i guess to explain it technically: there is a certain blood pressure that makes your dick hard. think of it more as a continuum than set states. like your dick can be somewhat hard and it can be hard and then it can be so very hard that you litterally feel your pulse thumping in it like crazy and it feels bigger and harder than usually.
now it's not quite so easy to get there, cause otherwise we'd just do it every time right? xD there are a lot of emotional variables that play a role in there. he has to be really fucking turned on to begin with but that's not even enough.
i guess if you want him to get there, the best you can do is to be really eager to have his dick inside you and encourage him to give it to you a lot. don't expect it to work every time, cause it doesn't even work every time when he tries to get there alone in masturbation.
I don't know why it embarrassed him unless your reaction was such that he didn't feel like you accepted his body reacting normally like that by getting hard when he was with you. And yes, for me at least, getting and having an erection actually feels good all by itself. I can get a really hard erection from just being close/cuddling/kissing a girl I have feelings for.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I guess I'm still young, sounds like a normal erection to me.
A lot of guys like me , get embarrassed when girls know they are horny. It feels a little weird when my cock is hard , dirty pics.
We are visual creatures. Getting us to visualize sex with you gets the blood flowing
Going rock hard is okay as long as girl will play with it. If not it is annoying because there is a feeling like your dick wants to go bigger but it is not capable to grow any bigger so it gives you a little pain. I feel so good when girl stroke it and ease my pain.
Maybe you made him rock hard in public sometimes?
Yeah and one time we were around our friends
There you go
It feels great.
Maybe it was the situation in which you made him hard eg in public?
And I live the feeling of being hard yea
rock hard dick is manly.
Depends on my mood
yes getting rock hard does feel good because it means we r turned on. but if its in public then its obviously embarrassing because everyone can see ur erection
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