Why good open minded girls are being called sluts and attention seeking girls?

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This is a very bad situation here, I am a open minded and fun loving girl. I have many guy frnds and as well as I have many girl frnds, I wear shorts cloths, I hang out with guys late nights.. same I do with girls.. they are my frnds and my frnds are life for me.. I love to help and even if u don't ask me I will help u out.. that's my nature that's how I am born. I have bigger boobs and they show.. I can not hide them in my house cupboard, I don't know why people have bad eye. Saying look at this girl she is just looking for the attention to get famous.. but I am not even a slight of it... Going for a night at frnds house and taking fun pics on bed doesn't make sense to say I getting on his dick tonight. Calling over girls at my place and having fun doesn't mean that we are making out.. I don't have family.. I find my frnds and brother as my family.. but the sick society won't understand. Also here lot of people are telling me you are attention seeker flaunting tits over your profile.. so i mean really? I am sick of saying "I don't have A cup like your girlfriend does" well this is me.. you can call me a slut 😊

cheeky_starfish · Accepted Answer

There is a general perception that girls who are attractive... and know they are attractive... and dress scantly to show off their bodies... are 'attention seekers', slutty and are showing themselves off to attract men. If you know in your heart that you are not one of these girls... that your personality and nature is not this way inclined... then continue with your life allowing these people to make these ignorant judgements of you happy in the knowledge that you are nothing like these people think you are? The problem is theirs... not yours! ;) Be happy... smile... and continue as you are? :)

unknown-creature · Accepted Answer

First of all let me say that you are really attractive, very beautiful, about your question I think that the majority of the society it's not open minded, specially in Latin American countries. This is a bad aspect of the global Society that we need to change, but please don't feel bad about those comments, just ignore them, they are not ready to understand the concept of an open mind.

Onlythisone · Accepted Answer

Society uses "tells" to group people (I'm not for this, starkly against). They don't want to bother seeing what is actually true, they try to fit you into a box based on appearance. It's up to you to decide if it's a problem and you want to change to fit society or stay as you are despite the problems.

ShoeGirl24 · Accepted Answer

Sounds like jealously. Your a good looking girl. You have the right to dress however you want. Just carry on enjoying your life 😊

LucyGrace · Accepted Answer

Nope. Being open minded is a good thing. But. Maybe not on some stuff like things that should stay in the room should stay there

nicfay74 · Answer

heyy! first of all, i wanna apologize on behalf of all guys that would call u a slut just cus u have an attractive body and ur choice of clothing! i totally get it, and it always pisses me off when my female friends get treated like that too even when i kno them personally and they're no where near "sluts". Also tho i think who you choose to get with or how many people is completely ur personal choice. what gives anyone else the right to impose their opinion on u? :/ its just a dumb societal think that i feel like is decreasing with time so thats good :) u should wear what u feel comfortable with (as long as it also meets like clothing requirements for the context - like business clothes in an office etc lol). u look really great by the way in that pic haha :P send me a message in chat if you wanna talk more! :)

ragamuffin · Answer

I think you're fine for living the way you do, I'm sure many people don't know your story. I think you're a fantastic person and would love to be in your company. I think as long as you and the people closest to you know who you are you will be happy :)

FinalVow · Answer

I think they are referring to the fact we can see through your shirt. not that your tits are showing at the top. still people should find a better way to say things or not at all. sorry people are being rude to you. good luck and best regards

wankiam · Answer

its sexism. to me a woman has the same rights as a man to be who she wants to be without being judged so harshly

slatyb · Answer

It's a vestige of tribal living. People want to control young females for their own purposes. One way they do this is by shaming young women for any display of their sexual attractiveness..

Welshman2 · Answer

That has to be one of the most attention seeking posts I have ever read!

KingDio · Answer

Na im not calling you that just beautiful you do what you want in life and some things just can't be helped.. people who say negative things are just tring to bring you down to their level :)

Az-Arm- · Answer

@OatsnWhey is she hot?

AydenHazor · Answer

Sounds like you're a pretty awesome friend. Keep being yourself, and screw what others have to say about you. Those who really matter will see who you really are, and not just the outward beauty, which is stunning in itself, but the inner beauty, that goes far beyond your appearance.

oldoldold · Answer

Lol f the peoples who say bad things don't know you don't focus on what they say. Half of it is simply you will never give us the love wish wish we could receive from you. In other words jealousy

Decentguy · Answer

people will always judge you, no matter what you wear, so its better to not care about it at all

jdrrichmond · Answer

Holy cow, you are beautiful. And, you sexuality and sensuality are yours. There is no shame as long as you are safe and don't hurt anyone.

Ailaw22 · Answer

You look great and don't come across as attention seeker acc to me. Those who say are probably jealous don't mind them

jesse1997 · Answer

Allow me to say: you are beautiful... And to answer your question, we are "afraid" of the idea of "free" girls

nudeNhorny · Answer

I wouldn't call you a slut, But I gotta mention you are giving me a raging boner 😉

SilverRain92 · Answer

Slut is someone who sleeps around with a lot of guys.
Honestly a lot of girls with big boobs size like showing them but if you don't flash your nipples in public everything is OK. You are good looking girl who loves having fun so don't listen to what people who don't really know you say about you. People are easy to judge.

Daphne93 · Answer

People tell you that are probably ugly so in order to make themselves feel better. Though I do love the attention but I dress up cause I love it.

sexcrazed123 · Answer

flaunting or not flaunting. seeking attention or not seeking attention, truth be known, you have amazing boobs. they are super sexy

Yesnomaybe85 · Answer

Wait a second What is going on here

007James007 · Answer

Simple... THEY ARE JEALOUS! Let them hate all they want ;)

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