Ladies/girls, how does it feel like to wear a skirt or dress?

[Anonymous]

So as a guy who never even wears shorts, skirts and dresses are definitely out of the question.

But I know how shorts feel... they're just basically pants, but a shorter version that exposes more leg and goes above the knee. That's it.

Now a dress... I imagine it just basically feels like wandering into public areas without any pants on. Unless you wear small spandex shorts underneath... but they're traditionally worn with just underwear, and most people who look at you will assume you just have on underwear.

The same applies for a skirt... it's just basically the same as a dress, but it's separate from the top part. But it still provides no coverage in the way pants and shorts do. It's open from underneath as well.

And I imagine, the shorter the skirt/dress is, the worse the problem becomes. Because if it's long and goes past your knee, then you don't really have to worry much about the way you sit, nor about flashing anyone in any way. But if it goes above your knee... then you do have to worry about the way you sit and such.

Plus, since a dress or skirt is open from underneath, I imagine even a really long one is already cool enough, and keeps you from overheating. Making it shorter just seems unnecessary, and just impractical if anything, since you have to watch how you sit. It's already flowy and open and allows the air in... it doesn't need to be above the knee.

And yeah... sorry this post is so long, but I'm legitimately curious about this skirts and dresses stuff!

I'm not even attracted to women, so this is not a fetish post. It's just that to me wearing a skirt/dress seems no different than just wearing a long shirt.

[MysteryPerson70]

as one that wears free flowing, floor length skirts (as a masculine, none sodomite man), it all depends on the garment. people mix dress with skirts, but we all should know the difference. i never warn a dress (one peace, covering top and bottom). as for skirts. if it's exposing my legs, not so. especially if it's a rough material like jeans fabric). but the type of skirts i do wear and are 100% comfy wearing are long, free flowying peasant skirts and plain coloured and full floor lenth gypsy skirts (cotton)

ps i answered though i'm not a female because i'm pretty sure if enough guys did the same (but not you, asker) then you'd most likely ask the guys also

[FMJ_Guy]

Seriously, dude, are you that insecure in your own 'Manliness' that you never wore a skirt, or dress, some, soft, lacy 'nightie' because you were with a girl that was testing you, and you just played along, for the fun of it? Are you THAT 'HOMOPHOBIC' that you never did anything with past girlfriends?
It's just cloth!! I DARE you to tell a Highland Scotsman that he is wearing a 'skirt' when he wears a traditional Kilt!! You are sure to get a good ass-beating!!
It won't make you 'gay' to try wearing a dress, or skirt!! It's much more fun with a girlfriend, teasing, and playing, though...

[Asker]

Great info... but I'm overall just sad and fat, I could never pull a skirt/dress off :(

[FMJ_Guy]

That's even better!! I am never imagined liking skirts and dresses, and I am TOTALLY ADORING women, and not trans, but when one teased me, challenged, and I tried, it feels comfortable, and normal!! I'm not at all 'slender' and in the summer, I LOVE just wearing a long T-shirt (really a dress) around the house, when alone, or with that girl!! I hate the tight 'guy' shorts, and 'Board shorts' are just floppy!

[Asker]

Ah... well after reading that, I feel much more tempted to try it out sometime! Maybe not a flat out super girly skirt/dress... but maybe a kilt, for beginners.

[FMJ_Guy]

It's just cloth, OK? It won't make you 'gay' if you are worried about that!! I've had a few girlfirends and they just LOVE PUSHING guys to do 'girlie' things just for their fun, because, mostly, guys are super-uptight about things like that!! What you do, alone, or with a partner, in your private place, is between you two! You can also choose to explore things, alone, privately, and nobody needs to know!! Maybe you like it!! So GREAT!!! You found something that feels good!! Do it, as much as you like, alone, and share, maybe, with someone special!! Just don't be uptight, confused, and denying things you maybe might like, alone privately!! Do you understand? Just be comfortable feeling what YOU feel, when you are alone, privately! You would probably be surprised how many others have some other 'private things' that you would never imagine!!

