With apologies, I believe that you have asked - or someone has - this question before. I really would like to answer, but as my girlfriend will tell anyone, when it comes to technology, the word that best describes me is "hopeless."
To follow the little blurbs, the lingo, the code, takes the ciphering skills of the CIA. I can tell you it looks promising - that is if you want sex, it looks promising. I can tell you that most guys will not turn down a chance at sex if they can have it. (Most, but not all.) So that is also an indicator.
However, to follow the ins and outs of these exchanges takes a deeper grasp of the technology and the so-called communication that it facilitates is well beyond me. Frankly, at least to me, the fact that you have to ask people on this site - people more qualified than I to decipher the code - suggests that as a form of communication, sexting/texting is not exactly a great choice.
Certainly, I am glad my girlfriend and I met in the old fashioned way - face to face at a business reception - otherwise I might be alone, single and bewildered right now. Honestly, I would get together with him for a date - an honest to goodness old fashioned date - and see where things lead.
Who knows? Instead of getting into the decoding business as you are now, you might find that you have a good time, that you enjoy the REAL companionship of sharing time with another human being, and if things go well it will turn out that you will enjoy each other sexually.
Worse things could happen and - Lord knows - it has to be better than trying to decode the word balloons that are called communication in a text.
In a way it is funny dear @julie10123 and cute, I don't know which more.
I am not sure 100% if it is sexting due to his bad English.
I guess what he is saying at the end, would most probably mean he wants to be in bed with you :-)
regarding the second question:
"will we have sex straight away when I see him?"
In my own opinion it depends on you two, when you meet face to face dear. That if you have never met in person before. Anything can change in real life and when the moment comes, if you know what I mean.
Again, it is the adrenaline maybe talking, or the rush of blood the moment.
He could be talking about something while you where talking about something else. Texting is never 100% reliable, especially for expressing how we really feel and what we really want!!!
The same advice I give everybody, if it is the first time you meet, then make it happen at a public place around a coffee, and if you feel comfortable enough and the chemistry is there, go for it and be safe, though, I would suggest to slow it down till you have had at least a month of real dating face to face, not electronically !!!
Thank you for sharing your question dear :-)
That's not sexting to me lol sexting to me would involve descriptions of what we would do to each other and also maybe send some pics too. But all he said is that he wants to fuck you, that's all lol but, it does seem like he wants to have sex with you even with his broken English :p
I want to feel my moist hands on your body. I want to eat you up. Lick it. Kiss it. Fuck it. Like that?
Haha yes, that definitely sounds more like sexting to me :p
We talked before remember? You said i was the guy of your dreams 😏 now im back to save you
I doubt you will meet but if you do he only wants sex
but sexting is fantasy... if they do ever meet he may turn out to be very different.
Why do people keep saying he’ll only want sex? He was never like this with me until I brought it up and I feel like I can talk to him as I feel comfortable to open up to him about anything tbh. We’re not always talking about sex too 😂
@julie10123 maybe because you didn't mention the other side of your relationship.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Either he wants to fuck you or he is really bad at English
he was probably holding his phone with one hand...
When he says "come," he probably meant "cum," as in orgasm. He wants to make you orgasm.
Sexting is when you send a sexually explicit picture of yourself. That didn't happen, so this isn't sexting. He definitely wants to sleep with you. It's up to you whether that's a good idea or not.
you can sext without nudes I have perfected the art
but not lol this is not sexting, you are correct there
Yes, that's considered sexting. It's like watching a movie with two people making out compared to the hard-core things I've sexted before, but still...
You shouldn't expect to have sex right away just because of that though.
If you've never met, there's still going to be that initial awkwardness you have to get through first. In fact, I'd put money on it that the sexting won't even be discussed and they'll act like it never happened.
At least until you start forming some form of intimate bond with them.
It's more like really flirty messaging right?
Sexting is only when you actually start saying to each other about sexual actions you are "doing" to them right?
