Can a girl rape a guy? Here is a guy's story?

[Anonymous]

When I was 21 I was raped by the girl who was my girlfriend at the time. … The worst day of my life was when she decided to tie me up. She told me all the dirty things she was going to do to me while she kissed my neck and whispered into my ear as she tied my arms and legs down to the bed. Everything she said she was going to do was normal to me (suck me, ride me) so I let her tie me up. After I was tied up she asked me to try to break free and offered a reward to me if I could. She said she would be back and if I wasn’t free then I would miss out on the reward.

She came back and stood at the door and stared at me. She then told me how I wasn’t going to be rewarded because I couldn’t get out. She then told me she was going to punish me. Long story short, she ended up sodomizing me with her vibrator. I must have said no a thousand times. I was crying and begging her to stop which in hindsight probably made it worse. I was anally fucked, then she tried to ride me but I couldn’t even get up. I was so broken emotionally and in pain physically. She then got very mad that I couldn’t get it up which was never a problem. I was beaten for a while. Then the vibrator again while being hit. It lasted about 6 or 7 hours but felt like it was a dozen. For a while she just left it in me while she went in the other room to watch TV.

It was mid day when she tied me up and had been dark for a few hours after it was over. I ended up falling asleep tied up. I think I just passed out more from exhaustion of trying to break free/get her to stop. I woke up and I was untied in bed by myself. …

I ended up calling the police, which was the best decision I had ever made. The second I called them she calmed down and started to behave. They got there pretty quickly. Of course once they were there she played the damsel in distress and claimed that I was beating her up and choking her, etc. I told the cop everything that happened, which was embarrassing but worth it. She was jailed.

[Anonymous]

I agree that that's rape, I agree that it is entirely possible for women to rape men, and I'm sorry that most people don't recognize that.
I hope you are taking care of yourself. As a woman who has experiences like yours, I won't promise that the pain of it will go away. I won't promise that you'll be "okay". I'll just tell you that rainn. org can refer you to resources to help you get to a point where you can live your life again. I myself have been beat up raped called a whore you name it and on the outside I seem perfectly okay but my life has basically broken apart.
In order for you not to end up like me remember these basic things
1) Not your fault. I don't care what happened this was not your fault.
2) Do not be ashamed to tell the truth
3) You have been through something worse than dying and you ARE strong and you will prove it every day for the rest of your life just by living it well.
4) Live your best life and go for your dreams. Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right. So remember that you can.
Best wishes to you and sorry does not even begin to cover it for what happened to you.

[TisforTori]

Of course men can be raped. The illusion that a woman could never rape is naive and poses a risk to our communities

[Repa33]

Thats rape. It doesn't matter weather its a guy or girl. Im so sorry you had to go through that

[Asker]

The story is not mine

[MrFive]

I've experienced unwanted sexual attention. Wouldn't call it take but certainly it pushed he line. There was a woman a little obsessed with me at university. Hosted a house party once, i rode my motorbike over there as i had work the next day.

At the end of the night she hid my keys and my helmet and demanded i stay. After a further hour of arguing with her and demanding my keys I eventually relented and let her suck me off. After which she gave me my keys and I was able to leave.

I know this sounds crazy. 'who complains about getting blown?' but I was really not into her at all.

[Asker]

Interesting

[Nik1hil]

Girl can only rape a guy if her imagination is able to go beyond the weird shit The guy is into..

i above situation guy was not into thing the girls imagination did,
if the guy was into them then there would be no problem,

for example someone like me.. that would simply we fun...
but then again if she tried taking her imagination beyond my weird level, i will intercept it and trick her into opening me, because then it is not matter or sexual pleasure , just matter of saving yourself, d

[djmzes]

U cannot

[MlleCake]

Yes, women can and do commit rape and sexual assaults. Yes men can be and are victims sometimes.

[ZanyInternetName]

Of course a girl can rape a guy. Rape is either intercourse without consent or penetration by foreign objects without consent. Hence he was raped (at least by the legal definitions where I live).

[fauchelevent]

They can, yeah.

[The_Canadian_Moose]

Yes as long as its not concent its rape. So the man could be married and not want to ruin that and yeah rape

[SweetsAndCyanide]

Yes, women can rape men.

[Ankitasingh466]

But how?

[SweetsAndCyanide]

Unconsentual penetraition, even if the rapist is the one penetrated.

[Ankitasingh466]

U mean a women forcing herself on a man?

[SweetsAndCyanide]

Yeah

[Ankitasingh466]

But that's too rare , cauz obviously men are stronger than women. And it's quite difficult to do that. Unless it's the opposite way

[SweetsAndCyanide]

It's rare to report it because men are stuck to the stereotype that they are supposed to like sex no matter what, and that a woman can't dominate you. They stay silent about it because they will get mocked and treated like weaklings.

