Men; Women Crying During Sex? Thoughts? Women, is it common?

I wanted to know what guys thought about girls doing this? My boyfriend said he gets anxious sometimes or afaid because he thinks he's hurting me or something. But it's not that at all lol. I'm just getting a lot of emotions and feelings at one time so my eyes leak. I don't make noises when I cry, tears just sort of come down sometimes like when it first goes in or everything is really strong but I'm engaging fine. I'm actually enjoying everything but the tears I haven't been able to control. They just happen sometimes. Like annoying allergies or something. Girls is this common and guys what are your thoughts?
Men; Women Crying During Sex? Thoughts? Women, is it common??
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  • We get a flood of pleasure chemicals during sex. endorphin, oxytocin, serotonin, and dopamine plus a surge of adrenaline. These can confuse emotional reactions and result in "tears of joy". A girl I was with had a whopper orgasm and did that. I asked her if she was alright and through her sobs and sniffs, all she could say was "Yes! I feel do free! I feel like I'm flying!"
    Not sure I understand this, but there it is.

  • So it's happy tears? Tears that form when unimaginable emotions fill your brain with https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oxytocin
    Oxytocin - Wikipedia

    I think it's beautiful that a guy can make you get like that. I wouldn't be surprised if I did that too. I've done it before... I'm an emotional person and sex is the ultimate stage of emotion in my opinion.

    • Yes actually, they are like happy tears. They kind of show I'm enjoying it and everything is just really intense for me. I'm not sobbing, or bawling. Just a fear tears slide down sometime when things overload. But I'm really happy. And I agree, sex is an ultimate stage of emotions. Thank you for commenting.

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  • It happened to me. I felt TERRIBLE about doing this but I ghosted/blocked the girl shortly after. I want to have sex with a WOMAN and not a GIRL

    • Not exactly the picture of a good man, are you?

    • It's not like a sobbing or out right cry. It's just a few silent tears when everything huts me all at once. Like my eyes leak. I can't control it. It doesn't make me less of a woman.

    • @BrianMerritt I disagree completely. I have the right to be dating someone who is emotionally mature. Ironically if YOU started crying during sex a girl would likely start laughing at you. Stop with the double standards... please.

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  • It has never happened to me, but it would freak me out TBH.

  • Um I would think it was really weird.

  • Wouldn't know, not having the experience, but yes, if she started crying during sex, even if it was just tears and no noise, I would be very concerned I'm hurting her.

  • It's a turn on

    • Do you mind if i ask why?

    • Sadism

    • I'm actually a masochist as well. Can that just be my nature or something then? Is that common with them? I know you're sadist but hopefully you've experienced stuff with some masochists lol. Sorry to ask so many questions. This will be my last one.

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  • Some girls that have never experienced an orgasam sometimes cry after, because of the emotional overload.

    • That's kind of where I fall and kind of not. It's not my first time but I am a simi rookie to all the emotions? Like I know what I'm doing and I can please him just fine. But as for myself I'm not used to so many emotions going through my body at once so my eyes leak from overflow sometimes. Like you said basically.

    • In my humble opinion, the more you experience it, the better you become at enjoying the event.

  • I wouldn't mind her tears... as long she explains to me what is that about and it's like your explanation, it's fine by me...

  • If she tells me its due to the pleasure I would continue but if I start and she cries I will stop and ask her what's wrong

  • I would immediately kick her out

    • Why?

    • Turn off

  • Nup I m quite emotional, I will ask first why?

    • Emotional overload, like I'm enjoying it but it's really intense so my eyes leak sometimes.

    • Then its OK as ultimate purpose is to enjoy while sex therefore I will enjoy flow ignoring crying

  • I don't care if a bitch cries during sex. The bitch is suppose to suck it

    • Little bit young to be making jokes like that dont ya think?

  • eyes and pussy both should be wet.

  • I actually prefer women to cry when we do it

    • Why is that?

    • It means I have a big diq

  • I hope I don't hurt her. I think it's not common. Just experienced it one time but it was freaky

  • Sounds like you take it proper rough for that to happen

  • I like to embrace my woman's emotions and comfort her

  • I would be very worried... I would feel like I am doing something terrible immediately.