[Asker]

Wow... you are completely correct! The main thing I got is to be myself, and just be comfortable with what I feel! Afterall, what anybody else thinks doesn't matter... only what me and my girlfriend think :)

[FMJ_Guy]

A lot of women like it when guys like to let go a little, and let her be the 'dominant' to a degree!! Depends on what you two like, and share, and how you feel!! I love it when she puts in the effort, and she is assertive, and likes to tell me what she likes, and what she wants. be careful, though, give an inch, they take a mile!! It's cool if you are into that, but it might go places you aren't expecting!!

[Asker]

Yep, I can see that! Though women usually are more submissive/passive, I imagine the same role all the time must get old... so mixing it up must be nice ^_^

[FMJ_Guy]

Open to private chat, if you want to talk about some things.

[MysteryPerson70]

first of all, have you ever worn a skirt or a dress before? if not, then why slander another? ps, from what i've seen, a long gypsy, flowy skirt (the best kind of skirt) should not be unequally yoked with kilts. they have not the same softness one from another, and kilts mostly just go to the knees but long, cotton skirts can be to the ankles, thus covering everything.

[JulieXO]

Skirts look really good on me, especially the short and flowy ones. I don’t feel like I worry about how I sit, I always cross my legs anyway, even if I’m wearing pants. There’s nothing uncomfortable about them in my opinion.

[Asker]

Well you certainly seem to be a huge fan of skirts and dresses, haha. And judging from your pretty face, I don't doubt that you look good in a skirt or dress. You must look great in them indeed! And short and flowy ones are your favorites, hm? Well as a guy who's never worn skirts/dresses, those are the ones I imagine I'd fear the MOST, haha. Short, so I have to watch how I sit... and flowy, so I also have to worry about how windy it is outside... But it sure just comes to show how different peoples' perspectives can be, haha. Who knows... if I was a girl, and brought up to wear skirts/dresses, maybe I'd be just like you, and not even care/think about it.

[Asker]

Also, I love how thus far, you're the only actual girl that left a comment response, heh... I meant to make this a girls only question, but whatever. Also, I can assume the girl who voted "Great! I love them!" on the poll was you, haha. Maybe not... but I'm betting a 50% chance.

[JulieXO]

Like I said, I really don’t think about how I sit. The wind is a bit of a concern but whatever.

[Asker]

Well when you're so used to crossing your legs, I guess it just sort of becomes natural, haha. But I like how even you admit that the wind is a bit of a concern, haha. That's quite hilarious. If the wind blew your skirt up, how would you react? Would you get super embarrassed and not wear skirts for a while, or would you not care, or would you get kind of embarrassed, but move on? Sort of a pervy question, but I'm curious... as someone not used to wearing skirts, for me it'd be BAD. But maybe for you, not as much, lol.

[JulieXO]

I just hold it down. I’m usually not embarrassed about it.

[Asker]

Well what else can you do? Haha. Holding it down is basic, but the only thing you can do. But not embarrassed about it, do you mean if your skirt blew up, or as you're just holding it down and other people see you hold it down? Like if a sudden unexpected breeze just came by and completely blew your skirt up, and your ass and underwear are completely exposed to strangers for a few seconds... would that make you feel super embarrassed? No matter how confident with your body you are, I'd imagine that's embarrassing, haha.

[LesterJester]

Try on a Kilt. Then you'll know

[Asker]

Ah... that'd work. They function the same as a skirt/dress... yet are not blatantly girly.

[LesterJester]

The true way to wear a Kilt however is with no underwear.

[MysteryPerson70]

what would make a skirt girly? would it be the softness? the fabric? the colour? the length? because the way i see it, if a man wore something more longer and softer then a kilt, that would not take away from his manliness (unless he started dancing and playing with the skirt as a girl would)

[MysteryPerson70]

and i keep forgetting that there are many kinds and styles of skirts. but the kind i'm specifically talking about is one like this, see it's solid black (black is not a woman associated colour) h ttps://www. etsy. com/listing/280319798/flamenco-gypsy-skirt-brown-long-skirt? ref=hp_rv-1 (copy and paste link to search bar and delete the space between h and t, lower rank link share work around)

[soe11]

My girlfriend wear only very short skirt and very short dress without underwear or occasionally G-string, also she likes get attention too, it was trained by her mom being sexy and attractive, I 👍 up to them.