[Ankitasingh466]

That's why when my boyfriend asks me to dominate. I dominate like hell. I won't give him a chance. But I do keep in mind he is my boyfriend and not a servant.

[Jude_Wills]

@Ankitasingh466 how you dominate your boyfriend?

[Ankitasingh466]

@judewills , none of your business.

[Jude_Wills]

@Ankitasingh466 I know just asking bcoz I am also sub

[NiceDave]

It's even harder for men...

[ghostqueen]

Of course, gender has nothing to do with it.

[NoFcks2Give]

Its huge in some parts of Africa. Or if a guy is drugged. I've heard of three women tying a mentally disabled man and forcibly having sex with him. The world is crazy. Maliciousness knows no gender.

[Dargil]

Nonsense.

[J_MoneyBag]

Yes it's possible for a female to rape a male. The actual definition of rape is "any forced anal, oral, or vaginal penetration". It's not a gender specific action.

[Namkrow]

It's totally possible for a woman to rape a man. You just rarely hear about it because most don't take the concept seriously at all. A woman rape a man? Preposterous. But it does happen, and men it happens to feel exactly the same ways about it as women who are raped by men. Not that I'm speaking from experience, mind.

[vald9inches]

God damn... dd

[vald9inches]

wow i mean just wow...

[Asker]

She is mad isn't she

[vald9inches]

i am never EVER letting a girl tie me up ever no amount of kink in the world i would rather die holy shit that is a nightmare situation

[Asker]

Mentally sick

[Asker]

Exactly

[vald9inches]

seriously mentally sick beyond comprehension i mean that is some evil shit right there

[vald9inches]

i dont understand what kind of pleasure she would even get out of it?

[vald9inches]

the only thing i can think of is to just emasculate the fuck out of him and erase any manhood and pride he had as a man! it makes me wonder if she herself had something happen to her to make her want to get revenge on all men like this

[Asker]

I think she is just sick

[vald9inches]

I knew women can mentally rape a man if they wanted but not physically like this

[vald9inches]

obviously anyone willing to do this is incredibly mentally sick

[vald9inches]

but thanks for sharing this story it has kind of opened my eyes up a little to this

[Asker]

Welcome, I was shocked and terrified and just wanted to share it

[vald9inches]

this kind of similar situation that i was shocked after i read it but also its so sad because it could have easily been avoided and nobodies life would have been destroyed...
tell me what you think?
www.independent.co.uk/.../...whigham-a7860591.html

[Asker]

Oh it's so sad

[vald9inches]

i know right? but you can tell he lost his mind and went crazy to stab her 119!!! times in the face i mean wow as a man i dont ever want to be in this situation!

[Asker]

There are a lot of mentally sick people in this world, so terrifying

[Finni]

Yes, they can. Why shouldn't they be able to?

[sovietpotatoe]

It's almost impossible to get raped if ur a guy. First u have to get hard then u have to stay hard which if the girl is good looking ill let it happen

[heimdallr]

So by your logic then a girl who gets wet can't be raped, which 95% of them do. You're a fucking moron

[Queenbeast22]

AHEM There's more types of sex than just with the penis... And saying that if she is goodlooking you will "let it happen" if you consent, that's not rape. Rape is defined as being ANY sexual activity not limited to penetration when the other party does not consent or is drunk/incapable of consent- there is a whole set of laws about it as well as legal stipulations and court cases. Based on your opinion it may be worth a few minutes of your time to become educated on this issue so that you don't run into people like heimdallr below mm? (and if you do then you can actually back this up and have an INTELLIGENT discussion rather than an exchange of four letter words. just a tip)

[sovietpotatoe]

Girls don't have to get wet to get raped u could stick ur dick in there wet or dry, for girls try sucking or riding a limp dick

[Jeep_lover]

Oh shit where the fuck did he find her? At first I thought this guy was a bitch but after reading the whole entire thing she's nuts..

[Asker]

Exactly

[Jude_Wills]

It's not about girl or boy
It is about dom and sub. Dom always rape sub

[Premihoo]

Yes women empowerment

[Anonymous]

I read more than one story about this on newspaper, one of which happened in a town in Russia, some guy broke into a girl's house trying to steal something, the girl caught him, hit him with a bat, unmasked him, tied him to the basement, fed him food and Viagra and raped him for weeks. Another story is about a bunch of girls raped a guy in a car outside of a church and he went to the police and the officer tried to high five him.

[Anonymous]

Yes a girl can rape a guy.
I get off on play wrestling with girls and losing. The idea is to be subdued and then sexually dominated by her, but some of the girls I've played were surprisingly strong and very skilled and could have easily beaten me in a competitive match. So even without letting her tie me up they could easily have raped me.