How do I know if my pussy is not too loose?

I often feel like I'm too loose. I never had anyone tell me that I'm tight despite of having experiences. That's one of my biggest insecurities. How do I get over it? Sometimes I feel like I'm not much please because of it. You know, men never tell if you're loose. They just move on. I can insert 4 fingers at once. Is that too much?
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  • I think the whole "tight"/"loose" thing about vaginas is kind of like the new "thigh gap" worry. The vagina is a muscular organ (I'm talking about the real vagina, not the vulva that many people inaccurately call the "vagina"). It can expand to accommodate a baby, and it's designed to conform itself to whatever is put inside it, as long as the girl is sexually aroused. So the fact that you can insert 4 fingers doesn't mean you're "loose." The vagina isn't like a rubber band, where the more it's stretched the less it will go back to its original size and shape.

    • Yeah but dude, there is looser and tighter. For sure.

    • @Anon-ymous1 No honey there isn't. The majority of vaginas are capable of expanding to accommodate the expulsion of an 8 pound baby. If it can't then that is an abnormality and extremely rare. That looseness or tightness you feel has to do with arousal levels and how wet she is. A woman that is extremely turned on will feel looser then one who is less aroused. The vagina is like an elastic it stretches to accommodate things and then snaps back. The only thing capable of "loosing" a vagina is an 8 pound baby and even then within months it reverts back to it's original state.

    • @coralee... Uhm. Do you have a penis?

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  • Definitely don't go to the doctor and get surgery or pills! Everyone is made different and maybe you do have a larger vagina but there's a black man waiting for you somewhere haha jokes about that. When you say you can fit 4 fingers is that before arousal or after? Someone already mentioned kegals...

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  • The idea that a woman can be too loose is a myth. And one that needs to die a slow painful death. Your vagina is incredibly elastic. It can expand double it's size when aroused which is why you can insert four fingers easily. When you aren't aroused it goes right back to normal. The only thing big enough to cause a vagina to loose it's elasticity is a baby and even then in time it does in fact go back to the way it was.

    • Well said and i totally agree

  • If it falls out you should go see a doctor. Otherwise it’s just as it’s meant to be

  • Yes that's too much , 4 fingers omg. I can insert 2 at a time.

    • How do you have sex if you can't get two fingers in?

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  • You'e just sleeping with small guys you need a guy that is at least 6 or 7 inches anything smaller then that tell him no lol

  • You're not

  • The best way to know if your pussy is tight or not is to insert a rubber dick toy of 4 inch circumference and see if your pussy tightens around this object. If the dick comes out without effort , then your pussy is loose. Most probably , your pussy will still be tight.

  • 4 fingers isn't loose. And anyway a looser pussy can feel super sexy, especially if you're really wet.

    Feel free to DM me if you're still having worries.

  • your vagina isn't a dead hole xD there are muscles. if you want to be tight, squeeze down.

  • If you're concerned about being too loose you can try doing. some kegel excercises that will give you more muscle control down there and give you the ability to squeeze your pussy walls around his cock

  • If a light breeze makes you sound like a tent on the North face of Mt. Everest in a snow storm... Too loose.

  • Have your boyfriend insert both hands and try to clap. If he can't then you're not too loose. Are you familiar with kegel exercise? If not, Google it.

  • More than 2 is too much.. but worry not there's solution...

    1) don't do penetrative masturbation.

    2) improve your muscle inside vag. Yes it can be done. It's called kegeling or something... google it

  • I mean you're right, we're not going to tell you one way or the other. But even if you are a bit too loose-- and you may not be, you may be perfectly fine-- there are other options you have to please him.

  • Experiences?

  • Everything is relative: for a small penis you might be to loose but not for a big size one. Maybe you never met a big size one? you can specifically target bigger sizes

  • If you can insert more than 2 fingers AND your tampons fall out regularly... then you may want to consult a doctor or do kegels. If they don't fall out... then no worries.

  • Learn to do kegel exercises

  • You're fine. Don't be insecure about it. If you really are worried, do kegals regularly.

  • It doesn't matter. It's not too loose

  • Maybe you masturbate too much

  • How many fingers can you fit?

    • Fuck read that too late. No it's not

  • Men never tell because men dont care.

    • Ehh... dunno about that

    • Well i definitely dont care.

    • If you say so.

  • You are fine I’m sure it will be a perfect fit

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