What does he mean when he says he wants to cum inside to "mark his territory" ?

Question

I've liked this guy for ages. We've been long distance friends for a very long time, and I've been wanting more than friendship since we first got talking.

I finally told him I'm into him, and to my surprise, the feeling is mutual.

Unfortunately he lives in another country, so haven't yet met up f2f. We are making plans to get together.

Last night while we were getting amorous on Skype, I asked where he would most like to cum. He replied "deep inside your cunt, I want to mark my territory".

This was so primal and unexpected, it turned me on like crazy.

Today I'm left wondering what he means by that though. I don't know if it's just going to be sex, a purely friends with benefits deal, or if he wants more? Does a guy saying he wants to mark his territory mean he wants you to be his girl?

I really don't want to ask him until we meet up, but I'd love to know what might be going on in his head.

Help!

weenieroast · Accepted Answer

Don't be fooled. It's simply a way of distracting you so that he doesn't need to wear a condom. Also, depending on what countries you two are from and your situation, he's probably just trying to knock you up so that no other guys talk to you. A man marking his territory has nothing to do with cumming into the deepest realms of your love crevice. The true mark of a man and his territory is when he can make you nearly cum with just a facial expression. That's game. Anytime a chick has ever asked me where I wanted to cum, I responded with "which one? The first or second?"

davidrees · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't read too much in to it, what he says when you're having Skype sex is possibly very different to what he thinks about relationships.

I was in a similar situation about two years ago, chatting online and went on a business trip to her part of the world. We both got tested beforehand and I came inside her the first night we met.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It seems like he wants to mark you. Have you as his, you know? So that everyone knows you are his (even though that is practically impossible, it leaves psychological effects into the woman... And she feels owned... Marked, you know?)

Either way, I'd say he wants something more long term. Have fun 😊😛

Berethor · Answer

He want your pussy to be his, so it's not means friends with benefits.

Mag_Mechanic · Answer

Some guys have two different personalities one is their usual personality that you see every day, and the primal side you saw only comes out when he is having sex.

Mr_Hyde · Answer

ASK! The only way to know if he wants a relationship and just not to be friends with benefits is by asking, anything else would be speculation.

And I understand it was just dirty talk, but when you meet irl, is he refuses to use a condom he doesn't have respect for you. I only say this as a warning, not a judgement.