Like
Guy: *Spanks you*
Girl: *Groans and begs for more*
Guy: *Gives you Anal*
Girl: *Screams as I get drilled like a tunnel being entered by Thomas the tank engine*
Guy: *Spanks you really hard for comparing my dick to a childs toy*
Girl: * Sceams and begs for forgiveness*
You get the gist
So this kind of stuff is sexting whereas what you have seems more like heavy flirting :/
This is as close to sexting as you can get without specifically talking about it. Instantly in bed? That depends on the expectations you have created for you both. If this is what you always talk about it's likely. If it's side chat maybe not.
The real question is, why do I keep getting invited to answer naughty questions on here? I'm antisexual, genophobic, and asexual.
I would say it is not really sexting, if it is, he's not that great at sexting. Because he didn't describe anything specific and he seem to be just following you along
This ^ AND I think you should probably let a friend know where you are going before you go to see him, and when you expect to be back If you don't have a friend you can run that by then I don't think you should do it...
Yes. Totally agree. Imagine if he was thinking about something that is way far from sex itself!!! Due to his bad English I think it is hard to guess
Ummm. TBH I'm not even sure how this is a question? Far beyond flirting, I'd say...
Its sexy flirting. If you said this in person and you were just as not serious as you are in this chat then that means you two are just getting spicy with things a little early. But thats it. You definitely were makin him horny tho, and you knew that so thats where its questionable lol
But also keep in mind he may talk a big talk and not be able to do the walk if you get my drift
Sexting is the literal showing of one another naked and sending nude pictures. talking about sex is more close to calling a sexline or pay as you go audio prositute/escort...
In my estimation, while these messages strongly insinuate sexual intent and desire, there is no outright exposition of sexual activity taking place--which, unless someone wants to correct me, is required for this to be considered sexting. "You'd fuck me? Naughty" is inference, not outright written action. Everything in this chat log is priming the couple to engage in coitus, but at no point is it pornographic in nature. Now, if at any point in this chat session he texted something like "You feel so good when I slide my hard dick inside your tight, wet pussy", that would immediate push this into the domain of outright sexting. As it stands, from what I can tell, this is merely flirting.
This is the kind of texting sent to a girl when she's coming over to a guy's house and is ABOUT to fuck, by hasn't quite made it to bedroom yet.
Honestly, that sounds like a serious invitation. If you two live close by, then definitely.
He invited you over for sex. This is not subtle. What's the problem? You don't have to jump right into sex, but if you want to go slow with him, talk to him about it in a non-sexual situation and be very specific what you will do and what you will not do when you go over. Don't blame him for your poor communication.
You don't have to jump into the big S right away, you can just touch and caress and leave it at that. If you say no, and he keeps wanting more, LEAVE IMMEDIATELY but be polite about it. Do not send mixed messages.
And he might be just as nervous as you are! He might want to try some things but not others because he's really nervous too. Almost everyone is nervous with a new partner, and especially with sex the first time.
Have you met him yet? Do you want to go in that direction with him?
I met him through college and I don’t know until I see him
Cool it with the sex talk or he'll be trying to rip your clothes off as soon as he sees you. Ask him to meet you in a public, safe place to talk. Don't let horniness lead you into trouble!
Yes.. . Sexting. Becareful when meeting... be wise.
Umm is English his first language? If it is you might not want to get involved with someone that stupid. If you accidentally get knocked up he could spread his stupid to your kids and there are already enough dump people in the world.
"spread his stupid to your kids" LMFAO 😂😂😂
i... can't... breathe... XD
hahahahahaha I guess they should slow down, and meet around a coffee somewhere public and talk face to face first. At least till she knows more about him. But yeah, you are right. I guess there are enough already!!! Thank you for that laughter :-P
I think he is attempting to sext you, but as his English isn’t great it is just coming off as flirting. If this guy actually cares about you then he’ll only have sex with you if you want too. Tbh, it sounds like he really wants to fuck you, but like I said that is all up to you.
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Am not but I think the guy wanted to sexting with you
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