecting your wishes but should just let him know you have no intrest of falling for he's shit

    • Exactly!!! I have told him COUNTLESS times. I even said “do I wanna have sex with you, hellll yea, you fu*kin turn me on, but will I... no” haha he’s fed my type but I have standards for myself that I stick to. It’s fun teasing him cuz he’s relentless

    • *def not fed

    • Then if he's a dickhead and really only wants to use you, not respect your wishes then.. . cocktease the fucker haha

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  • You KNOW you are sending mixed signals. Attention seeker...

    • Of course I’m doing it on purpose bc he has been trying to months and every time I say no so I figure if he’s gonna keep asking why not have some fun with it😂

  • Be careful on what you do.. This experience guys are not always into something serious.. Its not slutty to show your string but it's not lady like either.. Yet everyone is different and I respect that. Cheers

  • It's a tease if you're not gonna fuck him it's mean

  • You gave him stuff for his wank library

  • If you tease for reaction it is slutty minded not slutty.

  • A little. But I think that is a good thing in this case if you’re trying to tease him... it is pretty good. U probably have a very horny friend by now

    • Very very veryyyy horney lmao

    • Lol but then again what guy isn’t? 😂

    • True true

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  • No, I don't think so, no. It's more like flirty.

  • Why not show more

  • No tease him

    • Who are you anon

  • Mind games are afoot...

  • No it not

  • If you're not tryna smash then he has to respect that and get over it. But it's still not nice to tease him. That happened to me once and I got pretty upset about it

    • I didn’t start off teasing him. This has only been the last week cuz he boy won’t stop

    • I understand. But for real I was in that dudes position before and she teased me sometimes. But when it turned out she wasn't interested And nothing came of it I got pretty upset about it

    • The thing is, I’m veryyyyy attracted to him and if he were to be a gentleman and take his time and not focus on sex sex sex sex sex I would totally be willing to be with him. You know but so far he hasn’t been showing me that side

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